When you see a guy you have had a crush on before, will you be tempted again?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-27
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Let go when it's time to let go, the boy who had a crush before was not together, and now that they meet, they can't make it a thing of the past again, so it's the best.

    It has been said: there is no beginning once and for all, and there is no end that cannot be tolerated. In life, what you need to grasp is that what should begin, what you should start without hesitation, and what you should end, will end cleanly.

    Just like my love for you, it's going to end here, I can't accept that in a relationship, I've become a stranger myself than loving you, I'm with you.

    I want to put away those thoughts about you, I want to put away those reluctance to you, You give too much love, I really can't bear it.

    Because of you, I am no longer happy; Because of you, I can no longer do what I want; Because of you, I'm no longer myself.

    I can't hold on to this love for the rest of my life, so this time I'm going to let go, I don't want the love you gave me, this time I'm going to let myself go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Yes. Like is like an angel, leaving an imprint in the heart, like is a memory that can not be sealed, is the initial germination of love in life, when the first taste of love, that bitterness, that excitement, that kind of excitement, people can never forget, the love at that time is so pure and flawless, will not care about each other's family, will not care whether the other party is rich, let alone care whether it is the right person, just feel that the heart is enough. Although it is difficult to achieve positive results, the heart can never be parted.

    Although it is not with the person you like to get together, but once the sincere feelings of the two have become an indelible memory, this memory with regret, regret with pain, pain with a smile feeling, only two people who really love each other will understand, when they see the person they like again, although her face is gone, her figure is out of shape, not beautiful, or he is no longer the handsome and handsome guy he was back then. However, even if it is a simple look at each other, it can instantly burn the memories of the two people, the memories stored in the hearts of the two people are instantly activated, the ripples in the hearts of the two people are still colliding, and the eyes are still the same as the two of them were at the beginning, each other's eyes are still warm, and the two hearts are still pounding. As the saying goes:

    The last thing that will not accompany the passage of time, and become disappearing is the feeling of liking, this feeling is like a hard rock, forever sealing the sweet memories of the two, standing there forever, will not be overturned by the raging wind, nor will it be worn out by the rain, she will wait there, when the former lovers look at each other again, this rock-solid memory, will diffuse, to touch each other's hearts.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, but it's not a favorite heartbeat, it's just a habitual action.

    After three years of unrequited love in college, I was exhausted of my enthusiasm and patience, and finally chose to give up. The day before the graduation photo, I mustered up the courage to send an invitation to him, who had not been in touch for a year. The heart that had been calm for a year reacted again, the fingers that pressed the keyboard kept shaking, and it took many times to finally lose the right sentence, and the heart was beating so fast that it was almost jumping out.

    He agreed, and that night, my heart was beating so fast that I couldn't sleep.

    The next day, he took two ** pictures with me under my friend's camera like he was nothing. Because of the embarrassment, there was clearly a distance between us. I was so nervous that I didn't know where to look, so I said a few polite words, "It's almost class, I'll go first."

    Looking at his back without looking back, I breathed a long sigh of relief, and my heart was like a big stone to put down.

    What I know for sure is that I was nervous not because I still liked him, but because this person had once occupied a place in my life. No matter how long it has passed, the person in front of me is still the same as the one that made my heart beat back then, and the throbbing that I encounter again now is just a habitual action in the past.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When you meet a guy you have had a crush on before, it depends on the situation, if you are still single. I will be tempted again. It's a crush or a situation where you're about to be together but aren't together.

    People have an obsession with what they want but can't get. But if you get it, it's not so precious. In fact, it's like the toys or snacks you wanted when you were a child, you couldn't get it when you were a child, on your slow growth road, if you have the opportunity, do you think you have to get it, every time you will let your parents buy it for you, until one day you get it, you may find that it is not as beautiful as you imagined, but before you get it, he is the most sacred, mysterious and beautiful thing in your heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Probably not. At different ages, the level of psychological maturity and aesthetic style of people will change. Naturally, the type of affection will also change.

    Some people, when they are young, like to be beautiful and handsome, and when they are older, they will like to have a good personality, ideas, personality, and positive outlook, or maybe when they are older, they will become lively and sunny, chic and uninhibited, and so on. When people have something, they will no longer yearn for anything, and what often attracts us is what we don't have. And we are constantly growing, in this process, we will inevitably check and fill in the gaps, and the qualities that we do not have at the beginning may be like that after a few years.

    And it is said that people will change, and people's hearts are even more so, so those enduring feelings and loves are precious, constantly praised by literati, and also arranged by screenwriters, because they are rare in reality, so they can attract people's hearts. Similarly, in adolescence, we all have more or less signs of crushes, but time has passed, and the original liking can only be left to memory, true goodbye, things have long been different, even if the preferences have remained the same for many years, how can we guarantee that the other party will not change? Maybe it's no longer the person he admired at the beginning.

    Therefore, I personally think that if you meet someone who has a crush again, you may sigh, recall, have a short dream, and be blindfolded for a while, but time has long been unable to go back to the past.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Goodbye is still a teenager, and it's not exciting, but it's still very unnatural when facing him, just like the feeling of pretending to be indifferent, knowing that you don't like it, but you will do your best in everything you do in front of him, comforting your once restless heart. Personally, I don't think so, the relationship of my youth is too different from what I am now, maybe it's because I've experienced too many people and too many things, in other words, I've grown up. There will be memories that suddenly come to my heart that are real, but the heart is no longer powerless.

