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I think the best way is to communicate, no matter how big the problem is, as long as you are honest with each other, you will find a solution.
has been together for two years, which shows that your relationship still has a foundation. The third year of high school is very intense, and now you can talk about your goals and encourage each other. You don't have much time to speak, so you can use the most primitive method and look at the words you have written.
Points should not come out of your mouth, men do it, and they have to bear the consequences of what they have done! She was able to give you the first time, which shows that you are very important in her mind. Communicate with her more.
At this stage of two years, it is also the run-in period, quarrels and contradictions are normal, and it is good for everyone to think about each other more afterwards!
I also came from your path, I know your situation very well, and the relationship depends on the maintenance of two people. We've been together for 4 years. We've been through your troubles too! How understanding ha! I hope you are happy.
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Take it up and put it down!
It depends on whether the relationship between you is still there, if it is still there, be nice to her!
If there is no such feeling between the two people, they will simply be separated. Long pain is better than short pain, these go down to no one good!
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Emotional things can't be forced, and happiness can't be achieved by reluctance. You can find a time for the two of you to have a good chat and see what each other thinks in mind. After all, two years of relationship is not easy.
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There are three choices: one is to say it directly, the second is to work hard to restore your relationship to the way it was, and the third is to wait for her to propose to break up like you (you seem to be in your third year of high school, and it is very fast to break up with her if you are admitted to a city).
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Let it be, no one can say anything about feelings, after all, you are still young and put work and study first.
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What should I do if the relationship between husband and wife fades? What does the state of marriage look like today?
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1. Learn to take the initiative. It is normal for two people to be together for a long time, and the relationship has weakened, so at this time, there must be someone who takes the initiative to give some care, so that the other party feels warm and makes the other party feel better.
2. Don't ask for perfection. If a person always asks for perfection from the other party endlessly, then the relationship is doomed to fail, because two people have been together for a long time, and they will slowly have aesthetic fatigue, but if we don't ask for perfection, then there will be no cracks in the relationship.
3. Don't hate each other. Some lovers or couples, after getting along for a long time, feel that this is also a problem with each other, that is also a shortcoming, anyway, how to look at it is not pleasing to the eye, and they hate each other very much. So let's not hate each other, because if you hate each other, the other person will hate you.
4. Learn to express love. Many people think that the two have been together for so long, and they feel that there is no need to show love, in fact, they must say to their lover, I love you, I like you and so on. In this way, the other party will feel that the two are together, and the true love has always been there.
5. Cherish the people in front of you. It is really not easy for two people to come together, so you must cherish the person in front of you, don't just say that you will divide, say that you will leave, and cherish the person in front of you.
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The feelings are faint and can be deepened. You can create some romantic links, such as buying some well-prepared small gifts, cooking a delicious meal with your own hands, and preparing some small jokes on a regular basis. These romantic life vignettes are actually not difficult to find, as long as you are attentive and willing, the relationship will definitely heat up.
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Emotional fading is a state that every couple will have, every relationship needs a transition period, and not every relationship is smooth sailing. So we have to learn to change this state and hold my feelings well. Here are five ways to maintain your relationship.
Learn to be proactive. If you fall in love for a long time, it is easy to cause the feelings between each other to fade, which is a very normal thing, everyone has a certain amount of time to appreciate everyone's good feelings, and the feelings are also, if you are in love, it is easy to fade. Therefore, if you want to make each other's feelings in a state of love, you need both parties to pay more for each other, only by taking the initiative, can you make each other surprised and happy, and create opportunities for each other, and there will be more communication.
Learn to cherish. In relationships, we must learn to cherish each other's feelings, and only cherished feelings are precious. Although it is said that the relationship will fade over time, as long as both people cherish it, they will understand that plainness is the truest.
Therefore, both parties must learn to understand each other, and if something is wrong, they must learn to be considerate rather than blame. In this way, the relationship between each other can be further developed.
Don't be too demanding.
Everyone has their own ideas, because everyone is a different individual, if you are always each other, it will make people feel annoyed after a long time, which also has a certain impact on each other's feelings. Therefore, we should not be too harsh on the other party, because what the other party does for you is not obligatory. Therefore, mutual understanding and not being overly demanding are the most basic things in getting along.
Make yourself better.
Whether a person is good or not is not a manifestation of appearance, but mainly thoughts and behaviors. If we want to make ourselves better, we have to work hard, so that we can attract the other party enough, and the other party will cherish you more. Therefore, we must learn to make ourselves more perfect and constantly improve ourselves.
In this way, our relationship can be more perfect, so why not.
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You don't think about it so much, what if you think about it every day when your relationship fades? Probably this feeling will get worse and worse. All feelings will fade, you can shift your heart to other places, it may be much better.
It may be much better to go out more often, watch movies together, go shopping, and find good friends to party.
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It doesn't matter if the relationship is weak, as long as each other is very good to each other and there is no quarrel, it will be good to live, because this is just love turning into family affection. When you reach a certain age, you will become more and more dependent on each other.
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When the relationship is weak, you must learn to take the initiative, two people have been together for a long time, and it is a normal thing for the relationship to fade. At this time, there must be someone who takes the initiative to give some care, so that the other party feels warm and makes the other party feel better. Don't ask for perfection.
