Children are most afraid of being injured on the way to growth, and how should parents deal with dan

Every child's growth will inevitably encounter a variety of risks, parents should look at this with a normal mind, and teach their children how to face danger correctly, rather than just keeping children away from danger.

In the face of danger, I think that as long as it does not endanger the child's health, parents can let the child try, because in this way the child can learn to face the danger when he grows up, after all, parents cannot always eliminate the danger for their children.

Don't be afraid of your child getting hurt, face the danger head-on, and tell your child about the dangers he will encounter on the way to growth and how to deal with them. It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish.

Parents are very concerned about their children, because parents want their children to grow up healthily, but they feel that parents do not need to spoil their children too much, because your children will grow up one day, and parents cannot always protect their children. Parents are very afraid that their children will be in danger, what should they do at this time?

This is also a relatively normal thing, because parents are very afraid that their children will be hurt to a certain extent, so now many parents will not let their children do housework, and will not let children do what they can, so it will lead to children become very cowardly at this time, and such children are very dependent on their parents, and at this time parents are also very fond of children, but this kind of education method is absolutely not helpful for children's growth. Parents must be at ease, if parents do everything for their children, then you may find that your children will not know anything in the future.

Some parents are really fond of their children, and at this time, parents will not let their children deal with anything, so you will find that this child does not have any common sense of life, so you may find that children are prone to danger, because this child has no ability to deal with things independently. So parents have to educate their children correctly, and you can teach some knowledge to your children.

Therefore, parents must take this issue seriously, and parents should cultivate their children's independent qualities at this time. Therefore, parents will feel that children are prone to danger, because parents do not look at this problem correctly, and parents do not cultivate their children, so this kind of education is absolutely not beneficial to children's growth.

At this time, I will tell my child that he should not be anxious or panic when he encounters any danger, and should find a solution that suits him.

Parents must improve their children's safety awareness, let their children know the importance of safety, and they can do fire drills.

Parents must cultivate their children's safety awareness, tell their children what to do and what not to do, and let their children know the importance of safety.

Seeing this article, when mom and dad lost control of their emotions, they inadvertently planted mines and dug pits in the child's growth, and the child's memory was far-reaching and lingering.

Yesterday afternoon, I took advantage of my son's good mood to celebrate Teacher's Day for me and asked him: My classmates don't like me, and they rarely come to see me after graduating from primary school.

The son said, "You were in class at that time, so you pulled me up, beat me, and yelled at me." Who isn't afraid of you? How dare I come to talk to you! Thanks to you, I didn't have any good friends in elementary school.

I was deeply shocked: when my child was in primary school, he was young, his health was not very good when he was a child, and preschool education was done in a hurry. Because I have a son in the class, I do my best to treat all the children with great care:

Drinking water between classes, occasional snacks, sun protection, weekend activities, etc., are arranged and participated in in every detail. Left a beautiful recall, patience and memories. Also because of the pressure of learning, the children are extremely strict, and mistakes will be severely criticized, especially for the desertion of the son's class, which will never be allowed

Slap the back, kick off the stool, knock on the ...... table

Unexpectedly, these so-called wholehearted reminders not only did not make children develop a good habit of paying attention to lectures, but also caused children to feel unsafe in the classroom, leaving a mark of fear on their young minds.

At this time, I had to apologize to my son constantly: Son, I'm sorry, Mom didn't know that she made you so scared.

At that time, I was just trying to make you develop the habit of listening carefully, which was a sign of love for you. I didn't expect to use it in the wrong way, ignoring the characteristics of your age. Can you forgive Mom?

The son said: We get along day and night, you are very attentive to me, of course I know that you love me. I've forgiven you.

However, other classmates are not the way we get along, how can they not be afraid of you? How dare I go to see you? You still have to pay attention to ways and means when you treat your students, and Mu Kai can't be too fierce.

At this moment, I understand that the scars in my son's heart have already been healed under my meticulous care and beauty every day, under the nourishment of daily love, and in seeing my mother's love for my sister. However, the scars in the hearts of the students have not been healed, and I have lost the opportunity to make amends, so I can only wish the children better and better!

All ought and shouldn't, and all love is hasty but not reached. Respect children, treat each other rationally, and life will be better!

In the process of educating their children, there are some behaviors that will easily hurt their children, and some of these behaviors are not noticed by parents. In the process of educating their children, some parents will form a habit of yelling at their children to educate them. Parents think that this way of yelling will play a role, but as parents yell at their children for a long time, they will be able to control their children at a young age.

But when the child grows up, yelling at the child will not have any effect at all, but will easily cause the child to have negative emotions.

