What s it like to live with someone you can t afford to joke about?

The person who can't afford to joke is also a person who is full of bottom lines, you don't know what to say and suddenly step on his bottom line, speak carefully, accidentally he gets angry again, and one word is tired. Suddenly remembered so-and-so, he often joked with us, it doesn't matter, play, everyone is happy; As a result, once we also joked with him with a smile mentality, and he exploded instantly, wanting to scare people.

The most intuitive feeling is that you are tired, and you have to be careful in everything. I'm afraid I'll make people angry. If it's just a brief contact, just like your answers, try to be respectful of the other person and not cross the line.

But getting along for a long time can really get tired. Even more so if you're still a joker.

I believe that many people in life joke in order to shorten the distance between each other, and there is no malice. Ordinary jokes are acceptable to everyone. If the other party ignores you or even gets angry after the joke, you have to reflect on whether you said the wrong thing.

Then the next time I will change the way I speak. But it can be very laborious to think about this reflection and before you speak, especially when work and chores have exhausted most of your energy. So after getting along for a long time, you are actually restraining yourself, which invisibly consumes energy, and the feeling of exhaustion comes.

I feel very bored when I live with people who can't afford to joke, and I feel depressed with such a leader. There is no truth without precedents. I have a CD from the very early days of our system, and I haven't used it for a long time, and I've put it in the filing cabinet.

Once, when another department wanted to use it, I asked a young man to come to me to borrow it. I flipped it out for a long time before I turned it out, and that guy happened to have an unclean mouth here, and I put it inside, and I said: Damn, the baby is hidden so deeply.

I laughed it off. After he left, I was talked to by the leader. What does it mean to be so deep in the topic of conversation, is it ironic or suggestive?

There were only two words in my heart at the time: crazy.

I feel that getting along all the time seems very deliberate.,Full of tension.,I'm afraid I'll accidentally hit his string.,Because I can't relax the chat, I won't have a more life-level interaction.,Often from now on, I won't treat him as a friend from the heart.,Just feel like you know.。 ‍‍

It's very tiring, it's not the kind of situation that hurts people and then says no, it's a joke, but she says that if you make fun of you, you have to accept it with a smile, and as soon as you make a joke about her, she will be unhappy.

I don't think anyone who can't afford to joke is nothing. If you don't open it, the other party will sincerely apologize if you are unhappy. However, there is a kind of person who avoids it, this kind of person makes jokes about others all day long, and when others make fun of her, she sits down and says, "Don't make this kind of joke with me in the future." ”

Some people really can't afford to joke, and the experience is frightening step by step, and they don't dare to say anything other than stating the facts. At most, "Today's food is so salty, what do you think?" Then I got a reply: "Don't complain so much." ”

If you know he can't make a joke, don't make this kind of joke with him.,I remember that the two boys in the same class in middle school also fought because someone couldn't make jokes.,To avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.,So it's better to have a degree....

A group of people together, the so-called "people gather in kind, things in groups", everyone is a good relationship, people who love to joke, so they don't care about the importance of talking, hee and laugh, but suddenly a person who can't afford to joke is added to their circle, they will be a lot more restrained, and they should think about three points before speaking, which is really a torment for people who often joke and have no words, which is called suppressing "nature", and naturally others will not be willing to be with you. ‍‍

The first lesson in learning to joke should start with learning to laugh at yourself. Self-deprecation at the right time, with the right amount of proportion, and skill, is the most effective secret in interpersonal communication**. The right time is not to talk and laugh on a serious occasion or in a calm atmosphere, which is the basic cultivation.

Proper proportionality means that there is a lower limit to self-deprecation, and it can't make people feel skinless and faceless. Self-deprecation is not the same as self-deprecation, and a person who does not even respect himself usually makes people feel disrespectful to others. If you learn this, you can get along with people who can't afford to joke, and you won't have to be inhibited.

Working in a company, different departments will meet every night except for vacation, and sometimes it will trouble him due to work reasons. Maybe I'm too humble so it looks like I'm going to be a good bully, but after a long time of contact, I feel familiar with what happens to me, and I'm a little disgusted that he seems to think it's nothing to joke. A few days ago, I also took the small snack I just bought, and then returned the rest to me, and I felt a little uncomfortable inside.

