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Anonymous users2024-02-13Try to stay away. This kind of parent, the older you get, the more capable they are of losing the family. If you're working right now, you'd better not give them a lot of money.
It is enough to give the same amount every month. Because the more you give them, the more greedy they become, and then it becomes a bottomless pit to give. Besides.
Do you live for your parents? You're for yourself, so don't be because of your family of origin.
and his own fate was involved.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12First of all, to be clear, parents are our elders, and we should respect them. If their behavior makes us feel dissatisfied or uncomfortable, we can do the following:
1.Communicate: Be open and honest with your parents and let them know that their actions are causing you a problem. Try to express your opinions in a calm, rational way and avoid arguments or emotional behavior.
2.Ask for help: If communication with parents doesn't get satisfactory results, consider seeking help from other family members or friends. They may offer some neutral advice or support.
3.Keep your distance: If you feel like you can't change your parents' behavior, try keeping your distance. This means reducing contact with them and avoiding triggering unpleasant situations when communicating with them.
Whatever measures we take, we should try our best to keep ourselves emotionally stable and healthy and avoid being disturbed and influenced by the outside world.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11In this case, you have to do it on your own. Create your own wealth and life, don't rely on your parents, such parents may have to stay away and do your duty.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Summary. Kiss <>
Help your son create a monthly budget that includes necessities, entertainment, travel, and more. When making a budget, take into account its income and expenses, make sure that it has enough money to cover the necessary expenses, and give a certain amount of entertainment and tourism expenditures. Reward and punishment system:
If the son continues to squander money uncontrollably, parents can consider setting up a system of rewards and punishments. For example, the son can get bonuses when he consciously controls his spending, or he can lose certain privileges if he continues to spend excessively.
What should the son do with his parents who are losers.
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Help your son create a monthly budget that includes necessities, entertainment, travel, and more. When drawing up a budget, take into account its income and expenditures, make sure that it has enough money to cover the necessary expenses, and give it a certain amount of money for entertainment and tourism. Reward and punishment system:
If the son continues to squander money uncontrollably, parents can consider setting up a system of rewards and punishments. For example, the son can get bonuses when he consciously controls his spending, or he can lose certain privileges if he continues to spend excessively.
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Parents can talk to their children about the possible outcomes and emphasize the importance of saving and managing their money. Qiqiao also thinks that the side banquet can be a way to save money, and looks forward to the child's own suggestions.
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No, can you describe your problem in detail? I can make this according to your specific situation.
My son is no longer a simple loser.
He was in his twenties.
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What kind of state is he in now?
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What are the aspects that the 20-year-old losers refer to?
Two million. Kiss <>
Have you been pampered since you were a child?
It doesn't break the law. It's just blindly doing business to make a lot of money.
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It's normal to lose money in business. But the business, you as a parent, haven't you reviewed it?
Today's children are not pampered.
That's it. Never tell us. Something happened. Can we leave it alone.
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Can he grow through failure?
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For example: He knew his business was failing. Have I talked to you in detail?
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Or just fail and fail. I don't care about the performance.
When you encounter stingy parents, you have to accept it, after all, this is not an option. Family affection is filial piety first, since you want to be filial to them, you have to have a place to try to achieve a balance, on a certain basis, change them, let them see that your lifestyle is a lot of benefits, in this way, with the cumulative impact, they will also change a lot, and you must instill them in life, you are not short of money, do not have any worries, and then you live a generous life in daily life and try to provide them with a little more, material security, They may also slowly become less stingy.
Sometimes it's not that the child is unwilling to communicate with his parents, but that the topics his parents chat about are too embarrassing for him, and if you talk about something he likes to listen to, he will naturally like to talk to you, otherwise he will be autistic when he talks about work and marriage all day long.
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