What is it like to suddenly learn that a friend you haven t seen for many years has passed away?

Very unexpectedly, although I haven't seen him for many years, I was still surprised to hear the news, after all, he has been very good in the influence, and he didn't expect to leave suddenly.

At this moment, as friends, we only miss, deeply remember and thank you for accompanying us through the past, when you are there, rainy days are often sunny, your smile, simplicity and sincerity to friends will be the eternal wealth of our lives; And losing you is a pain that we can never make up for in our lives.

My emotions are like the gloom of the desert today, and I can't give my best friend much comfort! Let us turn our grief into strength, turn our grief into perseverance, inherit our will, continue to walk in his footsteps, and comfort his soul in heaven.

I just attended his wedding in April of the year before last, and at the end of May, we were still talking and laughing, and today I suddenly saw a classmate's circle of friends, saying that I wish him a good journey, and I gave my classmate a big ** at that time, but I didn't expect that he really passed away, I was really surprised, obviously a good person, how to say that it is gone. I used to be so far away from death, but now I realize that death is very close to me, and maybe at some moment, my best friend will die.

I can't change myself, let myself go with the flow, let myself be hypocritical and indifferent, and I don't want to! Even if only those who are ignorant and sophisticated and seem to be mature cynicism are ushered in!

During this time, I always felt that my eyes were hazy and moist, and I always looked for the reason but didn't know that it was Qingming coming, and my deceased relatives were missing me over there, or I was missing my deceased relatives.

When I was in middle school, I had a friend who had good grades and good looks, and I heard her father say that she and the instructor of military training later got married, but then the man lost money in business, and they couldn't pay the money, so they were killed by the creditor. Such an excellent person, why is it gone, I have always regarded her as my good friend, but she has been dead for a long time, and life is really in the play. Such a beautiful girl actually left us all of a sudden, I actually knew.

I still remember your smile, in the blink of an eye you are gone, I don't know who to talk to about the troubles in my heart, and I want to go back to the past.

I suddenly thought, is there anyone else in this world like me, who has such a sincere and seemingly contrived emotion? Who else is like me, who can cry so sad and painful that it seems to be a hypocritical catharsis.

I know that the customs are very different from place to place, but what they all have in common is to express the sadness of the loss of my loved ones, and I can only ask him to kowtow on my behalf thousands of miles away to lay a wreath!

1. When I first heard that my good friend had died suddenly, I was extremely shocked, as if I had been hit by a hammer, and it took me a long time to wake up from the shock, and four big words floated in front of me over and over again: the world is impermanent, the world is impermanent, the world is impermanent.

2. Suddenly hearing the sudden death of a good friend, only to realize that life is short, just like a meteor passing without a trace, life is fragile, especially in the face of some stubborn diseases.

3. Good friends die suddenly, may all departures be cherished, may all kindness be treated gently, may I go through the mountains and seas, my heart for you will not change, may my face not grow old, may I die suddenly, without my entanglement, disappear like ashes, and achieve kindness. May there be no reincarnation of the world, a lifetime is enough, sighs and tears are too bitter, taste them all.

Fourth, when a good friend dies suddenly, I always feel that my eyes are hazy and moist, and I always look for the reason but I don't know, is Qingming coming, and my deceased friend is missing me over there, or am I missing my deceased friend?

5. Suddenly, I received the sad news that my friend had passed away in a car accident. In the hotel, insomnia until dawn. A pack of cigarettes is not enough. When I found the news, I felt that it was very close but far away. Tomorrow and the unexpected who will come first. Live in the moment and cherish the beautiful people and things around you.

The loss of a loved one who gets along day and night is a huge blow to everyone, as friends, what should we do to make the bereaved friends feel better?

Help a friend share the burden.

At this time, you should help your friend as much as possible to share the white things, and check and fill in the gaps in the areas that your friend has not considered because of sadness, although this will not relieve your friend's sadness, but it is also a part of your heart.

Go to your friend's mood.

Instead of trying to say too much to comfort your friend, you should reminisce about your lost loved one with him, listen to him talk about his loved one's past, and help him cry while talking, which is also a good way to vent his grief.

Accompany friends. When a friend is sad and crying, you should be by his side, hug him, wipe away his tears, and let him know that there are many relatives and friends who care about him, which is a great comfort for people who are hurting their hearts.

Comfort friends. When your friend's grief has been vented enough, you should say to your friend: "When your loved one is alive, you have done your best to treat him well, and your relatives will also live a happy life when they go to heaven, although they can't see each other with their eyes, they will also have each other in their hearts, so don't hurt your body with sadness, please mourn and be good." ”

Put away the belongings of your loved ones.

When the white affairs at home are taken care of, you can help your friend sort out his loved one's belongings and hide them in the snow to prevent your friends from seeing things and thinking about others, which will add to the sadness.

Take a friend out for a walk.

You can invite a friend to a scenic or popular place to take a break, and help him resolve the remaining sadness by edifying his mood or diverting his attention.

Encourage friends to cheer up.

When you see that your friend's mood is almost better, you can encourage your friend to return to work and life, get busy, and no longer dwell on the irretrievable past.

There are too many accidents in life, cherish every day of the moment, and pray for the departed relatives and friends.

If it feels like the relationship is not bad, then give him one last ride.

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At about 22 o'clock in the evening of December 14, 19, my friend fell from the balcony on the fifth floor of his grandparents' house and rescued him for a night and couldn't come back early in the morning of the 15th, he had a very good relationship with me, I was still a student, and that night he was listening to ** doing his homework, his mother didn't allow it, maybe he did it, he rode a bicycle from his house to his grandparents' house, and his mother rushed over to it, and this series ......of accidents happenedHe is really good, 184 tall, handsome, usually has a big personality, is very sunny and ......But I think I've been to a psychiatrist or something before because I seem to have depression ......The news said that he fell to his death, and I don't know if he jumped off or accidentally fell ......At that time, I knew the news on the night of the 15th, Sunday night, I had just come home from watching a movie with my friends, and after learning the news, my chest was very stuffy and blocked, and my heart suddenly pressed down like something, and I went to my parents with weak legs, and my face was very bad, and my lips were white, so I hugged my mother and cried. In fact, before that, two or three years ago, I was in school, and a senior who was one year older than me jumped off a ......building at schoolMy friend was in the same school as me, in a different class, and we didn't know each other, so it was really uncomfortable.