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Many people with disabilities are sensitive, suspicious, closed-minded, lonely, unwilling to face reality, afraid to bear setbacks, and have a strong sense of inferiority. They are limited by their physical impairments and live extremely inconveniently. If they let the shadow of low self-esteem follow, they will not develop or succeed.
Therefore, it can be said that in order to develop the cause of the disabled, to achieve success, and to improve their productive and living conditions, the disabled must eliminate their inferiority complex. For people with disabilities, the following points can be considered to eliminate inferiority complex:
Get rid of the burden of physical and mental imperfections
People with disabilities cannot look at themselves with "tinted glasses", let alone at others with "tinted glasses". People with disabilities should not think that "I am disabled, I can't do anything, I just need help from others". First of all, deny yourself, without the motivation to work hard, you will definitely not do well.
Don't think others look down on you, discriminate against people with disabilities, and be unwilling to seek help and isolate yourself. Always say to yourself, "I can do it!"
Don't compare yourself to others as a whole. Compare yourself in some way and show confidence in the comparison.
Take positive action and start with small goals
It's useless to fantasize and complain. When you become aware of your inferiority complex, you should acknowledge its existence and compensate for it with actions. Divide big goals into small ones.
Don't force them to do it right away. Start with the simple things, gain confidence, and then move on to the more complex things in order to take it one step at a time.
Give up an overly strong sense of honor
In general, people with high feelings of inferiority tend to have high self-esteem. Their psychological burden is too great. They are afraid that they will not be able to afford to be defeated by others, and they will not be able to go into battle easily.
On the one hand, a strong sense of honor pushes people to work hard, but once they fail, they fall into a deep disappointment and suffer an even greater blow to their hearts. When people with disabilities do something, they should not lose their vanity by putting too much emphasis on success. Participation is best.
Help others as much as you can
Disabled people should not just wait for help from others, but should take the initiative to help others, realize their own value in the process of helping others, find self-confidence, enjoy the joy of helping others, and help eliminate the psychological barrier of low self-esteem.
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As a disabled person, if you want to eliminate low self-esteem, you must first face up to your physical defects, and the other is to discover the shining points in your body and make yourself more confident.
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1. Correct your attitude and don't affect your emotions because of your own shortcomings.
2. Let yourself participate in some large-scale activities, so as to exercise your courage and let yourself face these things boldly.
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You must be confident, you must rely on yourself, don't rely on others, you must do what your opponent can do, don't lag behind, you can realize your dreams.
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As a person with a disability, the most painful thing is not to feel different from the people around you, to be looked down upon by those around you (although it seems to be like this in life).
The most painful thing is to fight the following ideas for the rest of your life.
The idea is: if you are a disabled person, you will definitely not be able to.
This concept is a knot that most people with disabilities cannot break in their lives.
When people with disabilities compare and perceive themselves with others, they find that they are different from others, feel that they have "defects", and when they suffer setbacks in some details of life, they blame these setbacks and blows on "defects". Over time, a mental stereotype has formed: I am a disabled person, and I will definitely not be able to.
Although there are still some employment discrimination and ridicule of disabled people in society, most of them are kind and sincere. A normal, mature person would not look down on a disabled person.
The formation of this concept is formed by the self-perception of the disabled themselves combined with their own "defects".
So, please let go of the thoughts of being looked down upon and ridiculed by others. Letting go of this thought is the first step to change.
In the second step, people with disabilities are normal or even better in other aspects, except for some parts that are indeed different from others due to physical reasons. So recognize your own brilliance and strengths.
The third step is to make your life better through your own efforts. There are many better definitions of this, it can be earning money, it can be having a good circle of friends, it can be very filial to parents, and it can be recognized by relatives and friends.
Fourth, when you complete the third step, in fact, you have done better than many seemingly normal people, there is a type of people in this world who seem to have good limbs and good health, but they eat and wait for death, act arbitrarily, hurt their parents, break the law and discipline, and do not follow the right path. These people are the real "disabled people".
Step 5: Send you a word, lame and not lost, can beat those who walk like flying but go astray.
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While God closes a door for you, he also opens a window for you to strive to discover your own potential and not care about what others think.
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Low self-esteem is a complex negative consciousness of shame, shyness, cringe, and even discouragement that people think they are inferior to others. People with low self-esteem often do not see their strengths and strengths, feel inferior everywhere, pessimistic and disappointed, and often find reasonable reasons for their inaction, thus falling into laziness and idleness. Therefore, low self-esteem is a huge obstacle to personal progress.
Many people with disabilities are sensitive, suspicious, closed and lonely, unwilling to face reality, afraid to bear setbacks, and have a strong inferiority complex. They are limited by their own physical defects, and their lives are extremely inconvenient, and if the shadow of inferiority is allowed to follow closely, then they will not be able to develop or succeed. Therefore, it can be said that in order for the cause of the disabled to develop, and for the disabled to succeed in improving their productive and living conditions, it is necessary to eliminate their inferiority.
For people with disabilities, the following points can be considered to eliminate low self-esteem:
Throw away the baggage of physical and mental impairment
Disabilities cannot use "colored glasses" to see themselves, let alone look at others with "colored glasses". Disabled people should not think that "I am disabled, I can't do anything, I can only need the help of others", first of all, deny yourself, there will be no motivation to work hard, and you will definitely not be able to do things well. Don't think that others look down on you, discriminate against people with disabilities, and isolate yourself from asking for help.
