How do I survive living with people who don t have feelings?

Updated on society 2024-04-27
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel that you should be a very introverted person, a bosom friend, not a day or two can be identified, someone gets along for many years without knowing a bosom friend, I feel like making friends, get along well with your classmates, you will definitely find the advantages of people, I think you will also find your favorite person, find your bosom friend, you should be sincere in making friends, others will be sincere.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In college, not everyone falls in love, because everyone is trying to enrich themselves, your heart is very common, learn to make friends, make more positive people, and can help yourself. If you are excellent, your sense of happiness will increase, learn to adjust your mentality, don't be sad, maybe others are also envious of your happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Feelings are to be cultivated by both parties, not unilaterally. From the cultivation of common living habits, ways, hobbies, interests, and more common points, you can slowly integrate, and then reach a consensus, and there are many joys waiting for you to discover.

    As for living with people who don't have feelings, I think it's hard to get along with yourself, and it's good to be separated for a while to see if you have no attachment to each other. If it's no, there's no other way – breaking up is the best way to fix it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I believe that you are an emotionally oriented person, entering the university, it is the same at the beginning, you can slowly find the person you like, intimate friends are not something you can have as soon as you go, you will eventually wait, just like waiting for your ta, you have just entered the university, you can contact your former classmates first, go to their school, maybe there are people waiting for you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Normal, I'm almost the same as you, there are almost few girls in the Academy of Engineering, I'm generally alone, but it doesn't mean that a person's life can't be wonderful, try to enrich yourself, and a person's life is still sunny.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    That's alone, there's nothing wrong with that.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Feelings need to be cultivated slowly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In a relationship, if there is no relationship, it is difficult to hold on, let alone maintain, but whether to break up or not depends on the wishes of two people.

    It seems that most relationships are very good at the beginning, but once a long time passes, they slowly become dull, and they gradually have nothing to say to each other, and both parties don't know whether two people have no love for each other or their feelings have reached a tired period. In fact, judging this can be done through some tests.

    There may be several reasons for the weakening of feelings, first, we will habitually regard other people's kindness to us as liking, and then liking as love, maybe it is just a temporary novelty, or maybe it is possessive. Second, we will take the other person's superficial blandness as if they don't love themselves anymore, maybe he is just restraining love and doesn't know how to express love. Third, maybe we don't understand what love is, and we are very ignorant about a relationship.

    If one of the couples has no love, it depends on the situation to break up. If you are the kind of person who can't continue to endure as long as you don't have love, and you must have love to live, then whether you are the one who doesn't love or the other party who doesn't love you, breaking up is the best choice for both parties, and you may meet a better person after breaking up. If you are the kind of person who doesn't care if you don't have love, you have become accustomed to each other or have become family affection, then the left hand touches the right hand, the left hand cannot lose the right hand, maybe you can also try to fall in love with the other person again.

    If you want to save a relationship without feelings, you can try to hang out with each other every week to increase the relationship. In the evening, we discussed cooking together, and occasionally gave each other some small gifts. A small gift doesn't have to be expensive, it can be a keychain or a small flower that you make yourself, these are better than the gifts you buy casually.

    To sum up, if you think that you have no feelings in love, you can try to redeem it with some methods.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can't be together without feelings. The first thing is to communicate with each other more, and the second is to prepare some small surprises for each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's better not to be together if you don't have feelings, you will often quarrel together, and if you don't have feelings to maintain the relationship between two people, there will be a lot of problems between two people.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course we can't be together. There is no need to maintain it, because the two of you don't love each other, and being together will only hurt each other and hate each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Dear, I don't think it should be continued, because: first, it is an irresponsible marriage with no feelings for oneself, and if it continues to be maintained, it is irresponsible to oneself. Second, it is irresponsible to each other, and two people enter the palace of marriage because they have deep feelings, and they become husband and wife.

    If you know that two people no longer have feelings, they are already strangers under the same roof, and they continue to maintain and consume each other, is this responsible for each other? 3. What is the family's irresponsibility to the family? In short, the family refers to the social life unit formed between relatives on the basis of marriage, blood or adoption.

    The purpose of marriage is not only to pass on the family lineage, not only to continue the life of both men and women, but more importantly, to achieve the joy and happiness of the family. A marriage without affection is an unhappy marriage; If the marriage is not happy, how can we talk about family happiness?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Everyone's life will be mixed with all kinds of emotions, and many times the emotions that can maintain life are the love affair between two people.

