I don t want to grow up, it s contradictory

To be honest, I have that kind of idea like yours, and it's really like that. You're better than me, I'm still a high school student, I'm in college, and I haven't done anything that I'm satisfied with until now, in fact, it's all a sign of lack of self-confidence. Fear: Being both strange and scared of the surroundings.

Sometimes it's really annoying to see that your friends around you have something to do, and you want to do it but hold back. It's normal to have these thoughts at your age, and it means that you are aware of them. You don't have to think so much now, the most important thing is to study hard, get into a good university, set a goal for yourself, and move forward step by step towards the goal, there will always be progress.

It still works. In today's society, if you don't adapt, you will be eliminated. Have the confidence to keep enriching yourself.

Internally, it's important.

During this time, I also continued to reflect on my future, not only about my future, but also about my relationships. It's really annoying, but escaping is not the way, the more cowardly you are, the more you will be swallowed by something. So take heart.

Support you!

I also don't want to grow up, I have to do a lot of things and bear a lot of pressure when I grow up.

But if you want to survive in the world, you must learn to grow up by yourself, growing up may not be a pleasant thing, but if you are always a child who is loved by others, you will never gain the real respect of others, and you will not reap the happiness of real success.

Therefore, even if it is painful to grow up, we still have to grow, as long as we leave a piece of heaven for our children's selves in our hearts.

I don't want to grow up either.

Hate to grow up. But that can't be.

When I was a child, under the wings of my parents, there were naturally few contradictions.

When they grow up, they each have a family, each has its own interests, and the brothers and sisters have different temperaments and conditions, which will inevitably cause friction, and they will feel that the older they are, the more conflicts there are.

The key is to be inward-looking, just like in "The Legend of Bruce Lee", to make efforts inward and improve one's ability; If the ability is high, going to a broader level or space for development is like looking at the earth above the clouds, and the little contradiction in the Qingyou imitation at home is not worth mentioning.

As for the contradictions, we can generally try.

1. The cause of the contradiction under calm thinking, as the saying goes, a slap does not make a sound, everything has a process, and the process is still a premise.

2. Think about whether it is because of personal opinions on things and whether individuals are dealing with problems with emotions in the process of causing conflicts. No matter what you do, generally speaking, as long as you are doing or talking with emotions, in the end, it will deviate things from the right track, and thus create disagreements.

3. Think about how to solve the contradiction after the contradiction, and both sides can take a step back within the scope of what they can bear.

All in all, it is not terrible to have a contradiction, which is also irreversible, but the main thing is that after the contradiction, what we have to do is to solve it and deal with it, instead of running away, or ignoring it, or even intensifying it.