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Then calmly think about why there is a conflict between you, and then take a step back and take the initiative to admit your mistakes. Because after all, you are a woman, and water can overcome stone, and soft can overcome steel. Tell him sorry, I think he'll forgive you.
What's more, he doesn't want to talk to you but go about his own thing, which is exactly the time to calm down. Absolutely nothing that doesn't care that you ignore what you mean. Because he doesn't want to quarrel with you anymore.
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Many people have encountered this matter, but this one is also considered in many ways. First, you have to think about why you are angry, whether he provoked you or you did something wrong, he doesn't want to tell you, maybe he doesn't want to quarrel with you, or maybe he really has something very important to do. It's a matter for the two of you, and the most important thing is to see what you think, and if you think you can forgive, forgive it.
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Take your time, in fact, sometimes it's okay to talk about it Actually, seriously, couples quarrel because of poor communication I used to be like this with my boyfriend I also encountered your situation Later, I compromised first and went to talk to him after I was angry.
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If you die,,, don't you take your girlfriend seriously?!
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He didn't feel anything to be angry about.
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If your boyfriend knows that what he does will make you unhappy or even angry, he still does it with the mentality that he doesn't take you to heart.
The boy didn't put you at ease on the performance:
1.Won't care how you feel.
When a man becomes a man who does things his own way, no longer asks for your opinion, and doesn't care about your feelings, it means that he has no feelings for you. Because he is no longer afraid that what he has done will hurt your heart, make you sad and sad, and treat you like a stranger! It seems to him that everything about you has nothing to do with him anymore!
2.Always dissatisfied with what you do.
A man who feels sorry for his woman always doesn't want his woman to do too much, and is always afraid of tiring her. And when a woman is doing something, the man can't help but step forward to help her, whether she does well or badly, he will encourage her to cheer her up.
If a man is always dissatisfied with what you do, it is actually that he is dissatisfied with you as a person, so he will not be satisfied with anything you do.
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I will definitely show my anger and ask him to give me a reasonable reason, and promise not to do it again in the future.
When two people are together, tolerance needs to be had, but there needs to be a limit. If your boyfriend does something that makes you very angry, then you don't need to be patient anymore, because your patience will not only make you depressed, but your mood may be ruined for several days, but the other party doesn't know that he did something wrong, and he may do it again in the future, then you quickly release your emotions and let him know that you are unhappy, and he will also restrain and correct it.
He may have done that unintentionally, or for some compelling reason, then you should give him a chance to explain. If the reason he gives is satisfactory to you, and he says it sincerely, I think you should give him a chance to forgive him, after all, you may make mistakes later. If the reason he gives is made up and lying, and he doesn't see that he is wrong, then I think you should take advantage of this incident to break up with him.
When you show your unhappiness and he believes the reasons he gave you, then I think you should ask him to correct in the end, and not allow such mistakes in the future, otherwise you will really break up. If he really wants to be with you, then he will take the initiative to promise you that he will not do it in the future, and in the future he will make obvious corrections to make you happy.
It's not easy for two people to be together, don't break up at every turn, after all, there will always be contradictions, he did something that made you angry, maybe you also did something that made him angry, so be generous and tolerant, and the days of two people will have a future. But if he violates the issue of principle, then you should no longer cherish the good old days of the two people and choose to forgive him, otherwise he will make you even more sad in the future. Communicate with your boyfriend and solve this problem once and for all, so that it doesn't affect your future life.
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Let me share what I would do if my boyfriend did something that made me very angry!
First of all, I need to calm down and think about the whole process. Why it happened, what happened, and what the final consequences were, to judge the nature of the matter.
This may be because of my subjective factors, which makes me angry, and the second possibility is that it is a matter of principle. When I make my initial judgment, I have to think about how I can get my boyfriend not to do this kind of thing in the future.
If it's because of my subjective factors that make me angry, then I'll be spoiled with him. I would pretend to be angry with my boyfriend, he ignored me and I ignored him, and asked him to come to me and ask me what was wrong, if he did something wrong.
I definitely wouldn't have said his problem directly, I would have told him it was okay but ignored him. Let him think about what he has done and what has made me angry.
When he figured it out, he would come to me, and then I wouldn't have to be angry with him. I'll tell him to give him one last chance, forgive her first, and then tell him I don't like him doing this.
If it's about the question of principle. I didn't just ignore him, I also asked him to think about what he did to make me angry. When he comes to me to admit his mistakes, I don't forgive him directly. I'm going to make him realize his mistakes.
I'll tell him what this is going on, what to do about it. What he did hurt me and made me sad. Tell him the right thing and lead him down the right path. Then choose to forgive him when he knows he is wrong.
In fact, in the process of falling in love with a girl and her boyfriend, there needs to be a task to help her boyfriend get on the right path. Boys are more childish than girls. There are a lot of things that boys have simple ideas and often do the wrong things.
As his girlfriend, you should see if he is on the wrong path, and if you find that he is really on the wrong path or has many shortcomings, you should help him correct and go on the right path.
That's all for me.
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I would have a good talk with him and tell him that it was not right for him to do this, and that since two people are boyfriend and girlfriend, they should care about each other's feelings.
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I would tell him that people should respect each other, that they should put themselves in each other's shoes, and that they should not be so selfish.
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Talk to him and face your anger in the ** I hope he understands that as long as he doesn't touch the issue of principle, he can communicate well.