Yesterday I also took the cigarettes I just bought and smoked half a pack (it can be said that I grabbed it, and I think it's nothing) and asked me to smoke tonight, so I asked him why he took my cigarettes yesterday, and then he also became angry and said that I can't afford to make jokes, and he won't give it to me next time, saying that he bought it tomorrow and returned it to me, and asked me what I still want. I'm also helpless about this kind of person, it's not that I can't afford to joke, it's just that this kind of person is too hateful.

Look at what jokes are there, and divide the occasion. Joking is a kind of humor, and if humor doesn't work at all, then it's boring. I can't play well anymore, and I get angry at every turn.

The person who makes the joke, he understands humor, he knows it's a joke. So it's easy to be friends with that kind of person. At least who you do with depends on how you get along, some people don't like to joke, and they don't understand how to just joke, it's more serious.

If you want to be friends, try not to joke.

There are many people who can't afford to joke, but they can be friends, and that's not what makes friends. It is also inevitable to encounter such people in work and life. So it's still important to get along.

It's very simple, it's chat to chat, work to work, don't joke about him. Because joking is his taboo. If you respect him, you will naturally win his favor, and you will have one more friend.

It's hard to joke with someone, but it's easy not to provoke him, and sometimes it's good to just leave after talking about work.

Since you can't afford to joke, let's make less jokes, the relationship between friends is not maintained by jokes, let alone what kind of person people can't afford to joke. For people who can't afford to make jokes, you first have to learn to respect, you can't afford to joke and don't be ashamed, and it's a shame to always make low-level funny jokes and ask others if you can't make jokes. No one is born out of the womb and will gag, be tolerant.

Let me tell you from my own personal experience, no one can't make jokes, everyone has their own bottom line, you touch other people's bottom line, and in turn blame others for not being able to make jokes, it is you who violate others first. You are thin, you go to joke with the fat man, you are so fat, you have a boyfriend, to laugh at other people's single dogs, trouble you to joke, to make the person being joked feel funny, instead of when the three or five people around you eat melons laugh, you have a sense of achievement, don't take your own rudeness, not being able to observe words and emotions as upright and humorous.

Just don't joke with these kinds of people. The same question can become: What do you think of people who love to joke?

The same joke, some people can't laugh at all, some people laugh half to death, there is a difference between people. So be clear, don't force others to change their personalities, and don't look for things to test others.

For the kind of people who can't make jokes, but always like to make jokes about others. Often make fun of others and belittle others, as if this makes them very face-saving! Sometimes when others respond with words, they can turn their faces in an instant! This kind of person is disgusting. ‍‍

I think introverts can't afford to joke, and when I'm with her, I'll try to avoid making jokes to her.

I think her heart is very small, and she will offend her if she accidentally says a word, and she has no sense of humor at all.

I only found out today that my husband doesn't take me with him every time he goes out to a party, drinks and eats. He said his friends were afraid of me. It is said that northerners joke that southerners can't afford to take it seriously, so it was unanimously decided that they would not joke with me casually in front of me in the future.

said that every time he joked with me, I took it seriously, saying that he was afraid that I would go home and beat my husband, and that it would affect the relationship between me and my husband and wife. Hehe, I'm so innocent, I think I'm quite humorous. My friends from junior high school, high school, and college know that I'm pretty cheerful, but I don't like to joke about relationships and marriage.

Because none of his friends are unattentive. I really can't get used to them in my heart, so I used to think that what they said I thought I could bear not to tell them, and it was enough to give them the face of my husband and friend. Also, who knows if the joke is true or false every time.

I am the only person in the emotional world that one is one, and two is two. But I can't say it. Should people who can't afford to joke be ostracized?

Why don't you joke with your own daughter-in-law, and even tell my husband that you won't let me take you when you get together to drink in the future. Inexplicably, it was as if I had committed a great crime, and he wouldn't let me go. I think that my family has always been upright, never likes to take advantage, never wants to owe favors, respects the old and loves the young, never dislikes the poor and loves the rich, never hooks up and never engages in ambiguity.

I can't afford to joke about this black pot, I really don't want to carry it. ‍‍

It will make you feel like you don't want to talk. I feel that saying a word will offend people.