How to help her She is so strong, her character is so strong, my personality is so strong, what shou

You have to explain to her that everyone is walking, and only the one who runs has a chance to win. Also, life is a marathon, persevere, don't just care about the results, you have to see what you won? I suggest you go and read the book written by your intimate sister.,Drink him well to communicate.,Slowly he will change.。。

This kind of person can't be helped, and if you can't accept the persuasion of others, you will never be able to help her.

It works, let it be, temper is temporary, and it is not easy for her to have this kind of measurement. It is recommended that either she does not open her mouth and passes over time, or she can divert the topic, and the topic must have a favorable relationship with her, and it must be closely related. What do you think.

You have to understand each other and tolerate each other. Never the tip of the needle against the wheat.

Otherwise, you're done.

There will indeed be a lot of friction between two people's personalities, if you both have a little bit of personality is not too good factor, and both have this characteristic, then friction will also arise, the only way is that both of you learn to be humble to each other, learn to take a step back, learn to self-reflection, restrain yourself to improve the bad place, so that it is easier to deal with, you must learn to communicate calmly between the two sides, exchange ideas with each other, and there is the so-called consciousness and attitude, when there is friction, remember your attitude, You also want to let the other party know what your attitude towards him (her) is, and then you and both sides should first think about why he (she) did this (said), and then you have to think in your heart, he (she) is also for my good, is to love me, or I love him (her), and then you can calmly take a step back, when you find that the other party has made concessions, then you should let go of your emotions, into gentle statements, and then communicate well, it will resolve friction and contradictions, because regardless of men and women, When either party speaks softly and has a gentle attitude, he or she will be affected and change his or her attitude to be gentle and kind... Unless the other party doesn't love you, then the above estimates are useless I wish you happiness (my wife and I are very similar in personality, there are many contradictions and frictions, but I love each other very much, so the contradictions and frictions are well resolved) Come on I hope to give some points, thank you.

First of all, you must face yourself correctly, if you can analyze yourself correctly and objectively, you can turn your strong personality into your own strengths. What you really want is the recognition of others, so if you want to be recognized by others, you can prove yourself in many ways, such as studying, attitude towards life, your own values, interpersonal relationships, and even developing a small good habit and so on. It all depends on what kind of person you want to be.

Want to become a master gamer? A person who is admirable in his studies? A person who is more amiable in the eyes of others?

As long as you focus all your energy on one or two goals you want to achieve, I believe that you will not be so confused in the future. Success is actually very close to you, and the key is whether you are willing to stretch out your hands and prepare to meet it.

Chen Zidan.

Don't always compare with others, there are people outside the mountains, and always chasing others will only make you very tired, set a goal for yourself. Every time you only look at your own goals, you will only backfire if you force everything.

No one is perfect, everything is competitive, and the most tired person must be yourself. Find a few points of your own strength and push him to the limit. Others admire you as much as ever!

As the saying goes, no one is perfect. No one can say that everything is better than others, if everything is good, he is a saint. Why not give yourself a chance that you can be mediocre.

It's good that people are happy to live. Wouldn't it be nice to live comfortably in your own little circle? Plain is a blessing!!

It's good to grow up and mature, and slowly learn to accumulate thick and thin.

Do what you want to do, do what you love.

It's also good to be strong, at least it can make you self-motivated.

It's okay to be so strong in the range you can as long as you don't get too tired.

Too much self-esteem

There are good and bad things in this way

Contentment, long-lasting happiness

Why care too much about those boring gains and losses???

Now for the summer vacation, you can go and find a summer job!

Find it yourself! You're sure to find what you need!

You have to really look for it!

Go your own way and don't listen to other people's opinions.

I think that being strong and jealous can be distinguished in this way: being strong is that you want to become stronger than your opponent through hard work, and when your opponent loses competitiveness due to an accident, you are not happy because of it, but feel sad and even come to the rescue, because your heart is strong; Jealousy, on the other hand, is that you want to be stronger than your opponent by any means, even by any means, because your heart is weak. Turning jealousy into being strong will make you stronger, believe that you are better than others, and although you may not be as good as others in some aspects, you also have your own strengths.

In fact, I personally feel that it is better to compare yourself with yourself than with others, after all, you are very different from others, such as life background, family conditions, etc. You can try to make yourself better every day than you were the day before, so that you will improve every day and your mood will be much better. Best wishes!

