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I don't know how to comfort you, and no matter how much you say, it's pale and powerless. May the deceased rest in peace, and the living may mourn and change.
Parents are here, and there is still a place to come in life; When your parents go, there is only one way back in life. Parents want their children to be happy and healthy, so be strong and cheer up, be filial to your elders and relatives who are still alive, and don't have any regrets.
Father's love is like a mountain, and his father is the pillar of the family. If the pillars of the roof fall, the burden of the family may fall on you. I know it's hard, so you have to be mentally prepared and brave to face it. If you want not to be defeated by life, then stand up and defeat life.
The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait. Tell the world to go home and see it often.
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Life belongs to you, whether it is to travel and relax, or to communicate with friends and family, or like to be alone alone and silently digest emotions, in short, you must find a solution to the current predicament, don't carry all the pressure yourself, you have many other people who love you, people who can hug you, your father must also worry about you, there are emotions or need to be properly expressed.
In the end, you will always have the memory of your father in your heart, so he will always be with you and watch you grow up.
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First of all, it must be a stable mood to do a good job of Dad's death, learn to be independent, learn to solve all the problems in life, continue what the younger generations should continue, and live in the world Life must continue.
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Learning to accept the reality of your father's death is already a cruel fact that cannot be changed, and if you can't accept it psychologically, you will only make yourself more miserable. So, you might as well learn to accept it and learn to face it. Only if you dare to face it and give a psychological hint that your father is no longer there, the pain will not always be so strong.
2.Leave the pain to time.
Time is a better healing agent, and we don't need to deliberately forget the beauty that our father once brought us, nor do we deliberately think about the helplessness, panic and sadness in our hearts when our father passed away. We should learn to let things run their course and not always do things deliberately. Remember, time can slow down our wounds.
3.Be grateful for your father's giving.
When my father was alive, he gave us infinite love, and although he has passed away at this time, he will still watch over us in heaven and want us to live a happier and happier life. Therefore, we should comfort our father, make ourselves happier, and be grateful to our father for his cultivation and dedication to us, so that we can grow strongly.
4.Comfort your loved ones.
When a father dies, in addition to our sadness as children, in fact, our mother is the most sad person, at this time we must do a good job of comforting our relatives and give them family-like warm care. Only when you warm each other together can you become each other's support and free everyone from the pain of your father's death.
5.Try to make yourself better.
As the greatest reward for my father, I should make myself better and better, such as excelling at work, becoming a leader in my studies, and becoming a person with good interpersonal relationships in my daily life. When everything in your life, work, and study is comforted properly, your father can truly rest in peace.
6.Be the breadwinner of your family.
When your father is gone, the younger generation will mainly depend on you, and at this time you must strive to become the backbone of this family, take your own responsibilities, take care of your mother, and care for your younger brother or sister. Of course, if you are the youngest child in the family, you should also care more about your big brothers and sisters. At this moment, you should strive to become the pillar of the family, improve the life of your family, so that your father will no longer worry about you a lot, and you can walk with peace of mind.
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Life and accidents don't know which one will come first, and grief is inevitable. It is also appropriate to be sad and sad. But when you're relatively calm, you need to think about it, you still have a mom, you have siblings.
Have friends and family. There's a lot more to do ahead. In fact, people always have to face these things.
If you are a girl, comfort your mother more, because it is not only your father who has left but also the man she has been with for half her life, and if you are a boy, you should be stronger and support this side of the sky for your father.
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Father is a mountain in our hearts, the mountain has fallen, and the grief in our hearts can be imagined! But the deceased is gone, and the next thing I want to do is first of all to live a good life, if I am depressed and grief-stricken by this, the ancestors under the Nine Springs will not rest in peace; Secondly, take good care of your mother (if the old man is still alive), because she is the person your father cares about the most, a person who has been with him for decades, and when his mother lives well, the deceased will rest in peace! Wishing brothers:
Get out of the haze of grief as soon as possible, after all, life still has to be lived!
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Three years ago, when I was 26 years old, my father died suddenly.
At that time, I was also heartbroken and unacceptable I felt the same as a child, but it was 10,000 times more heartbroken than when I was a child, what should I do, I could only accept it, I could only let him live in my heart I put him ** in my wallet and took it with me I thought about him.
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Turn grief into strength! My dad died when I was 11 years old, and my mom died when I was 14 years old! My sky is falling! Haven't I come over step by step when I'm in my forties?! Cheer up, friends, and everything will be fine!
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Adults have to take on the responsibility of supporting the family.
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Silence, everyone has this time.
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1.Accept the reality: The imminent death of a father is a difficult thing to accept. As much as we wish our father would always be with us, this is not the case. Therefore, we need to accept this reality and be as prepared as possible which line of bridges to do.
2.Communicate with your father: It is very important to communicate with your father during his serious illness.
