Are remarried couples really inferior to their original couples?

You can't say that, it's actually very unscientific. Could it be that if you wear a pair of shoes for the first time, the shoes you will not be as good as those ones in the future? It can only be said that what you have experienced and what you have experienced, everything is a first come, first come, first encounter is not necessarily good, and the later is not necessarily bad.

Many original couples must have feelings at the beginning, and they have also formed a habit with each other, that habit exists silently, maybe not noticed by you, so when you divorce and remarry, you will compare the current object with the previous object, and a comparison will definitely hurt, sometimes we look at people with colored eyes like this, which is actually very unfair to the latter. This can also explain why it is difficult for the remake of the TV series to be recognized by the audience, after all, the original version is there, no matter what you do, you will be said badly, unless you really have very high strength, just like the "Dream of Red Mansions" fragment performed by the recently popular little drama bones, otherwise it is the one who has been complained about.

In fact, many remarried couples are doing well, at least in our eyes, they are better than their original partners, such as some stars in the entertainment industry. Sha Yi and Hu Ke are not the original match, Hu Ke is divorced, but so what, now and Sha Yi are not living well, and there are two sons who are loved and appreciated, Anji and Xiao Yuer, who are also a model couple in the entertainment industry, anyway, I like them very much. Therefore, it all depends on the person, as long as two people really love each other, it doesn't matter if he is a rematch or the original couple, it's good to be happy together, and caring too much about external factors is a burden.

Basically, it's not as good as the original couple, no matter how you say it, how can a halfway couple compare with the original couple? Not only traditional thinking, but also social reality is also the best illustration.

Many halfway couples are both remarried, and after experiencing the failure of a marriage, they will be somewhat defensive about remarriage. The re-formed family may also involve the children of both parties, and how can such a family usually compare to the original family? There is no blood relationship between them, so there is a certain gap between them.

A distant old watch, he is in the state of second marriage, at the beginning of his daily life, he still showed affection, in the circle of friends, family groups, for fear that everyone would not know that he had found a wife. And he also pulled his wife into the group, but within a few days, his wife quit the group by herself.

When he had dinner again, when he saw this distant old watch, he kept complaining: how can the second marriage be compared to the original couple, and now there is no common language between the two parties at all, and once again enter the state that you don't like what I don't like and I don't like you, he went on a business trip to study for a week, and his wife never looked for him, didn't ask him, he said that he thought that someone could care about it, only to find that everything was so difficult.

Moreover, his second wife never attended any of these banquets with him, saying that she was not familiar with these relatives of his. I was also drunk when I heard it, who can get acquainted with a man's family when he marries him? If you really respect him, you are really husband and wife, you have to take the initiative to get acquainted with those relatives, and his relatives are also your relatives!

The outcome of this question actually depends on the degree of affection between the two people. It is not said that remarried couples are necessarily inferior to the original couple. Whether it is remarriage or the original match, it is a married life, and it is just a husband and wife living together.

It's just that in terms of saying, I feel that the original match may sound better, but the love between husband and wife is not something that can be increased by the two words of the original match.

In fact, whether it was in the past or now, but now it is better, there are many people whose first marriage is largely because of their parents' request to be together, for example, parents will ask for the right family. may make you unable to be with the person you like, so do you think such an original marriage will be happy? Of course, it is not excluded that there is a phenomenon of cultivating feelings in the later stage.

I think there is a particularly powerful example of a remarried couple being better than the original couple, and it is still the childhood of most people. That is "Family with Children", I believe many people have watched this TV series, you see a family of five, parents plus two sons and a daughter have a lot of fun. People are remarried families, although Xia Xue didn't treat her stepmother very well at first, but her stepmother changed her with practical actions.

Therefore, a problem between remarried couples may be the children of the original couple, because the biological and stepparents always feel a little weird. But in fact, as long as people get along with each other, it is good to have hearts and feelings. No one will do anything to hurt themselves for no reason, so there is a reason to be able to live a happy married life.

In the end, I still hope that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married, and a married life with an emotional foundation is a happy and happy married life. Relationships don't change because you're married for the first time, only because of who you are and how you treat your significant other.

I don't think it's so absolute, I can only say that it is suitable or not, and there is no remarried couple who are not as good as the original match, or it may vary from person to person.

Some people will say that if you are married, maybe it is not as good as the life of the original couple, or the relationship is so good, there is no previous feeling, but I think that in fact, the problem of marriage itself is a more complicated matter, whether it is the original partner or remarriage, as long as it suits you, the two people feel that it is the best, there is no comparison of the original remarried couple, but it means that the person you choose later may not be really suitable for you, or because you have become accustomed to the previous person, so when mixing, two people may not be so used to living together. The differences between people, or the feelings, are all contrasted, because you have lived with your original partner before and are more accustomed to some living habits or ways have been accustomed, but when you care, you may change a lot of different lifestyles or some feelings, so you feel a little awkward, or there is no feeling before, but in fact, this is all a problem of your habits.