    When love comes, it is often regardless of the occasion and time, and regardless of age, whether it is an arrogant workplace elite, or a humble and cowardly young student, or a mature uncle who is more than half of the age, when facing his crush, he always can't help but peek, after all, the two at this time, have not yet expressed their intentions, this kind of peeking is also a kind of observation, a kind of observation and appreciation, he will always can't help but pay attention to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Generally, you won't be tempted, unless you still have him in your heart now, and if he is still single, you will have this kind of thought. Everything is changing, what I like may only be the person and those scenes at that time, time has passed, that person may have become unrecognizable, and there may be some ripples in my heart when I encounter it again, but it is impossible to return to that deep heartbeat.

    If you don't control your emotions and move blindly, maybe the good memories in your heart will be destroyed, because as time goes by, people will become more and more realistic, and it's always good to get it, but once you get closer, you will find many shortcomings in the other party, which is not so perfect.

    If the other party becomes particularly greasy and sloppy, he can't be moved at all; Even if the other party remains young forever, maybe their thinking has changed not the style you like, or maybe the other party already has a other half by his side, and he is still qualified to be tempted if he likes it? Even if you are quietly moved in your heart, what is the point? It only adds to the troubles and regrets.

    If you meet each other again, you will become better, and you feel as always, you don't have a other half, and you may still be excited if you don't have a other half, but you will also rationally judge whether the other party has a great change in your heart and whether it is suitable for your ......If either of them has the other half, then it must be rational and restrained.

    How to put it, everyone is different, and the situation is different. If I meet someone I like again, I may face it very plainly, and time passes, letting the past pass away with the wind.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you see the boy you have had a crush on before, there is a high probability that you will be tempted again, the crush is simply beautiful, the other party is your ideal type, he may be tall and handsome or very talented, you are particularly envious, but you are afraid that the initiative will destroy this beauty. You missed the relationship precisely because of your own inactivity, so if the person you had a crush on reappears, you will also fall in love with him again or be tempted. But if the other party doesn't behave to make you feel disgusted, it will reduce the favorability, and when the favorability is reduced, then the degree of liking will decrease, so for the person with a crush, whether it is tempted again or varies from person to person.

    Therefore, if you want your crush to like yourself, you have to be one, maintain a sense of proportion, and don't let your bad side be presented in front of the other party, which is not conducive to the development of the relationship between two people. Second, create chance encounters. Appear in front of the other person as often as possible so that he can remember you, and keep the other person interested in you and take the initiative to come to you.

    Three, don't be a licking dog, have your own principles. If you do it, and the other party likes you, it's going both ways, how good.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When I met my crush again, it was more than ten years later. At the beginning, I thought he was an existence like Bai Yueguang, so handsome that he had no friends, but now it seems that he has lost that filter, and he is nothing more than an ordinary person. Maybe people will always be blinded by some imagination when they are young, so they just say hello in a friendly way, and just say that they haven't seen each other for a long time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What is it like to meet someone you once had a crush again? Everyone's feelings and experiences are certainly different. Take me as an example, my experience was a little excited, a little surprised, a little unexpected, and a little sad.

    There is also a kind of reminiscence of the past.

    When I was in high school, I always had a crush on a girl in my class, her name was Chen Rui. At that time, we went to school together, we were together after school, and we often went out to play during summer or winter vacations, and we had a good relationship, but we didn't confess until we graduated from high school. More than 10 years have passed.

    On this Sunday, I was walking alone by the river,**; On both sides of the strait, the smoke is green, and the willows are green. A garden of spring rain, spring rain, apricot blossoms, red. A few egrets float on the surface, and many tourists are looking forward to it.

    When he was sighing, a familiar figure suddenly came to him. When I got closer, it was none other than Chen Rui, a classmate I had had a crush on for many years. At that time, I was very excited, and I also felt very surprised, very surprised, and at the same time, I felt a trace of sadness, a kind of reminiscence of the past.

    There are several major changes in my mood

    1. From surprise to sadness

    After many years, you will be pleasantly surprised to meet someone you once had a crush. After that, it can be seen from his face that she is no longer the ignorant girl she was many years ago. Such a change from the other side. I felt the sadness of my mood again, and I couldn't go back to the past.

    2. From cordial to strange

    When two people first meet, they will feel very cordial, and then talk to each other until they are married, at this time, they will ask each other about each other's work, economic situation and income, and at the same time, they will feel that each other has become more secular and will have a relatively strange feeling.

    3. From wanting to get close to not daring to approach

    When I knew that the other party already had a lover, I wanted to go up to shake hands or those more cordial actions, but I could only stop and dare not approach, so as not to cause some misunderstandings among other people's husbands.

    When you meet someone who used to have a crush again, you will often be very surprised and kind at first, and then you will find that once upon a time, people who only talk about feelings have become worldly, and they will feel very strange, and then, when you understand that the other party already has a family. There is a feeling of not daring to approach. This is my personal experience, welcome everyone to leave a comment, together**.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When I met the person I had a crush on again, I still felt very sweet.

    I think I'm a very lucky guy, and the boy I had a crush on was really good. Although my emotions have been stuck in the stage of secret love, and the two of us have no deeper communication, but the person I once liked so much is still so good when I grow up, which can only prove that my vision is still very good!

    I met him on the street by chance, and we greeted each other like normal friends. He has a good job and a happy family. I think that meeting her again is like seeing a ray of light in youth, that is, the light is still radiating his charm where I can't see.

    I'm thankful to him for not being a bad old man after years of training.

    So many years later, when I met the person I had a crush on, I was very shy and proud. Although this wonderful boy never knew that I liked him, she used to be a very good memory of my youth, and now he has given me this memory, a very perfect ending. So my experience was joyful, blissful.

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