What s it like to not find a boyfriend?

The feeling of not being able to find a boyfriend is: a forced smile on his face, and he is very anxious!

In fact, it is not so difficult to find a boyfriend, but it is not so easy to find a suitable boyfriend for the purpose of marriage. When you fall in love at a young age, you want to be vigorous, you don't care if there is a result, you only care about what you once had; But when it comes to the age of talking about marriage, women think about it more, and their standards for boyfriends will gradually improve.

Before I met my husband, there were many boys who chased me, but I didn't say yes to any of them, because they were far from my standards, so I didn't treat them as boyfriends, and it can be said that I didn't have a boyfriend at that stage.

At 24 years old, I'm not too young, my classmates and friends are already married, and I'm left with a girlfriend or fighting alone. Although others always say: Why don't you hurry up and talk about a boyfriend, aren't you in a hurry?

We always smile and say: Don't worry, we're still young! There are a bunch of good men waiting for us.

But in fact, it's just pretending to be strong in front of others, and seeing our friends smile in pairs, how can we not be in a hurry?

My good friends often enlighten me that people are not perfect, and don't wait until the end to pick the rest of others, all of them are crooked melons and cracked dates, and it is too late to regret it. So I once thought about it, or I would just look for it, but I still couldn't deceive myself in my heart. Fortunately, no one can stop fate when it comes, and finally met my current husband, he likes me and I like him, and we officially became boyfriend and girlfriend.

finally had a real boyfriend, and at that time, I couldn't wait to save all the love and marry directly.

If you can't find a boyfriend, you don't have a shoulder to lean on, especially if you are studying or working far away from home, you will always feel lonely. No one cares about themselves when you have menstrual pain, you have to do it yourself to move things and take things, a lady has become a well-known female man, and then other girls in the dormitory sometimes ask themselves for help, so that they are becoming more and more feminine, and your roommates will praise you for being a boyfriend, but you don't really want to do this, you can't find a boyfriend, and you have to carry everything yourself.

After girls enter puberty, they begin to develop, and the cognition of gender differences is becoming more and more obvious, and there are more and more people playing in gender groups, when they have not developed and have not grown up, boys and girls are innocent, carefree, very cute and naughty, boys and girls play together without scruples, at that time we were very pure, very happy, except for class is to play, I don't know the difference between boyfriend and girlfriend, so girls naturally have no feelings about not having a boyfriend.

But after entering puberty, all this is different, girls will want to find a support, find a boy older than themselves, but because of the opposition of their parents to early love, so this emotional need is suppressed, waiting for an outbreak of time, and physiologically speaking, girls develop before boys, so psychologically speaking, girls are more mature than boys, girls also understand physiological health knowledge earlier, know the difference between boys and girls, so girls begin to unconsciously alienate boys, Girls generally think that boys of the same age are naïve, and boys and girls want to play less well than before, and generally good boys and girls who can play are junior high school students who know each other from elementary school and then go to junior high school together, so that the relationship will be much better, and when they get to college, maybe women will have something to say that they have a male girlfriend, and they are brothers with this boy, and so on.

In fact, this generally does not exist, girls say that they are best friends with a boy, can they really be as intimate as a girl's best friend, can they be like a real brother, become a real brother, a girl will become a real woman, and there may be fewer people who dare to marry her.

Sometimes lost, sometimes happy, sometimes scared, sometimes happy, happy and entangled! In fact, all the anxiety and sadness now are because of age, how can you not be in a hurry, but you don't want to find someone casually and end this life. is so happy and lonely to live, single for the past few years, at first it was relaxed, but recently I began to feel panic, worried that I would be lonely and old, worried that I really couldn't meet someone in love.

I will envy the friends around me, and I will also worry that the only few friends around me will find the other half in the near future, so I will really be alone. I'm not strong enough to be alone at all, I don't want to go shopping alone, I don't want to travel alone, I don't want to be left alone in the future.