Always say to yourself, "I can do it!" "Don't compare yourself with others as a whole, but compare yourself in some way, and compare confidence in comparison.
Take action, starting with small goals
Fantasy and complaining are useless. Recognize your inferiority, admit its existence and make up for it with action. Divide the big goals into small ones, don't force them to do them immediately, start with the easy ones, gain confidence, and then do the more complex things to achieve them step by step.
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The biggest problem for your clan is how you see yourself. If you regard your flaws as the whole of life, then your whole life may become a sacrifice for your flaws, in fact, you have other qualities, other advantages, if you take your flaws as your definition, you will be cautious and constantly do all kinds of self-deprecating and self-limiting things, and even sacrifice your own happiness to avoid touching your humble self-esteem. In fact, what determines our happiness in life is not our conditions, but how we see ourselves
Because I'm flawed, I'm not worthy. If you have this sentence in your heart, you have to deal with it first, otherwise you will live in a constant compulsive repetition of the sentence. You need someone who can accept you, all of you, not define you by this flaw, you can have self-esteem in front of this person, but only if you can love yourself.
A lot of times, it's not a question of whether or not someone else accepts you, it's a question of whether we really accept ourselves, and this work is extremely important to you, otherwise you'll be living in self-validation all the time – you see, no one accepts me. From now on you need to change your inner opposing lawyer, defend your self-esteem, find the meaning of your existence as a woman, and you need to truly accept yourself, as well as a man who also accepts you.
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Everyone has low self-esteem at times. When a disabled person is in love, first of all, you have to believe in yourself. Have enough confidence in yourself.
Zhao Que that person can be with you shows that he doesn't care if you are disabled or not, no matter what kind of person you are, you must have enough confidence in yourself and each other in a round model relationship. Otherwise, it is easy to cause quarrels.
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In fact, I think it's better to find someone who is similar to you, so that everyone will feel more comfortable, and no one will look down on others.
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1.When people with disabilities fall in love, they should be confident, believe in themselves, and talk about love.
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Even normal people have low self-esteem, or occasionally low self-esteem. Therefore, it is normal for people with disabilities to have low self-esteem and lack self-confidence, so try to overcome it. If you strive to build yourself stronger and better, you will have more and more self-confidence!
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People with disabilities will always feel unconfident because of their physical defects, so they should go out and walk more and let themselves have more contact with outsiders, so that they can slowly let go of their hearts and make themselves more sunny and confident.
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Disabled people with low self-esteem can first recognize the fact that their disability cannot be changed, do what they can according to their actual situation, and use their achievements to make themselves slowly self-confident!
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Many people with disabilities do not have self-confidence, but remember that they have to do something that they are proud of.
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I think no matter what kind of person should not be inferior to a person, if you have low self-esteem, then you will not have self-confidence, then you will feel more and more lonely, and even less and less confident. No matter what kind of person we are, we have to be confident? Because as long as you are confident, life will be full of sunshine, you will also see hope for the future, and you will also move towards success.
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Why do you have low self-esteem? Because I pay too much attention to what others say about myself! If we put all this aside, there will be no inferiority.
Since you have come into this world, you will live well! You have to get up and go this time by yourself! Life is for yourself!
Not for anyone else! It's better to have fun than anything else! Since God must have created you for His reasons, I was born to be useful!
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Although disabled, the first thing to do is to plan daily fitness, enrich life, do the little things you can, learn to connect, slowly live independently, adjust your mentality, and live a positive and sunny life.
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What to do if people with disabilities have low self-esteem? Give yourself strength and don't be afraid. Have faith.
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What to do if people with disabilities have low self-esteem? On the one hand, there is no need to feel inferior, and the disability of the body does not mean that we must be weaker than others.
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It is not good for people with disabilities to have low self-esteem. We must start from the bits and pieces of life, improve our self-confidence, and live a wonderful life!
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In fact, there is nothing for the disabled to live, and they are not inferior, it depends on whether you are self-reliant and self-reliant.
In order not to let others look down on you, and not let others think that you are inferior to a normal person, although we are disabled, we must be ambitious and strong. So we have to work harder than normal people to make some achievements, so that others will not look down on you.
is the so-called disabled and strong. There are many disabled people, although they are not physically able-bodied, but their success, his career, and his efforts can be seen by others, and he lives a more colorful and prosperous life than a normal person. That would make normal people feel ashamed.
So you want not to let others look down on you. First of all, you have to have self-confidence and self-improvement, surpass others, he will never look down on you, if you work very hard and have some achievements, you yourself will be very confident, and you will not be inferior. Same as I thought, so be it!
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Self-confidence is not a gift from God, nor is it sent by a neighbor, but grows in one's own heart ...
First of all, you must not have low self-esteem, although you have a physical disability, but you must know that you are the same as an able-bodied person in terms of personality. They have the rights, you have them. And so do the obligations they carry.
The second is that you need to rely on your own efforts to win the respect of others. When God closes a door for you, He will open a window for you. When able-bodied people are studying and working hard, you don't have the time and reason to feel sorry for yourself.
Your legs are not good, you can't run fast, but your hands can be practiced very well, for example, you can draw well, you can be good at math, you can be good at language... Your self-confidence is based on your talents, so be sure to reach a certain level in a certain talent.
In fact, now that technology is becoming more and more developed, if you have a disability in the past, you may encounter great difficulties in life, so you have low self-esteem. However, the use of various new technologies has greatly expanded the ability of people with disabilities to live. I believe it will be better in the future.
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