Jealousy in its right amount is good for self-improvement, but it is not appropriate to be too jealous. Instead of getting angry, you should look up to others yourself. Try.

Find someone better than you and pk it every day!

It's really strong. I was probably like this before I graduated from college, and I couldn't stand being bullied and wronged! But after entering the society, I found that social relations are actually so delicate, people get along with each other to help each other, when you need help, you can help you is the boss, I used to think that it is hypocritical to say good things to cater to others, but now I feel that sometimes a word makes others happy, is to pave the way for the future when there may be a request for others!

Gradually, I smiled at others more, and I felt that there was someone to help me wherever I went, = .= Slowly, my temper is much more stable. )

You can also travel more to the ancient town with your friends and listen more to soothing**,

You're not talking about being too competitive; But the mentality is immature, the ancients: "Victory and defeat are a common thing in soldiers" let us look down on winning and losing, while trying to enjoy the whole process from beginning to end.

Look through the red dust, desire is a harmful thing.

This is a typical death to save face.

Hello: There is nothing wrong with being so strong, I feel that I have no capital to find capital. You can look for projects that you are interested in, projects that you have strengths in, work hard for a while, and keep sticking to them, I believe that you will definitely find your strengths and naturally rebuild your confidence.

I'm sure you can do it.

A person will be so strong to prove that he is enterprising This is a very good thing As for the question of whether there is capital If you are so strong, you will work hard to complete one thing Then your ability will be improved Don't be so entangled Come on!

In today's society, this spirit of excellence is still appreciated, especially in the field of education, where teachers and students are facing this pressure.

If you have the ability to do it, you can do it. If you feel too tired to cope with it, it is a problem for you and you need to adjust.

Generally speaking, the root cause is the insecurity you felt growing up. If you don't do that to the extreme, you will be left anxious in your heart, afraid of losing a lot. This kind of bad emotional experience is the main culprit that affects your physical and mental health.

In life, we must learn to choose, do something and do nothing, in order to live elegantly.

If your student had an awkward argument with you, would you feel so uncomfortable that you would even want to retaliate? If not, your situation is benign, very reasonable and strong, and there is no need to worry too much. Try to change this situation in the future, and teach students according to their aptitude, depending on the situation, it is still more acceptable to everyone.

By the way, LS's "normal heart" is too negative, and it is right to do the best things as it should be, but if you can't achieve it despite your efforts, there is no need to investigate it deeply.

I think a lot of this is because I don't have confidence in myself, so I need all kinds of firsts to prove, so it is easy to harm students, of course, it also harms myself, learn to identify with myself, in order to better guide students to be a good person, will live a more happy life.

Perfectionism, zero mentality.

When I have time, I accompany her to praise her in many ways, not to say bluntly that she is better than others, stronger than others, just chatting can say, don't be too deliberate, how much can give her some confidence.

Wait a while to ask why, and asking now won't help.

Go with the flow, and since you're so strong, don't interfere with it.

Talk to her more, no matter who she is angry with, you criticize that person rationally and objectively. Support her, it's right to be strong, people should be like this, so that they can fight, so strong and know their weaknesses, if they are so strong and have no one in their eyes, it will be terrible.

Tell her not to rush and take her time.

Give her a lot of encouragement and strength.

I'm an expert. Let me tell you. Being strong is a very normal psychology.

Everyone's degree of strength is different, this is because this kind of psychology is very affected by childhood, the situation and heart of youth, for example, a child who has been bullied since he was a child, he will generally not be very strong when he grows up, relatively, if he is very happy in childhood and youth, he is very popular with others, and the person who is favored by adults will naturally be very strong when he grows up. The above is a normal situation, and there are also very few, such as a bad family background, and a child who is also bullied is supported by certain beliefs, although the external environment has been very bad, but people with such a character are inevitably successful, so, for him, his good heart, the psychology of not admitting defeat is basically brought to him the life he really wants, so his good heart is the strongest. And when a person who lived happily and was very favored in his youth grew up in society with his good and strong heart that was habitually raised by his friends and parents, he would have doubts about his good and strong heart.

In general, it is good to be strong, people must have a strong heart, but there must also be a limit, you must know what your "limit" is, and you can't blindly force yourself to do things that you can't do at all.