In the process of educating their children, many parents hurt their children in the name of good for their children. In the process of cultivating their children, many parents will hope that their children can master more interests and hobbies, so they will consider enrolling their children in various interest tutoring classes. By allowing children to learn in the process of interest, it can stimulate children's learning potential.

However, parents have never thought to discuss with their children, and only by discussing with their children can they know whether their children like learning interests and hobbies.

In life, many parents do not take into account their children's self-esteem, and after facing their children doing something wrong, they directly consider criticizing their children on the street. Since parents criticize their children's voices relatively loudly, it will be easy to cause passers-by. When children see their parents behaving like this, they will feel disgusted by their parents' behavior from the bottom of their hearts, thinking that the parents have directly hurt the child's self-esteem.

There are many parents who are faced with the fact that their children make mistakes in the school banquet, and the teachers will ask the parents to go to the school. But when parents know that their children have made mistakes, they will directly hit their children in front of the teacher, which also damages the children's self-esteem. Teachers invite parents to come to the school to discuss how to deal with them.

Parents should know how their children are doing in school, and parents should not always criticize their children in front of outsiders.

1.Parents make a lot of noise in front of their children, and even use their hands a lot. 2.

When the child needs to be quiet and quiet, he has been nagging. 3.In order to make the child clever and obedient, beat and scold the child.

4.A promise was made to the child, but it was not quietly fulfilled. 5.

Never praise the child, only belittle the child.

Not respecting the child's ideas, not listening to the child's opinion, often hitting the child, forcing the child to do things he doesn't like, and not saving face for the child in front of outsiders.

It's definitely not good for the child. I think that the overprotection of parents is not love for children, but a heavy burden and a harm. In one"Sterile"environment, it will only turn children into waste; Under your overprotection, the child will only grow into a "giant baby" in the end!

There is a type of parents, from the birth of their children, to kindergarten, and even every step of growth, will turn on the 24-hour "radar" protection mode. I am always afraid that the child will suffer, I am afraid that the child will be injured, I am afraid of this and that, and I can't wait to become a family shed net to protect the child all day without dead ends. As everyone knows, it was your overprotection that ruined the child Zhaojingzi!

The overprotection of parents is like turning a child into the purest diamond, which seems to be hard, but once it finds its texture and hits it hard, it will turn into shatters in an instant.

1. Poor frustration tolerance.

Zhang Zhifeng, a doctor of psychology, said: Children who are overprotected from an early age have a worse ability to withstand frustration. Think about what happens to a child who has been overprotected by his parents since he was a child, when he faces difficulties and setbacks alone?

He will be at a loss, not knowing how to face and solve it, and even be afraid and run away. Because his parents usually help him solve problems, he does not have the courage to face difficulties, let alone the opportunity to exercise his adaptability.

2. Strong sense of frustration.

New York University. Jung, environmental psychologist.

Point out that children will be proud of their independence, and this pride is confidence and security.

The inner source of the . Conversely, overprotective children will have a severe lack of security and problem-solving skills, as well as a lack of self-confidence in interpersonal interactions. In this case, the child will be full of frustration and thus become a ** of his self-doubt.

3. Anxiety. University of Mississippi, USA.

A survey was conducted and found that students who were overly protective of their parents were more anxious, more psychologically loaded, and more concerned about money and relationships.

's concerns are even stronger.

4. Don't know how to be grateful.

Parents give their children too much and unconditional satisfaction will only make them keep asking for it and take it for granted. When one day his needs are not met from his parents, he will be furious, and even resentful of his parents, and do some extreme things, there are many such examples in real life. It is the excessive protection of parents that makes children selfish, cold, narrow-minded, and ruthless.

It's not good for the child. Because this kind of overprotective behavior will harm the child's Mori Clan, this may cause the child to be very willful, resulting in the child's lack of independence and self-care ability.

Of course it's not good. This kind of behavior can easily lead to the child not having his own opinions, and it will also lead to the child being unproductive and unable to face difficulties on his own.

Not good, this will make the child dependent, it will also affect the child's ability development, and it will also make the child have a bad development situation.

1. Teach children to know the crosswalk line: The crosswalk line is a sign on the road, which is a place for pedestrians and bicycles to cross the road. So, you can't cross the road from anywhere, only the crosswalk line can be crossed.

2. Introduce the role of traffic lights to young children. Let the child know that the red light stops and the green light goes; When crossing the street, look forward, backward, left, right, and pedestrians, and when you see a vehicle, you have to give way.

3. Briefly talk about the role of the road for children: the road is a place for all kinds of vehicles and people to walk, and you can not stay or play on the road, otherwise it will not only affect the normal passage of vehicles, but also cause car accidents, which will be crippled or killed.