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Not really, I guess what you're trying to convey is:The more frustrations you suffer in childhood, the more sensitive you become. That's for sure.
In childhood, a child who is materially deprived will grow up to be more sensitive to money and have a stronger desire to make money, because money can bring him a sense of security.
In childhood, the more mentally devastated the child, the more sensitive and more likely to be uncomfortable when he encounters similar situations when he grows up, because this can cause psychological reactions.
But this has nothing to do with the ability to resist frustration.
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This is not necessarily, there are many setbacks in childhood, and there will be two results.
One is that through guidance or self-reflection, the mentality and method of dealing with setbacks are honed, and this kind of child will inevitably have a strong ability to withstand when he grows up.
On the other hand, if you can't change your attitude towards things through your own or others' guidance, when the child grows up, her personality will become distorted and inferiority after a long period of frustration and pressure.
Therefore, it is necessary to pay special attention to children's mental health.
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Not really.
The strength of the psychological tolerance of growing up. It has something to do with many things. Frustration is only one aspect. The most important thing is how to deal with this problem after a setback.
A good family education is the key to determining the strength of psychological tolerance.
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In fact, the number of setbacks does not determine a person's psychological endurance when he grows up.
However, a child's attitude towards setbacks can have a very big impact on the psychological endurance of the child.
If parents intervene too much to help their children solve these setbacks, or if parents avoid these setbacks in front of their children, it will lead to a very weak psychological tolerance of children when they grow up.
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I don't agree with that. The more frustrations a child suffers in childhood, the weaker his psychological capacity will be when he grows up, and I don't think this is necessarily the case. Personally, the more frustrations I suffered in my childhood, the stronger his psychological endurance will be when he grows up, and he will learn from his failures and sum up his experience.
In addition, because each child has a different personality, the more frustrations some children have, the faster they grow and the stronger they are. And some children will become more and more frustrated and lose their self-confidence, which is completely caused by poor psychological tolerance. Therefore, I think this should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.
Different situations will have different results.
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In fact, setbacks are not the same as setbacks.
Material setbacks, such as painstaking efforts and straining their muscles and bones, are energy that has benefited them, fire of cast iron, and difficulties are used to hone the will.
But behind the setbacks, there must be warm spiritual support, such as the unconditional love and encouragement of parents, the unconditional support and help of family members, if there is really none, you must find strength and courage from books and other people's struggles.
These two are indispensable in order to forge an excellent person.
Now that our material living conditions are good, we still have to create some environment for our children to experience hardships and hardships, and only in overcoming difficulties can people grow, and their spirit and wisdom can be gained.
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It's not all like this, some children are more and more frustrated, some children are weak, and children with stubborn personalities are generally more and more enduring, dare to face problems, and dare to face difficulties.
Some children are more introverted, unable to withstand setbacks, and are helpless in the face of setbacks.
For introverted children, parents should encourage their children more and let them grow up quickly.
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In fact, I personally feel that children suffer more frustration in childhood. Whether the psychological tolerance is strong or weak depends on the child's personality, and the child with a different personality will have a different personality. As a result, some children have a strong personality, he will be frustrated, the more frustrated he will be, but some children have no self-confidence, if the more frustrations he draws, he will grow up with weak psychological endurance and ability.
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I don't agree with that. The more frustrations a child suffers in childhood, the weaker his psychological tolerance will be when he grows up. Because each child has a different personality, the more frustrations some children have, the faster they grow and the stronger they are.
And some children will become more and more frustrated, resulting in weak psychological tolerance. Self-confidence is gone, so I think this is still different for each person, and different situations will have different results.
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Not necessarily, the general setbacks in childhood will lead to the development of children in two aspects, one is that they are very weak and vulnerable, well, and finally become very introverted, they don't care about anything, and the other things are more and more courageous, and they are very strong to me.
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No. Setbacks may make children learn to be strong, and they will also grow their own eyes, and slowly as they get older, children will encounter more and more small setbacks, so that they will change more and stronger, and they will deal with things well. If you just blindly let the child not be a little frustrated, even if you go to kindergarten, you will not adapt well to the general environment of the kindergarten, and you will not grow better.
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The frustration that children suffer in childhood, the more they grow up, the weaker their mental ability to bear is not necessarily the case, often. Usually, when you are a child, you will grow up with more setbacks, and when you grow up, your heart will be stronger.
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That's right, the current parents are too good to protect their children, children can not stand the demolition of frustration education, the future growth of pressure and psychological tolerance will be very weak, which is undoubtedly very unfavorable to the healthy growth of children, so we must give children a bit of setbacks, let them fall on their own to get up Sensen, to experience the process of this acre, I believe it is very beneficial to the child's future growth.
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Today's children's ability to resist pressure is indeed very weak, because there is only one child in the family, and the parents are very spoiled by the children, and the children want what they want, so there is a lack of frustration and lead education.
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It is true that now every family is very protective of their own children, and will overprotect their children, which makes the children's psychology very fragile, and it is very likely to collapse when encountering problems.
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The more frustrations a child suffers in childhood, the weaker his psychological endurance may not be when he grows up, because failure is the mother of success, and he gets up from ** when he falls? As long as the parents educate properly, the more setbacks they suffered when they were children, the stronger the strength of the heart to withstand the blows.
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A child's poor psychological capacity may affect their behavior and emotional expression, but it does not mean that they will be bad. Every child is unique, and their upbringing and life experiences influence their personality and behavior.