We can ask them about their wishes and needs, understand their thoughts and feelings, and thus care for them better. At the same time, it is also possible to let the father know what we think and feel.
3.Focus on your emotional and mental health: Facing the imminent death of a father who is seriously ill can be very frustrated, helpless, and lonely. Therefore, we need to focus on our emotional and mental health and seek support and help.
4.Seek professional help: If you feel unable to cope with your father's condition or your own emotional problems, you can seek professional help. A psychologist or counsellor can help us deal with emotional issues and provide support and advice.
5.Seek community support: In addition to professional help, we can also seek community support. Attending support groups, attending religious services, etc., can make us feel less alone and receive more support and help.
In conclusion, in the face of a serious illness and imminent death of our father, we need to accept the reality, communicate with our father, focus on our emotional and mental health, and seek professional help and community support. These measures can help us better cope with this challenge and continue to move forward in the days to come.
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1. Learning to accept the death of Xianhong's father is already a cruel fact that cannot be changed.
2. Dare to face it and give psychological hints.
My father is no longer in the shadows, and the pain will not be as strong as the silver branch.
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1. Don't be too sad, his old man can watch the stove provoke us. When we are happy, he can feel at ease, this is his old man's greatest wish, isn't it?
2. You have to be strong, the departed, the one who wants to look at the living, don't grieve because of his departure, please share for him what you inherited and he will not enjoy every minute and every second after the retreat.
3. He is going to another place to complete his task, and we should bless him. Because he is in close contact with nature. It's best to be happy every day.
4. Birth, old age, sickness and death, the law of nature! Don't be too sad, he will feel your filial piety!
5. The happiness of the living is the best comfort for the deceased relatives, and you must work hard to make yourself happy for the hope of the elderly!
6. Human nature, everyone can't understand the pain of losing their loved ones, we can only pray silently for the dead in our hearts, hoping that they will live well in another paradise.
7. Birth, old age, sickness and death, everything is a natural phenomenon; Since ancient times, no one has died, as long as he always lives in my heart.
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In fact, I know how you feel, in 2008, I was very sad because of the death of my fatherWhenever I think of my father, I will tell myself in my heart that my father has not left me, he has been silently watching me in the sky, accompanying me, he wants me to live happily every day, so when you think about my mother, you can silently tell yourself in your heart, my mother she just went to another world, she did not leave me, she will silently watch herself in the sky, accompany herself, if you really miss her, you can go to her grave and sit down, pay tribute to her.
My father has heart disease, belonging to congenital heart disease, in May 08, because he went back to his hometown to plant peanuts, I didn't let them plant, but he couldn't be idle, he was going to plant peanuts, but when he went home, he felt uncomfortable with his heart and had difficulty breathing, and then he was sent to the hospital, because the doctor gave him the fluid, something went wrong, and then it caused ascites.
I remember it was one morning in August, I got off work and rode a motorcycle to see my father, because the place where I lived was still a few kilometers away from where my father lived, and when I got home, I saw my father lying there motionless, and my heart was very heavy, so I quickly dialed 120, but I couldn't rescue him, I remember that I threw myself next to my father and cried and beat my chest.
Get my father back to his hometown, deal with the funeral, I can't help but miss him every day, this mood is a heart-rending feeling, every time I will tell myself, he has not left me, he has been silently watching you in the sky, every Qingming Festival or New Year's festival and my father's birthday, I will go to his grave to put a stick of incense on him, to pay tribute to him.
Eight bitter in life, bitter parting, the biggest pain in life is the life and death of relatives, your mother died, uncomfortable, this feeling I can understand, my father passed away more than ten years ago, sometimes I really miss him, I will recall the good times with him, recall the drink with him, I will pour a glass of wine, and then think while drinking.
At that time, I drank with my father in my hometown with two side dishes, and the wine I drank was 60 degrees of liquor, which was very easy to catch. I feel dizzy after drinking, but now I think about it, and I am really happy to think about it, even though I drink now, and every time I drink, I think of drinking with my father.
Missing relatives who have passed is human nature, this kind of sadness will accompany a lifetime, there is no way to erase it, the only way is to celebrate the New Year or Qingming Festival, we can go to his grave to sacrifice. Although your mother has passed away, she has not left you, she has been watching you from heaven, hoping that you will be happy.
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Don't say it, the deceased has passed away, why do you want to send it out, it is to reflect the family affection or the concern of some people, if you really want to say it, summarize it in one sentence "May there be no pain in heaven" is really uncomfortable, just look at the fish, talk to friends, talk to people with the same heart, talk to strangers, it's best not to post some other words in the circle of friends or QQ space, because you see more than just people who care about you, may you get out of your sadness as soon as possible, ready to meet tomorrow's morning sun, you still have your small family needs you.
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