I always want to spend time with a friend if I can get old

I always want to be with a friend in the ninth year. It mainly depends on the sincerity between you? If you are sincere and want to make friends, you want to get along for a long time, even to old age.

In this way, it is necessary to have a heart-to-heart relationship. Treat it with sincerity. Counterpart.

Whatever you do, think about the other person. Two people. There are opportunities to communicate and help each other.

In this way, your relationship will become deeper and deeper, and you will get along very well. It can even be used for a long time.

Your wish is good, and I hope your wish will come true! Sometimes in addition to parents and husband and wife, the relationship between friends sometimes fades when they walk, and then they disperse, I used to have good friends who grew up for 20 years, it can be said that they were inseparable at the beginning, but with the passage of time, they got married and went to other cities to develop, and now they are no longer in touch! Sometimes life is helpless, just face it calmly!

It shows that you are a person of affection.

I always want to be with a friend, and you don't know how long I can get along with it. In fact, it is also a normal person, and they are all in a period of time. As for whether you can get along with old age, it depends on whether the friendship between you can be achieved, and whether the two of you can coordinate with each other and take care of each other.

Only when two people are true friends, can you slowly have me, I have you, two people remarry, you die in all aspects can support each other uh, so that both people can develop in all aspects. Only such a person can grow old together.

If you can't live peacefully with only one or two friends for a long time, it may be a problem, but if you can't live with everyone you think you are friends for, that's probably your reason. Generally, people who can't get along with friends for a long time have sensitive, introverted, calculating, demanding, caring and other personality factors, how much do you see above? Because your specific reality is not clear, it is not good to give you advice.

But if you think I have a little truth, you can also ask, if you think I'm talking nonsense, then when I didn't say it.

Let's self-examine first, you must have a problem with this look, but don't ask too much, because people nowadays have a fast pace of life, and it is normal for it to be difficult to find close friends, and friends are still long when they were studying.

Personality is more than the pursuit of perfection. Friends, at the beginning, they get along when they see a good impression, but after a long time, they start to distance themselves when they see other shortcomings. At this time, we need a tolerant heart the most, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, tolerate the shortcomings of others, and look at the strengths of others.

If both of you are perfect, what are you doing with friends? Friends are those who have seen the eye and shared weal and woe together. So, using your strengths and helping your friends' weaknesses is the way to get along.

The same goes for friends.

Find the reason from yourself.

If you can't find it, then "genius is always in the company of loneliness".

My understanding is that it's hard to spend a lot of time with a friend, or to say that you don't have a real friend. This may have something to do with the environment you are in, or it may have to do with your own personality, the demands you place on your friends. For example, you are a tasteful person who wants to deal with elegant people, and the environment you are in determines that the friends you make are ordinary people, such as workers, farmers, businessmen, migrant workers, street citizens, etc., they cannot achieve your ideal state, so although you can get along with them, you can't integrate with them from the heart, and you will be alienated over time.

There is also the possibility that you have expectations for your friends and hope that they will be like you imagine to be a certain image, but in reality this expectation is difficult to achieve, so it will end in a breakup. In short, make friends to be more tolerant, more considerate, everyone has their own personality, in different situations, everyone's performance is very different, don't be harsh on others, you will tolerate each other, and it will be much easier to get along. In addition, we must also have true feelings for our friends, and when we are interested, we must also give something, so that friends can get along well and get along well.

Personality discord, or you yourself are asking too much of others.

It's hard to find a soulmate, you're alone, right? There's no one to talk to, and no one to give you ideas? This is the time to exercise your autonomy and judgment. But friends are also essential, so you can look for them.

Often**,QQ chats about the next day or something.··· Don't take leaving as a farewell... It's just that you can't face each other often... It's still a friend...

You should be an emotional person.

It's okay, it's human nature.

Look at the opening point, life and a lot of passers-by, come and go in a hurry.

People are most afraid of strangeness after familiarity, alienation after deep friendship, indifference after enthusiasm, and zero after expectation, but such things happen from time to time, and no one can change them. Perhaps, gathering and parting is a normal state of life, or perhaps, it is just a fulfillment of a sentence: In fact, when I walked to you, we were already on the road of parting.

Maybe this is the difference in values, this kind of thing is not recommended to say directly.

The choice is yours. 1.Perfunctory to her, that is, whatever she says, you simply reply, and after a long time, he will not come to you.

2.Tell her that you are busy, and that she should be able to feel your boredom with her after many times.

3.Be considerate of her, she wants to be friends with you so much, which means that you are still very worthy of her trust, how can you bear to let her down. Explain it appropriately.

I don't think you need to have this ideological baggage, you just treat her as an ordinary friend, and after a long time, she will also think that it is more suitable for you to be an ordinary friend. Because neither side has the desire to communicate on a deeper level, I don't think the other party will be bored. Therefore, escaping is not the way, so you can communicate generously, even if the friendship is natural, there is no need to force it.

Since she wants to be friends with you and always chats with you, and you can't refuse, why can't you tell the other party your thoughts tactfully, friends should be honest with each other in order to get along happily.

In fact, this is a question of personality charm, do you deliberately cater to her preferences when talking to her? At this time, be careful not to deliberately conflict with her, sensitive people are aware of it, you can tell her and the friend is not to say that we are friends, sometimes you don't need to say that the tacit understanding of the friend is there, but deliberately said it, and then slowly colder like this.

If it's really two people who can't get along and don't want to be friends, then when he goes to you, tell him tactfully that you have something to go out to do, and after a few times, he won't go to you again.

