Why are fathers and sons the same as enemies in single father families?

Updated on educate 2024-07-27
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It doesn't matter if it's a single-parent family.

    It's still a normal family, I believe that parents must love their children, but the burden on the shoulders of a single-parent family is heavier, the pressure is greater, and he has to earn money to support the family and take care of the children, and the man himself is careless, so he is more worried than the father of a normal family. If a person bears too much pressure, he will inevitably complain and lose his temper, and he has no patience to communicate well with his child, and over time, the child will be resistant to his father, and the two people will have conflicts.

    Maybe I won't see you again, cherish it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Because single fathers have to make money while taking care of their children. No one helps you and the pressure is too much, so you lose your temper at every turn. I was even angry outside, and I went home to vent on my child.

    Therefore, the child has a fear of his father after a long time. When I grew up, there was a shadow in my heart. Fathers and sons are like enemies.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Why is it that in a single-parent family, the father and the son are the same as the enemy, because I think the psychological shadow of the child in the single-parent family is very big, and the father is not as caring as the mother, so the relationship between the father and the son is not good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What about single-parent families. The most likely to have conflicts is between the father and the son, the single-parent family, and the most likely to have conflicts is the father and the son, so if the relationship is not well adjusted, it will be easy to be like an enemy, or even an enemy, so both sides must be tolerant and restrained, and then what? More communication and interaction can reduce estrangement.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Why Single Father Families? The son and the father are like enemies, I think it may be because the father is divorced and is more strict with the son, so the son has a rebellious mentality, so he and the father are like enemies.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Why Single Father Families? The father and son are the same as the enemy, I think the two of them still have a lot of misunderstandings, they can't be solved, the two don't communicate, so over time, they are like enemies.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's up to you how you get along, right? Some people get along very well, maybe the father is too stressed to raise his son.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why is it that one-shouldered fathers, families, fathers and sons are the same as enemies, because ordinary sons think that the divorce between mother and father is father's. Sin. They don't want to leave them, they don't want to understand the reason, they just blindly blame.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This has nothing to do with single parents and parents, the main reason is that the father has not guided the child well since he was a child!

    When you grow up, you should pay more attention to guidance, rather than criticism and blame!

    For example, if your boss scolds you like a child, will you accept it, knowing that what he says is right, you will not do what he says! Isn't it?

    You can buy a book on this subject.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In a single-parent family, the father and son are not necessarily the same as the enemy, and there must be things that are not handled well, which makes the other party dissatisfied.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I am a single parent, and my father and son are like enemies, so it must be that you don't think about each other in your life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think the relationship between father and son is not good, and the child of a single-parent family is the father and the child.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think this has anything to do with whether it is a single-parent family or not, it may be the lack of communication between the father and the son.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because of the lack of communication and exchange.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why is a single father like an enemy in my father and son? In fact, there are many uncertainties in this, and it is not that all single fathers and sons are the same as enemies.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello! This is generally a father's problem, and he doesn't know how to deal with the relationship with his children.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Now many children are in a rebellious period, communicate with him more, but don't be too doting, that will think you are what you deserve, let him suffer and know that his family is the best!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Is it better for a child from a single-parent family to follow his father or his mother? In fact, I think it mainly depends on the gender of the child, if the child is a girl, then I think it will be better to follow the mother, after all, the child encounters a menstrual period and some love problems, and the father is not very easy to chat, but if it is better to follow the mother. However, if it is a boy, it is recommended that you can choose to let your child follow his father, so that the child can feel more warmth.

    In fact, I feel that the harm of a single-parent family to a child, whether it is with the mother or the father, is irreparable. Many parents don't understand why their children are always depressed after following them. Because in the minds of children, they want their fathers and mothers to be able to be by their side, which will also make the children feel happier.

    If the child lives in a single-parent family, then the father and mother will always ignore the child because of work, so I also hope that parents can pay attention to this situation, do not say bad things about each other in front of the child, and must let the child have a certain good impression of his father or mother, so as to reduce the harm to the child.

    If the child follows the mother, then the mother should not speak ill of the father in front of the child, and we must also tell the child that divorce is the problem of the parents. But parents will not lack love for you, so it can also make it easier for children to accept. In addition, when the father also wants to see the child, we cannot stop it, and we should not always quarrel with the child, otherwise it will make the child more uncomfortable.

    I hope all parents can know that because of our reasons, our children have been given less care, and at this time, we should work harder to protect our children.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is better to follow the father, because the mother after the divorce may be more irritable, more irritable, and will lose patience with the child, at this time it will make the child's psychology more fragile, very lack of love, resulting in a rebellious psychology, follow the father's words, the future life may be better.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is better to worry about the children of the family to follow the mother, because the mother is a very delicate mother, and the child will be more thoughtful.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You should follow your mother so that your child can get a good education and a good life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is definitely an impact, but only to the extent of the impact. You are a single-parent family, and your relationship with your father is like an enemy, and you are also very disgusted with the so-called relatives, and you do not have anything to do with your relatives, which reflects your personality and temper, such as the children of single-parent families are introverted, paranoid, unwilling to communicate with others, and narrow-minded. I don't know what kind of person your father was?