Some time ago, I chatted with a friend, she is also an older single young woman, urged by her parents and relatives and friends, looking for it on the blind date. I asked her if she really wanted to find a boyfriend or if she wanted to find someone to marry. She said helplessly, in fact, it is good to eat, drink and have fun with friends alone, and without emotional ties, life will not be so tiring.

But my friends will have their own lives one day, and my parents are also old, so I can't live so selfishly, and I can't bear the pressure now. Finding a boyfriend has become a compulsory course for us, and we especially hope to be able to fall a boyfriend from the sky, and no longer need to search aimlessly and wait stupidly.

I hope that the person I am is already on the way here, and I hope that the next person I meet is the person I am destined to meet. Don't leave me alone anymore, wandering, waiting for you to come.

In fact, at different stages, I have different attitudes about finding a boyfriend.

Before I went to college, I had only been in love once, and when we used to be together, we kept in touch every day, ate together, studied together, had good times, and had conflicts. Later, for some reason, they separated.

When I went to college, I felt new and enthusiastic about everything around me. I actively participated in club activities, participated in debate tournaments, participated in department activities, and was very busy every day, and sometimes I couldn't even eat. But I think it's good to be busy, it's very fulfilling.

I've always longed to start another relationship, to have a good love, after all, it's shameful to be alone. But I've been looking for it, but I can't find a suitable person, someone I like, I can't find a boyfriend, I don't want to settle, but I don't want to be lonely, so just wait until he appears. <>

They say that college life is incomplete without love, and every time I see others in pairs, I am very envious, but I feel that it is difficult to get to that point. Gradually, I got used to being alone and being an independent person in college. One thinks, one eats, one does something.

It feels very fulfilling.

I often hear people in their juniors and seniors say that if they want to get rid of the single, they will go out in the future, and it will be more difficult to find a partner.

I couldn't find a boyfriend, and I experienced longing, habit, and normalcy, but I think he must be showing up soon.

I hope that one day, I will meet someone who I see as a hero and who pampers me like a treasure. I hope that when the crowd looks for him, they suddenly look back, but that person is in the dim light!

It's been more than a year since I last fell in love, and it's not like I haven't thought about finding a boyfriend in the past year, but I always feel that there is no suitable person, and I'm not the kind of person who likes to expand the scope of my communication, so there are not many boys around, and it's not strange to not find a boyfriend.

I've always felt that relationships shouldn't be deliberate, for example, if you deliberately go to some boy-rich occasions in order to find a boyfriend, or learn the games that boys love to play, and watch the NBA that boys love to watch, just to make more male friends. I don't have that much time to do this, I can't do enough things on my own, and I don't have the energy to develop some hobbies just to cater to the preferences of boys.

I just like to read, I like to run, I like food, so it's my luck that someone likes me, and I don't feel sorry that no one likes me.

It may also be that the previous boyfriend was too good, 180 tall, very handsome, very good-looking, very upright but not lacking in humor. I always compare him with the boys around me, intentionally or unintentionally, and find that they can't compare to him, everyone knows that the boys in the south are not very tall, so his height of 180 is already very high among the southerners, and he killed many people in seconds for this one. So it has something to do with him if you can't find a boyfriend, just like if you're used to wearing silk clothes, and suddenly ask you to wear linen clothes, you will definitely not accept it.

Although I envy some couples who can do a lot of meaningful things together, I can live well alone, and I am not in a hurry to find someone to achieve some kind of emotional satisfaction. And I know that I am a very sensitive person, and falling in love is a challenge for me, so let's enjoy my life alone.

It's not a shame to not find a boyfriend, so many people accompany you to be single, and there are many people who want to be single again, you don't have to envy those couples too much, because we can live well alone.

Very close friends together see that they have their other half, of course I am very envious, and I also want to meet someone I like, and I always feel that the relationship with my friends around me is getting weaker and weaker.