It's good to say no, don't think too much. Hesitation is not good for anyone. It is better to refuse decisively. There's no need to pretend to be real.

Then you just delete her, decisively refuse, and give her a clear signal of refusal.

When encountering this kind of direct distancing from you, she will slowly notice it, and she will naturally not bother.

Depending on your character, if you can't do it if you refuse directly, then perfunctory her.

Don't get along with people who don't want to get along, and don't try to get along with friends who don't get along, because that will annoy you.

You can show with your actions that you are gradually alienating her.

Say it directly, or, give her some hints.

This is really hard to accept, and a man's words are unreliable. Now is also the time to test him, to test whether he is in love with your person or your body ...

It's too fast, do you know him, take you home so quickly, see that the discipline at home is not very strict, don't do things that you regret.

It's better not to go that far, or you may be the one who will regret it! If a man wants to be with you because of sex, and because of sex he says that you love him, then he can also break up with you because of sex, saying that you can't satisfy him or something, if an accident happens and you get pregnant, what will be the outcome? Marry him like this, is he ready to get married?

Or beat it, after beating it out, it is estimated that your heart will be hurt, and you will blame him for this in the future, then you may often quarrel and finally break up, if you want to marry him, then it is best to wait for a while, about half a year, really understand him, and then do this kind of thing, don't let yourself be hurt by the boy, and regret it when you lose your body.

That's right, it's just that the development is too fast, as soon as you give it to him, he doesn't care about you before, you must be as guarded as jade!!

Stick to your ideas! If he really loves you, he will forgive you!

Don't agree, beware of infectious diseases, premarital sex is not safe, what if the other person has AIDS?

You tell him that you can't do this until you get married, and that you will be given it when you get married! Hold your horses!!

It has nothing to do with horoscopes, it depends on a person's personality.

Love is sweet and hazy, and it will slip away if you are not careful, so take advantage of the opportunity. You have always gotten along as friends, and after a long time, you will have feelings, and you will have feelings over time! Wishing you happiness and happiness!

I have been with a girl as a friend very well, for various reasons can not further development, suddenly one day he told me not bad friends, I with a girl a bunch of urine three times docked, for various reasons can not be further developed, suddenly one day he told me that not friends, I and a girl has been getting along with friends, for various reasons can not be further developed, the state is a bit of a friend with me.

Since you can't develop further, it's not that you get along very well, but that the relationship between you is a friend, and the relationship between friends and boyfriend and girlfriend is different, maybe in the process of getting along with you, she thinks you are very good, more reliable and worth relying on, she wants to be a boyfriend and girlfriend with you, she is not a bad friend, which means that what she needs is not a friend, but a lover, and I hope you will work hard to get her.

Whether you are the opposite sex or the same sex, whether you are the opposite sex or the same sex, there are the following possibilities, because there is also homosexuality.

1You have made her angry, and the boat of friendship is about to capsize.

2 She hints that you make you more proactive and want to go further with you.

3She is showing off herself, and she has many friends.

You say that you can't go further for various reasons, is it your own reason, his reason, or you both have problems.

He said that he didn't have bad friends but couldn't get along with you anymore, and since he couldn't be a couple, he broke up after a while, and such an unclear relationship hurt him a lot.

Since you can't allow others to be in the future, don't delay others, ambiguity is actually uncomfortable, if there is really no spark of love between you, there will be no such communication.

Think about it, can you really be ordinary friends?

She's hinting that you can develop further, and she's waiting for you to take a step forward, and wait until the last ultimatum for you, if you like her, grab the opportunity!

In this way, from this sentence alone, there may be two phenomena.

Hopefully, you can take it one step closer to becoming a couple.

It can also be understood as officially breaking off friendship with you, she is not bad friends, you are not much, you are not much, you are not much, you are not much.

I think girls want to develop boyfriend and girlfriend with you, you are always like this, the woman is angry, and there is no shortage of you as an ordinary friend.

One thing that is very important is whether you have ever treated her as the opposite sex, if not she is just a friend who is very close to you and is like a family member. Pure friendship between people of the opposite sex is labeled ambiguous in China, and the old idea is that there are only two kinds of relationships between the opposite sex: lovers and strangers. She said these words as far as I personally understand that your current relationship is not what she expects, I suggest you sit down and talk openly and honestly, it is best to be lovers, please keep your distance if you can't do it, unless you know the meaning of the other party's words, otherwise the above two points are my experience from more than 10 years of contact with the opposite sex, for reference only.

It seems that he doesn't want to be friends with you anymore, or he has a boyfriend, and he is afraid that the relationship with you will be affected, so just be aware, of course, through the context, it can't be the only situation, it may just be a little anxious and complaining.

If you say that you have always gotten along better, and then say that you are a friend, the subtext is nothing more than two: one is that you have offended others, and she said this kind of thing to remind you not to go too far. The second is that your relationship is very good, she is not bad for ordinary friends, she is bad for boyfriends, if this is the case, then congratulations on your youth, ride a horse and gallop!

Hello, she said this, nothing more than the end of your friendship or a hint that you can go further. In that case, why don't you make a joke and say that it's a lack of boyfriend? In this way, the worst outcome is nothing more than the beginning of the end of you, assuming that she wants you to go further, just what you think.

Hello, she said this, nothing more than the end of your friendship or a hint that you can go further. In that case, why don't you make a joke and say that it's a lack of boyfriend? In this way, the worst outcome is nothing more than the beginning of the end of you, assuming that she wants you to go further, just what you think.