    Normally, every parent loves their children, and if your parents have a bad relationship, it will definitely affect you, but you are their child, and they (they) all love you. You should adjust your mentality, reflect on yourself, empathize, think more about how good Dad is to you, no one is perfect, Dad also has his own difficulties, more understanding, less hatred. In my life, I have met a boy similar to you, he can't get used to seeing his father smoking, drinking, and playing drunk, because his father is uneducated, and he thinks that his son looks down on Lao Tzu when he goes to college, so the father and son are like strangers, this is the generation gap.

    Mom and Dad are the closest people to you, and relatives and friends should also move around, help each other, be more understanding, and be less resentful. I hope that you will study hard, work hard, make yourself better and better, and have a good relationship with your classmates and colleagues, so that you can achieve your dreams and realize your beautiful wishes.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It didn't have any effect, it just said that you can't go to worship during the New Year's holidays, kiss, and can't visit. Friends and relatives can't maintain the relationship, and if one party is in trouble, the other person may not lend a helping hand. This is a very realistic human relationship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It doesn't matter, after all, the road ahead is also up to you, if you really don't have a good relationship with your father, find a chance to go out and live as soon as possible, at least then you will feel much more comfortable.

    In short, if you can move out as soon as possible, it is better than arguing with each other every day.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Now it's a single-parent family, and I don't have a good relationship with my father and my relatives are also bad. I don't want to have anything to do with my relatives, this situation doesn't matter, after all, everyone has their own ideas and ways of doing things.

    But personal advice is that if your parents are separated, it doesn't mean that your relationship with your relatives is broken. Being a single parent only means that your parents have a bad relationship, not that you and your relatives are like this. Caused disgust with relatives, more of a problem of not getting along well.

    These do not determine the blood relationship between you and your loved ones. So the best thing to do is to stay away if it's really hard to get along with. You have to try to be in contact with other people, and if one day when you have something to do you know how good it would be to have family.

    Therefore, we must learn to face this problem correctly.

    You have to know that the fact that parents do not live together does not mean that the father's approach is wrong. It can only be said that the relationship between father and mother is gone, and finally leads to the breakdown of the family. But their love for you won't change.

    Because after all, he is his biological father. As for you, you should maintain a good attitude towards the issue of parental divorce. If one day you get married, you will understand this truth.

    The reason why I say so much is to let you understand that you don't regret what you did in the future. It is also for yourself to be able to maintain a happy mood, less tangled, less troubles, so I will say so much. If you don't agree with the idea, just ignore it.

    All in all, I hope it helps.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't associate with relatives, or have anything to do with it, in fact, it doesn't matter, whether you are a single-parent family or what, the relationship between people and relatives is not very good now, they are all relatively cold, just like there is a cousin who is married now, and when you go to the banquet and find that most people don't know it, it will not have any impact, as long as you yourself will not be sad, then no one can ask you anything!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, if your relatives have caused you a lot of harm, it is advisable to stay away, it will not make any difference. But if your father is nice to you, I suggest you try to ease the relationship.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You are a single-parent boy.

    You're in this state.

    It's already having an impact on you!

    Relatives are also members of society!

    If you are disgusted with relatives!

    It shows that you have been refusing to communicate for months in your heart!

    So you should change yourself!

    Be generous! Don't feel like you're thousands of miles away!

    Can't be the main ** problem!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Unless it's relatives and fathers, they all have strong relationships and can be of great help to your future, otherwise you don't have anything to do with your relatives, and it doesn't matter, and you don't know what your father did to make your relationship with him so hostile, but everyone can't choose their own origin, and parents sometimes do some wrong things, maybe when they are old, they will realize that since they are powerless to change your relationship, then let yourself slowly become strong and successfully based in this world, Don't rely on anyone, only by making yourself very good, can you make your life perfect.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, I can be sure that not having anything to do with your relatives will have no effect on your life. And then I want to say that I feel like your relationships might be a little bit bad. Because there may be a conflict between you and your father, but in any case, don't treat your father as an enemy, and then there are relatives, relatives, sometimes it will still have some effect.

    So I suggest you moderate your relationships, of course, this is just my personal opinion, and you can leave it alone.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    At least your character is inferior and withdrawn, unwilling to contact with other people, in fact, the children of their own single-parent families are still more sensitive, if it is just a divorce caused by the discord between the parents, this is okay because there are no other problems after all, but like the relationship between you and your father is so bad, I think there may be some problems between the two of you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I feel very sorry for you when I hear you say this, it must be that they hurt you, you will have a very stiff relationship with him, you will not have any impact on your interpersonal relationship, but it will affect your mood, it will make you unhappy, your grade is still young, the future is promising, you have been living in hatred like this will make you unhappy, so you don't have to let yourself be unhappy for a long time in order to hurt your people, let it go, you can not deal with them, but you must let yourself live happily and happily!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Since you are a boy from a single-parent family, the relationship between the father and the father is like an enemy, so the so-called relatives are also disgusted by this, which is not right, and it will not do you any good in your own future. Everyone needs the companionship and care of their relatives to grow up in the world, and they all need their loved ones. Even if there's something wrong with your dad, you're too.

    You need to communicate with her well so that you can solve the problem. If you grow up, you succeed without loved ones. It doesn't make sense.

    So you still have to get along with your dad and have a tolerant heart, so that you will be happy every day.

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