Why do people become silent after experiencing so much?

Personally, I think that life is to go through a lot of things, and then slowly precipitate, from an ignorant person to an indifferent person, and then there are many things, and then he slowly becomes silent, such a person proves that he has matured and has seen through everything in the world, so he behaves more rationally. He will have his own deeper understanding of everything and everything.

Because after this person has experienced a lot of things, he knows a lot of truth and knowledge, and at this time, he also understands that talking too much is not a good thing, so he naturally became silent.

Because after people have experienced more things, people will become more and more mature, knowing that many things are not necessarily as others say, and also knowing that it is not easy for everyone to live, and they will also find that there are fewer and fewer people to blame, because everyone has their own difficulties. The most important thing is that if you say too much, you will lose it, you will experience more things, and you will learn to protect yourself with silence.

Because there is a word called "look away", when you understand a lot of truths, after experiencing the tempering of life, you will find that there is really no need to argue about many things, and when you look back, you will find that those things that are disputed are insignificant and do not need to care.

Because the heart has been severely traumatized and needs time to repair, it is better to go out and have fun to vent your emotions in this case, otherwise you will get sick after a long time in your heart.

Because after a long time, people will become silent and not good at words.

There are always a lot of unexpected things happening in life, you don't know which one will have a significant impact on our lives, and even lose some important people, when we can't bear these pains, our personality will change, we will become less talkative, and we will become preoccupied.

Our personality will change because of something big because we learn to make trade-offs after going through something, know what is important to us, and know what is lacking.

Silence is not to admit defeat and compromise, but to leave enough time for yourself to reflect, to learn, and to grow. In this way, you will become a better version of yourself after experiencing some things.

When people experience the world, there are many setbacks and tribulations, and there is not much left of the young (girl's) heart, which is the price of growth.

Some people say that silence is golden, some people say that silence is an attitude, some people say that silence is a kind of wisdom, it may be that everyone has a different understanding of silence, but there are a few points that should be the same, when you observe carefully, when a person is more and more silent there are the following points Originally, not everyone is born silent, so I will tell you a story in the first person!

I, Menghong, am a person who likes to make friends, and there are not a few friends, and I remember that since that summer, I have become slowly silent.

It was very hot that night, and a few of us had a good time saying that we would go to the street to play at night, because I happened to have a friend who had a girlfriend, and by the way he took his girlfriend to buy clothes, so it was agreed, my friend and his girlfriend were choosing clothes in the store, and a few of us were smoking cigarettes and blowing cows outside, and suddenly I heard my friend arguing with a few young people, because my friend's girlfriend was also looking at the clothes that other people were looking at, and then a few of us walked over to see the situation, Maybe because my friend's girlfriend was afraid that we would fight with them, so she took my friend away, maybe she was young and vigorous, and a few of us sent my friend's girlfriend back, and we came back to look for those people, and we still found them, and a few of us rushed to fight, because the other party was defenseless, and we were confused, and when they began to resist, my friends ran away, and I saw that I was the only one left, and I ran desperately, and they didn't chase after me when I ran to the police station, so I stayed at the police station for a night.

I went home alone at noon the next day, and when I went home, I went to my friends to see what was going on with them, but when I sat down, they said how they beat people up last night, and how they came home.

First, you always listen to others, but who has comforted you

However, a few of us agreed on where to go in a few days, and when the appointed day came, they did go out to play in advance, and when they came back, I asked them if I didn't go alone? They said they thought you wouldn't go, so they didn't call you to go early.

Second, no one likes to be alone, they just don't want to be disappointed

In the evening, I watched a few friends playing with barbecue, and I said when you organized it, you didn't call me, and they just came to eat, and then they ignored me, and they talked and laughed there, and I made an excuse to go home.

Third, you think that a person just talks a little less than usual, but in fact, it is just disappointment to the end, and only silence is left.

I think silence is a sign of disappointment at the end of a thing