Do you really have to learn to endure in life?

If you can't think about it, don't think about it, it's an escape.

If you can't think about it, you have to think about it, it's stupid.

If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan.

If you don't have a plan now, you don't have to be patient.

You can do whatever you want, and it's not good to break the rules.

Suggestion: If you can't think about something, you can share it with your friends. Don't be afraid to be embarrassed.

Friends are used to pretend to be secrets, or to confide in their hearts.

Everyone has to go through hardship and suffering in their lives. It can't be smooth sailing. In smooth water!

When you encounter setbacks, you must work hard to overcome them. Turn problems into opportunities. You don't have to face problems with an unhappy mentality.

If you are open-minded and uplifted, you will feel that everything is beautiful. What's the point of a little problem? It's gone, it's gone.

Everything is a new sight!!

Looking at the opening point is not called forbearance, people should be open-minded, as the so-called take a step back and open the sky, endure the calm for a while. In fact, many things are very angry when I am angry, and when I look back after the incident, it is just a matter of sesame mung beans.

Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky. It's not something that all ordinary people can stand with. So as an ordinary person, it is natural that you can't help it, so don't learn to endure anymore, you should vent if you can't help it. It's easy to bear if you don't have anything.

If you want to survive well in this world, you must learn to endure a lot of things. In order to get something, sometimes you have to give up something, like happiness, self-esteem, and you have to endure it, don't you? A successful person, do you know how much he has been wronged?

Most of the reason why he can succeed is because they have a good psychological quality and can endure a lot.

If you can endure it, you can't bear it, and if you can't bear it, like some issues of principle, you can't bear it.

Of course, you have to learn to endure in life

Not everything can come according to your own nature.

But as the saying goes, there are limits to patience.

For the sake of life. To the extent that you can, within the scope of not hurting yourself.

Patience can sharpen your will.

Don't think about it, because thinking too much will be absolute.

Keep it simple.

Think more about what you like about what you like.

If you can't do it, go to sleep.

Sleeping is very decompressing

Well.! Look at the Hokage more. Teach you how to be a ninja, huh haha! Use nunchucks!

I once read a little story in a Buddhist book.

A scholar gave the study a name for Baininzhai, and someone asked him what Baininzhai meant. The scholar said that a hundred patience is to be able to endure a hundred times. Someone asked him again what he meant by Bairenzhai, and he frowned and said that he could endure everything.

Someone continued to ask him what he meant by Bairenzhai, and the scholar finally said to him angrily, "Are you asking endlessly?"

It turned out that the scholar was only talking about Bairenzhai, and you see that people only asked him three times, and he couldn't bear it.

Of course, this is just a joke.

And life is not a joke, life is to endure.

Here are two examples. In the first case, after I was discharged from the army, I first made a living in the township, and then the township was in charge of the army, so I came to the snakeskin factory to make a cashier, and there was a snake farmer who contracted the snakeskin factory. Once, my employee Lao Zhu and I went to Huangdai with this snake farmer to collect snake skins, and the boss of the other party kindly invited us to a restaurant for dinner.

Lao Zhu Gang and I sat down in the restaurant, and the snake farmer said to us seriously, I don't invite you to dinner, you go outside.

He's a lively boss who can do that.

It's a pity that we don't have any money with us.

We had to go hungry.

In the second case, around 2014, a woman from Northeast China who rented my factory ran away, and the local labor department called me and asked me to pay the wages of 70 or 80 employees in her factory. How can there be such a reason in the world, the person who rents my factory runs away and asks me, the landlord, to bear the wages of his employees.

I had to pay 280,000 yuan.

If I don't pay this money, maybe my factory won't be able to open. Because I know that my arms can't twist my thighs!

Turgenev said, do you want to be a happy person? May you first learn to endure hardship.

In my understanding, to endure hardship is to endure it.

Now I also know the saying: Plant patience in the garden of your heart, and though its roots are bitter, its fruits are sweet!

Today I can post again, and I write this article to congratulate a person who loves to write, depriving him of his writing is like depriving him of his life. The second is to tell yourself that the real world is so real, there are mountains outside the mountains, and there are heavens outside the sky, so you must clamp your tail and be a person in the future, including writing well. At the same time, here, may the NCP disappear as soon as possible, the spring is really sunny, and the people live and work in peace and contentment!

Hats off to all the Jane friends who care about me!

Only by enduring what ordinary people can't endure can ordinary people can't do. The word "forbearance" is a kind of skill, the blade hangs in the heart, and if you retreat an inch, you will not forbear, and if you advance an inch, you will not become benevolent. To endure one's own feelings, to forgive others.

If you don't think twice, you will regret it, and people can endure and worry about themselves. How to bear it when it is strong, and there is no complaint in the depths of love. Expensive but not arrogant, victorious but not disobedient, virtuous and able, rigid and forbearing.