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If my boyfriend cheats on me, or if my boyfriend does something that I'm not happy about, or if my boyfriend says something to another girl, or if my boyfriend buys a gift for another girl, it can make me very angry.
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It's smoking and drinking, and there is no time limit for drinking, and you drink more every time, which is very infuriating.
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Probably something I said in my life, he never took it to heart, which made me feel very angry, very angry, and felt that he didn't pay attention to me.
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I didn't promise to do it, I was very perfunctory when I talked to me, I had an ambiguous relationship with other girls, I often played with my mobile phone when I was together, I never paid attention to the details of life, and I didn't take what I said to heart, these things are very angry, and such behavior will also affect the relationship between two people, and it is very likely that there will be a quarrel.
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There are a lot of things that my boyfriend does that make me feel angry, like he likes to lie.
It seems that lying is habitual, and the first reaction is to make an excuse, no matter how big or small.
There is also a special irresponsibility, and there is also a laziness, which can make people feel very annoyed.
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For example, they will forget my birthday or some anniversary, or they will not notice when I am angry, or because they don't care about themselves and don't care about the details.
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The most annoying thing is that every time I walk through a traffic light, my boyfriend always doesn't listen to my persuasion, he always runs a red light, it's obviously a moral problem, and he always doesn't listen to himself when he is persuaded to do so.
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I used my cosmetics without permission, often blamed me, often belittled me, always disliked me, always very indifferent to me, always very indifferent to me, these are all unacceptable to me.
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There's a chance I'll be very angry and ignore him. If he had done something I was happy with, I might have forgiven him. But if he touches my bottom line, then I may break up with him.
How difficult it is for two people to meet, meet, know and love each other in the vast sea of people! So when the two are together, you must pay attention, some bottom lines are best not to touch, let's take a look at the 6 taboos between lovers!
1. Disrespectful to the parents of the lover.
Two people who love each other, you must pay attention, whether it is a man or a woman, no matter when, you must respect the parents of both sides, not there is a saying, the ugly daughter-in-law will eventually see her in-laws, no matter what, you must be respectful to each other's parents, but also enthusiastic, although your parents can not control your marriage, but the marriage that is not blessed by your parents will never be long-term.
2. Like to spy on your lover's privacy.
Everyone is independent, even if you are married, but you are still independent, even if you are close, you will have your own private space, everyone will have privacy that they don't want people to know. The most lovers, sometimes more because they should believe in each other, respect each other, and do less things to spy on their lover's privacy, and snooping on each other's privacy is also a big taboo between lovers, so you must pay attention.
3. Hypochondriasis.
The so-called suspicion is that you will always be suspicious of the other party, which is also a sign of distrust, even if he explains it to you, but you will still be uncontrollable to doubt her, so over time, it is also very unbearable.
4. Lying. Lovers must never lie to each other, because a lie often uses multiple lies to round out a lie, so that over time lies will eventually be exposed one day. When the day it is exposed, your relationship will also be in jeopardy.
5. Often say break up.
When lovers are together, it's better to break up less, sometimes when you're impulsive, you may not want to say it, saying it once or twice may be effective, but it's too much, sometimes you just want to scare the other party, it may become true, so it's better to say less about this kind of hurtful feelings.
6. Ask for more, pay less.
If in love, you only know how to take, but don't know how to give, then the other party's feelings will one day be polished by you.
Sometimes it's not easy to be together, so no matter what, since you're together, you still have to know how to cherish this relationship, so that you can go further. The minefields that should be avoided should be stepped on less, and those that should be avoided should be avoided as much as possible, and it will be too late to wake up when it is irretrievable.
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<> there is nothing between male and female colleagues in life, no one can control anyone, there is no need to be angry. It is mainly said that during the relationship or after marriage, the husband and wife do something that will make each other angry. Since the family situation of each couple is different, there are many aspects.
1. For example, lying, husband and wife together, the most important thing is to be honest and trusting, lying makes the other party feel that it is deception, and over time, it will affect the disharmony of the marriage. And to tell the truth, when couples do things on some occasions, sometimes they speak very bluntly without considering the consequences, but they think that you are a very stupid person and make others unhappy, then your woman will also stare at you with big eyes. When you do things, you should reflect that when a man appears, you should take the initiative to take the initiative to take on what women should not say, and if you don't speak at this time, it seems that you will not be immature.
On the other hand, when you are not required to speak, you are too verbose, and you seem to be more naïve, which makes your own woman very angry.
2. Forget important anniversaries. This is very common, for girls this is unforgivable, forget the wedding anniversary, forget the love anniversary, forget the girlfriend's birthday is very scary, here is recommended that many male compatriots hide some gifts for later, so that in case you really forget, the girlfriend asks you if you have forgotten this special day, you can take out the hidden gift and tell her that you have not forgotten.
3. Go out to play, don't pick up**, some girls will hit ** after their boyfriends go out to play, if the other party doesn't pick up**, there will be all kinds of uneasiness, and a lot of messy pictures will float out of the mind, and it is easy to wonder if the boy is carrying himself behind his back and doing something that does not see people. So if you can't get through all the time, you're really going crazy.
4. Ambiguous with other girls, generally girls can't accept their boyfriend's ambiguity with other girls. Therefore, when encountering this kind of thing, girls will definitely be very crazy and quarrel with them.
So to see what's going on, you should be careful!
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