    In a life without feelings, I think the two people who live together will not be really happy and happy, and many times they are not like couples with eyebrows, but more like passers-by who live together.

    This kind of situation can often be seen in the married life of our parents. At that time, free love was not popular, and many times marriages were arranged in the form of matchmaking.

    As far as I personally see in married life, although a marriage without feelings can be spent together for the rest of its life, many times it is a situation where there is nothing to say.

    Although the two of them also have a happy family, if we talk about real happiness, I think that both parties in the marriage are not happy, and the reason why I say this is the following two reasons:

    1. Lack of fun and common language For this kind of couples who have no feelings, there is no common language in many times in life, and the topics they talk about the most are always interpersonal relationships and things related to children.

    On weekdays, when two people have nothing to do, they will do their own things; Even if two people travel together, there will be no intimate actions between couples, and perhaps in their lives, they have never even held hands to go shopping.

    2. Couples who live a wealthy life, are spiritually empty and have no feelings, many times they can also get along with each other and run their families well, but this is all because they have a common goal.

    After the children go to school, the life of the two of them becomes very boring; In their free time, each other will have their own interests and hobbies.

    And many times when two people stay together, there are no words; With the increase of mobile phone functions, many people have played their own mobile phones, and their spiritual world can be satisfied in their mobile phones.

    So in light of the above situation, I don't think couples who have no feelings will not be truly happy living together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no emotion and responsibility to be together, and for the sake of responsibility, two people will also get better and better.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Life without feelings, even if two people are together, they will not live well, two people together must be based on feelings, if there is no feelings, they will be together, and each other will not be happy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think that two people will not be happy together in a life without feelings, and the most basic premise for two people to be together is to love each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If two people don't have feelings, but live together, they will actually live unhappily because there are a lot of quarrels.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If two people are not together, it means that they cannot live and spend their lives together. In this case, you can choose to live independently, continue to pursue your goals and dreams, and explore your own interests. You can also maintain proper contact, communicate frequently, share life moments, and ease each other's feelings of missing.

    Different people have different ways of dealing with it, depending on the individual's emotions and attitude towards life. In any case, the most important thing is to be yourself and live your own life and sock work.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If two people don't start together, then they can get along like ordinary friends in their daily lives, caring for and supporting each other. If both parties have feelings for each other, they can gradually deepen their understanding and trust in each other through natural communication and getting along. When the time and conditions are ripe, you can appropriately express your feelings and attitudes, establish an intimate relationship, and move towards further development and closure.

    However, it should be noted that the relationship needs to be based on mutual respect and understanding, do not exert pressure or coercion on the other party, do not make unilateral decisions, maintain an open and equal attitude, and jointly explore the direction of future development.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think the two of you are together, and I feel that the Sui Hypocrisy clan is arguing. It's very fragile. Two people who are not together can easily change their minds. It's better for the two Qinran to talk about it together, it's really better to break up, such a relationship will not bear fruit.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Communicate well. Feelings are always mutual, and only by searching and arguing like this can we miss the praises and have a long future. You can ignore my coldness and love, squander my enthusiasm wantonly, or ignore my disappointment, frustration and sadness, but that's all I like about you, and if you're done with coldness, it's over.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can't live without feelings. Relationships are built slowly. If it can't be established, life will be difficult. So, don't get married before you have no feelings. Someone who has come here will advise you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Some reunions are purely for the future growth of the child, and the couple has no feelings at all, that is, the walking dead live together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Think about family affection. Anyone who has been together for a long time will have feelings, and without love, there will be family affection, otherwise how can they be together?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If the personalities are also compatible, it is not difficult to get along with each other, tolerate each other, and after a long time, sometimes it is easy to fall in love for a long time, and on the contrary, it may be difficult to do.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's a good life like a classmate's best friend.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can pass it or you can reject it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let it be! What to do. Why.

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Hey, in this case, I personally think that if he is such a person with weak feelings, you will have to accept your fate, because no matter what you do, he will not give you a reaction. If he just doesn't understand, you can enlighten him, for example, on Valentine's Day, you chatted with him a few days ago, saying that Valentine's Day is coming, and your friend's boyfriend gave her something last year, and then you don't say it anymore, on Valentine's Day, you take the initiative to give him a gift, so that if he is still indifferent, then you will admit it.