Don't hate each other. Learn to show love when appropriate. Remember that you must cherish the person in front of you, it is not easy for two people to come together.
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The relationship is weak, and both parties need to communicate well to see what exists.
When the relationship is weak, you can create a little romance to keep the relationship fresh.
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The relationship between two people has faded, and specific problems need to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. Here are some suggestions.
Two people sit down and talk, and deepen their relationship by communicating and clarifying each other's misunderstandings;
Always maintain an emotional connection with the other person, often express love, and let the other person feel your love for him/her;
It is necessary to create a space for two people to work together. The two face problems together, increase trust, recognize each other, and learn from each other.
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Then re-cultivate the relationship. All good relationships should be managed with heart, such as caring for each other, actively communicating and solving problems, occasionally creating some romance and surprises, giving each other gifts on holidays, etc., to find the feeling of love again.
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I think the most important thing is to learn to take the initiative, in fact, it is very normal for the two to be together for a long time, and the relationship is very normal, then at this time, someone must take the initiative to give, care more, communicate more, so that the other party can feel warm, and the mood will be better.
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Hello, the feelings are fading, and there are some ways to regain the enthusiasm of the year. For example, when dealing with the same thing, he used to be very serious, but now he has become very lively, humorous, and even a little tricky, so as to arouse the other person's emotions and make him happy, he will naturally be happy.
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If the relationship has faded, then try to change the way you get along. The mode of getting along is the key to affecting the relationship between two people, some are quiet, some are peaceful, and some are slapstick.
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When the relationship is weak, we need to re-deepen each other's feelings, and under normal circumstances, we will choose to go on a date. Just a date for two people and no kids. In fact, as long as each other wants to maintain this relationship, it is easy to warm up the relationship.
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If the feelings are weak, it is necessary to increase them appropriately. Fun with each other. You can often go out to travel, or often have dinner with the other party, watch a movie, be romantic, take a walk, talk about your heart, and untie any knots in time.
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It's not easy to fall in love, it's not easy to walk together, and you'll get tired after a long time, so we need to find more common topics to make our relationship better and tolerate each other more, whether it's a man or a woman.
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Hello, when the feelings are light, look for common ground. Hi, that's what life is. Sooner or later, there will be a weakness in this aspect of feelings, that day, if you enter married life, and after having children, the days of weak feelings are still ahead, everyone has to go through this period, time comes slowly.
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When the feelings are weak, you can deepen the feelings! See each other's goodness more, understand each other a little, and the two people will slowly find their original feelings when they are more hot together.
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If this feeling is really weak, then we must see if there is room for redemption. In other words, it must depend on the hearts of two people for each other, whether they are willing to work hard for this relationship. If you really don't have that kind of hard work, then go with the flow.
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If the relationship is weak, I think you should cultivate the relationship, everyone should give each other a small surprise when doing certain things, and the two people should get along more romantically, so that you can slowly regain your original relationship.
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The relationship is fading, and it takes two people to find the reason. If you are usually busy and don't have time to communicate and interact together, then you need to adjust in this area. The relationship needs more run-in and more interaction to be enhanced, otherwise it will only lead to a breakup in the end.
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For couples, if the relationship fades, both parties can add a little fun to life. Between husband and wife, create a little romance appropriately. Because of the romantic taste, it can increase the relationship between husband and wife.
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Over time, all feelings, especially love, will slowly become dull, but as long as you are sure that each other is the ultimate partner, you can try to add some spice to life, such as the ritual sense of life, and slowly adjust the relationship.
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When the relationship is weak, you can take the other person out for a trip and buy some gifts for each other, so that you can deepen the relationship between you.
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The relationship has faded, that is, I no longer love each other, and I should regret losing my boyfriend for ten years. After all, two people have been together for so long, you have experienced a run-in period, and you have experienced a seven-year itch, logically speaking, the two of you should be able to get along well, but now they have broken up, if it is because of some trivial things to break up, then I will definitely regret it, but if it is because of the principle of breaking up, then I will definitely not regret it, because this is a character problem, this has touched my bottom line, no matter how long the relationship is, as long as it touches my bottom line, Then we'll see you again.
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You should communicate with the other party in a timely manner, to communicate, to enter the other party's heart, and let the other party understand your thoughts in time, so that the relationship will get better and better, if there is no timely communication, it will definitely become weaker and weaker.
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If the relationship is weakened, there is a problem with the way the two of you get along, so the two of you must communicate well to know what kind of thoughts the two people really have. Only when the two of you make adjustments and make changes can the relationship between you be deepened.
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It is best for two people to sit down and talk, always maintain an emotional connection with each other, create a space for two people to deal with people together, and have the determination and courage to face difficulties.
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If the two of you fall in love together and your relationship fades, it means that there is something wrong with the way you get along.
Two people must know how to communicate effectively and know what each other's thoughts are, so as to solve the conflict according to the actual situation. When you usually get along with each other, you must keep a proper distance and space to create some mystery for yourself.
I've had such an experience before, and then we rarely use text messages, basically dotting **, because sending a message will make both parties strange I don't know what the other party is thinking The message is full of that kind of mystery that is not human Hit ** What to say Every time you call**, you can hear each other's voice There will be no strange feeling Sending a message can not hear the other party's voice will make the distance farther away It will become strange That's it.
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