If two people live for a long time, they are actually the same, and maybe when you remarry, you will set up a barrier in your heart or have a knot, that is, you always feel very awkward, so you will feel that your current wife is not as good as the original partner. So in fact, whether it is the original match or remarriage, it is the same, there are differences between people, but it is not because of the matter of remarriage that the difference is shown, it is just that it comes first and comes. If your current person is the first to know you, you may still feel this way, so I don't think that makes so much sense.

Whether it is the current or the ex, as long as we can live together, as long as two people can be happy, it is the best, don't care about which one, the relationship needs to be cultivated slowly, and it is best to live together.

That's true! Divorced once, it means that there has been a crack in your relationship, although you are reconciled, it will not be the same as before! There is already some estrangement between you, and although you can all pretend that it didn't happen, you will have some mustard in your hearts!

Divorce is like a piece of paper being torn, and even if it is re-glued, there will still be a crack there. No matter how good your skills are, you can't really erase that crack. People who remarry, their feelings are like this piece of paper, there will always be cracks, it will not be repaired, and it will be even more obvious, there will always be a scar there!

Divorced people have seen more things, and they won't have the initial feeling! Their goals are clearer, they just want marriage, they want a family! They are not pursuing the love between the original couple, they are not as emotional as the original couple, now they all know what they want, they also know how to maintain, and they know what is the marriage they need.

Remarried couples may be more romantic than their original partners, because they both know each other and know what they want from each other! They will pay more to maintain a better marriage. As long as they have a goal, they will do whatever it takes to achieve it.

They will do their best to meet the requirements that marriage gives them!

Between remarried couples, the scar in their hearts is insurmountable! They can only show that it is not so sad, they do not want to experience this pain again, they will try their best to avoid similar things from happening again, they are more sensitive to marriage, they will make a good plan on how to manage this marriage, and then try to achieve what they want.

Marriage is a lifelong event, and the original vows will become more and more bland with the passage of time. If a couple can't spend the rest of their lives together, then choosing to divorce is also a blessing to each other, and it is a choice for both parties to choose to remarry after divorce.

And the person you meet after the divorce will not necessarily be worse than the other person you were originally matched. We all know that in the world of feelings, everyone has their own choices, and their three views are also improving step by step in the experience of life. Maybe the original husband and wife at that time would have experienced more things together, and when you were young, your life experience at that time was different from your current life experience.

People learn to grow slowly, and everyone's thoughts at the stage are different from their own experiences. This also determines what kind of person he is more suitable for being in this state now. <>

We can't beat them to death with a stick and directly say that the current remarried couple is not as good as the original couple, this is all different from person to person. Maybe because two young people were impulsive at that time, they chose to enter the palace of marriage without careful consideration or without deep contact with each other, and later in life they found that the person you chose may have contradictions in some aspects, and neither of them can better tolerate this contradiction, which may lead to your quarrel or choose to end the marriage in the future.

And the person you meet after that may be a good fit for you in more ways, you can talk in every way, and then you come together and start your other marriage again. Therefore, remarried couples can also live happily, as long as they are with their own suitable people, it is a good choice for themselves.

Many people say that the husband and wife are still the original match, but the author doesn't think so, if it has to be far-fetched, then this behavior is inevitably a stick to kill a group of people. Not necessarily all remarried couples are not as good as the original couple, on the contrary, there are many remarried couples, because they have experienced a failed marriage, but they will cherish their current life more, cherish the people in front of them, and live a happier life.

Take the TV series "Family with Children" as an example, they accompanied the entire childhood of our 90s generation, and they are a reconstituted family. All the members of their family even seem happier than many of their original families. Because they have had the experience of failure, they will avoid many mistakes in getting along.

The original couple only refers to the two people who set a lifelong life when they first choose, but it does not mean that they can go through each other hand in hand, many people find that they are not suitable for each other after marriage, and it is also a wise decision to choose divorce, we can't say that divorced people are not good, and there is no way to say that all people who have divorced and reorganized their families will definitely be happier than the previous marriage, we can only say that when they choose again, they will avoid a lot of minefields that have been stepped on before.

Therefore, the author does not think that the couples of the restructured family must not be as happy as the couples of the original family, on the contrary, because the husband and wife in the remarried family have experienced a failed marriage, they may cherish each other's true feelings more.

A primary couple is a couple who have had a relationship but have since dissolved the relationship. At present, there is no relationship between the two parties. A remarried couple, on the other hand, is a man and a woman who are currently in a legal marriage.

Second-married couples, although they have broken up with their ex-husbands and ex-wives on the surface, they have always left deep traces in their feelings, and they will compare their second-married spouses with their original partners from time to time, and most people have a strong nostalgic psychology, and they will have the idea that the second marriage is not as good as the original match, and some men will also have the idea of "ten hairs and hairs, thinking about their ex-wives all the time" after many years of second marriage! And women are of course the same.

The original couple does not pay so much attention to some details, and they do not know how to maintain a good marriage, and the remarried couple has already had the experience of a marriage, they know how to manage a marriage, and they know how to make the marriage longer.