If you identify a goal, then you must endure things, be ruthless, and deal with the aftermath steadily. Ninjas are ninjas because they are often forced to make cruel choices. To endure what cannot be endured is true patience.

If the gentleman takes what he is far away, he will be treated; Those who are great will endure it. If you endure it, you can endure it, but if you can't bear it, you can't bear it! If you are a cactus, I am willing to endure the pain to hug you.

There is something not to do, something must be done, something must be endured, and some cannot be tolerated. Young people can often endure pain, endure suffering, but cannot endure humiliation. Eight dances in the court, the soldiers can bear it, who can't bear it!

We must also learn to be "tenacious", because we encounter all kinds of difficulties on the road of life, and only a tenacious heart can support us to go on. All the way forward, sing a song.

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The stronger the person, the more far-sighted the person knows how to endure. Because to be a human being, you must learn to face anything quietly, don't be afraid that the process is very bitter, and be obsessed with a happy ending. The world is impermanent, and if you are in a hurry to know the answer and try to express yourself, you will appear frivolous and easily trapped by the state of affairs.

A truly far-sighted person is good at forbearance and can always make himself win to the end. The ancients were crowned and the Lord was crowned, so it was concealed; The velvet is full of ears, so it is also covered. When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observed, there are no fugitives.

A person's foresight can be manifested as "wise and foolish, rare and confused". If you do this, your heart will be transparent, your appearance will be mellow, and you can interact with anyone without any sense of distance.

What kind of person knows how to endure and can endure? Why.

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The stronger the person, the more far-sighted the person knows how to endure. Because to be a human being, you must learn to face anything quietly, don't be afraid that the process is very bitter, and be obsessed with a happy ending. The world is impermanent, and if you are in a hurry to know the answer and try to express yourself, you will appear frivolous and easily trapped by the state of affairs.

A truly far-sighted person is good at forbearance and can always make himself win to the end. The ancients were crowned and the Lord was crowned, so it was concealed; The velvet is full of ears, so it is also covered. When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observed, there are no fugitives.

A person's foresight can be manifested as "wise and foolish, rare and confused". If you do this, your heart will be transparent, your appearance will be mellow, and you can interact with anyone without any sense of distance.

There is a saying in the Book of Shang: "There must be forbearance, and it is help; There is tolerance, and virtue is great. Forbearance is a person's pattern, which is to pin hope on the outside world and push life into the distance.

Instead of tolerating villains, he has always tolerated them, and he has always let things that are destined to have evil consequences. No matter what happens, there will always be an outcome of this or that, and you have to take the initiative to grasp it. Endure for a while, and worry about the moment.

Endure for a lifetime, a lifetime of worry-free.

This character, according to the principle of the Chinese character "Liushu" (six methods of character formation), should be a shape and sound character, that is, the upper part of the "blade" indicates the pronunciation, and the lower part of the "heart" indicates the meaning of the fan. But since I was a child, I have heard a motto: "The word forbearance is a knife in the heart", which is to see the word "forbearance" as a word.

The people are not very particular about the knowledge of the "Six Books", but they use the glyph of "forbearance" to explain the truth of "forbearance": we must endure until we stick a knife in our hearts, and we will not resist. It's really endured to the end.

Chinese culture after the Song Dynasty emphasized the importance of patience.

In fact, forbearance, as a kind of self-cultivation, is often misinterpreted. Forbearance, it should not be held in the heart, nesting; Because the qi is not smooth, it is held in the chest, and if it is not smooth for a long time, it will be dizzy; If you are faint, you are prone to gaffes. In the end, the cultivation of forbearance will still be lost.

Therefore, forbearance should be actively and actively "resolved". It's ready to fly, if you endure it, you can only wait for death. Commonly known as: "the word forbearance is a knife in the heart", and I want to use the glyph of "forbearance" to explain the truth of "forbearance": "I have to endure until I stick a knife in my heart, and I will not resist." ”

In fact, this is a negative attitude, and the result is very sad, at the cost of completely sacrificing oneself, and no substantive problems are solved. This is not a positive attitude towards WTO accession, and it is not advisable. It is precisely because of this misunderstanding among the Chinese people that many people have adopted a negative attitude when they could have resolved the contradictions well, and as a result, the best opportunity to solve the problem has been delayed.

Therefore, instead of misleading people to "endure to the point of sticking a knife in their hearts" to make senseless sacrifices, it is better to educate people to "endure", not be afraid of danger, make decisions at the right time, and adopt the method of actively avoiding their sharpness and roundabout resolution, and attacking them in a roundabout way; Learn to avoid head-on conflicts, reduce unnecessary consumption and losses, and use softening, differentiation and other methods to finally resolve conflicts completely.