Children's behavior and emotional expression can be affected by emotional and mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, or post-traumatic stress disorder. These issues can be alleviated with professional** and support. Therefore, when the child's behavior is abnormal, parents should take the child to a psychologist as soon as possible, so as to detect and solve the problem as soon as possible.
Parents can help their children build positive emotion regulation skills and boost their self-esteem to help them better cope with life's challenges. This includes establishing lines of communication with your child, encouraging them to express their feelings, providing appropriate support and attention, and helping them establish a healthy lifestyle and daily habits. For example, parents can encourage their children to participate in some wholesome activities, such as outdoor sports, Yu Ye Jian** class, art class, and so on.
In conclusion, a child's poor mental capacity may have a negative impact on their behavior and emotional expression, but this does not mean that they will go bad. With professional** and parental support, children can overcome these barriers and build healthy behavioural and emotional expressions. Parents should pay attention to their children's mental health problems, identify and solve problems in a timely manner, and help their children grow into healthy and happy people.
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Regarding Wu's mother's worries, I have the following opinions:
1.The worry is out of mother-child affection, but it can be somewhat meaningless. Dressing coolly does not in itself cause direct psychological harm to children, and there is no problem of violating morality or social condemnation in public.
Children's exposure to this type of clothing is also a norm for them to grow up exposed to social diversity.
2.The impact of wearing depends on the audience. Cool or revealing clothing may cause some discomfort, but the impact is mainly due to personal receptivity and aesthetic guidance.
As a modern urban society, this kind of dress is a part of daily life and cannot be avoided. The key lies in how the family and society can guide the formation of an open and inclusive aesthetic and correct value judgment.
3.Overprotectiveness of children is also detrimental to growth. Children need to adapt to the various multiculturalism in society, and parents cannot and cannot overly limit external influences.
It is important that Iwashi understands the child's thought trends through care and communication, avoids misleading, and conducts correct valence and limb value guidance at the right time, which is more meaningful than simple restrictions.
4.The social environment is always changeable, and it is not appropriate to overthink. There will be all kinds of uncontrollable influences in public places at any time, and if you worry about any small thing, it will inevitably cause trouble in your own life and mentality.
The ideal is to cultivate an open-minded mind and a tolerant vision, and to discipline children to build good judgment.
In short, the starting point of Bao's mother's worries is good, but it may be a little worried. In fact, the extent to which such environmental influences affect children is related to family-led education. The important thing is to be open-minded, communicate and interact with children, and guide them to establish correct values and healthy aesthetics.
This is more conducive to the mental health growth of children than excessive restrictions on the external environment.
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Preface: Many children have poor psychological endurance, and once they encounter setbacks, they will easily give up. Then it is recommended that parents should let go appropriately, we can't do everything for their children, so that they can't let their children be independent, and they are very dependent on their parents in thought.
Now parents love their children very much, and many families have only one child, so let's share the reasons with you.
We can observe that in a family, if there is only one child, then the four adults in the family will revolve around one child, giving all their love to one child, and if the child is spoiled excessively, it will make the child very selfish. When interacting with others, there is no politeness, so parents should not spoil their children excessively. We must give children the right amount of love, so that children can grow up healthy and happy, there are many parents who want to help their children solve problems, but children's own problems, must learn to solve their own problems, so as to improve children's ability to resist frustration.
There are many parents who like to solve problems for their children, like to pave the way for their children, and it is recommended that parents should change their wrong ideas. We have to learn to let go and get things right, especially when our children are already in school. Be sure to try to let your child do chores so that he understands his responsibilities in the family.
If everything is solved for the child, then the child has no way to be independent in his thinking, and when he encounters any problem, he wants to ask his parents for help and ask his parents to help solve it.
For children, in the process of growing up, they need to receive a certain amount of frustration education. I believe we all know very well that everything cannot be smooth in our lives, and there will always be some setbacks. If the child is very scared, parents should continue to encourage the child and let the child take the first step bravely.
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Because parents are too good to their children now, they have taken care of all the things for their children, and they have not experienced setbacks, so Danbi's children's psychological ability to bear is relatively poor.
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Because many children have not suffered now, the car is also because parents give them great protection.
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It's because the current child is so well protected by his parents, so he can't bear this setback, and his mental ability to bear it is very poor.
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Some parents will overprotect their children, making them very dependent on their parents, and it is easy for them to collapse when they encounter setbacks.
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1.Changes in family education: Today's home education pays more attention to children's self-esteem and self-confidence, as well as emotional care, which is a good way to educate.
However, some parents overemphasize this type of education and overprotect their children, so that their children lack the ability to face setbacks and criticism.
2.Changes in the education system: The current education system pays more attention to the comprehensive quality and ability of students, rather than simply academic performance. This is a good change, but it can also lead to less focus and pressure on students to achieve results and a lack of motivation to strive for excellence.
Changes in the social environment: The social environment is now more diverse and open, but also more competitive and stressful. Children face various choices and challenges, and need to have strong mental resilience, filial piety, and adaptability, but some children lack this ability and are easily affected by frustration and criticism.
3. Changes in influence: The current environment is richer and more diverse, but there are also some negative effects, such as online violence and false information, which will have an impact on children's psychology.
Therefore, in order to cultivate children's psychological resilience and adaptability, families and schools should appropriately guide children to face setbacks and criticism, cultivate their self-confidence and self-esteem, and also strengthen mental health education to help children better cope with various challenges and pressures.
These three sentences cultivate children's anti-frustration quotient.
Try not to live in a noisy environment, watch TV at ordinary times, don't listen to the sound too much, don't pluck your ears often, prevent water in your ears, don't take medicine indiscriminately, etc.
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