Chinese like to pass on the lineage, why should we have children?

Chinese like to pass on the lineage, why should we have children? The tradition of our Chinese is to have a son, because the son can pass on the lineage for himself, work hard all his life, earn so much money to make a house, then these are all inherited by someone, if there is no one to inherit, then all this we do is not in vain? And because the reason why we want to have children is because if we are old and no longer able to make money, there is no one to serve us, and no one to take care of us when we are sick, this is the meaning of our children, children are passed on to our ancestors, and there are people who can serve us in front of us, these are the meaning of our children.

Inherit our propertyWe have children so that our children can inherit our property, everything we do is for the sake of children, so if we don't have children, there will be no one to inherit these things from us, so everything we do is in vain, are they all given to others? So, everything we do is for our descendants to have children, that is, for children to inherit our bloodline, inherit our property, inherit everything we have, and all our things must be inherited by children, and this is the meaning of our children. <>

When we don't have the ability to make money, although when we are young, we make a lot of money, and we make a lot of houses, but one day we will be old and have no ability to make money, and when we have no ability to make money, our children have grown up, and then our children will be able to take care of us, so this is also the meaning of our children, and it is Yangxian.

Son, when we are old, take care of us in our lives, and when we don't have the ability to make money, we rely on our son to make money to take care of us, so these are the meaning of our children. <>

In general, we have all said that the inheritance of the family is to let the children inherit their own bloodline, take the property of the inheritance Wen to take care of us, inherit the bloodline for us, and spread the branches, these are all the ones we have children, and we have worked hard all our lives, made so much money, and built so many houses, so these must be accounted for, otherwise are we in vain? So hard to make money to build a house, if no one inherits all this, then there is no point, so it is also meaningful for us to have children, let children inherit our things, inherit our bloodline, take care of us, and send us to the end, these are the meanings of our children.

Human beings are gradually multiplying and passing on from generation to generation. Children are our hope, sustenance, and the continuation of our bloodline. If you don't have children, the balance of the whole society will be upset.

Because having children can not only carry on the family lineage, but also realize the meaning of our life, and it is also the crystallization between husband and wife.

It is because in the minds of Chinese people that children are the only thing that they can pass on, so this idea of inheritance has been passed down to this day.

Absence of a social security system.

The reason why boys are born is because boys have played the role of social security since ancient times, which is the so-called "raising children and preventing old age". The lack of social security and medical insurance in China has led to the fear that Chinese will have no one to support them when they are old, and they will not pay for medical treatment when they are sick, and they will seriously lack a sense of security, and they can only resist various risks by raising their sons.

If an old man is seriously ill, the son may borrow huge debts to treat the old man, on the one hand, it may be out of family affection, on the other hand, it is also under the requirements and pressure of social morality.

The reason why we have children is to wait for us to be old and have someone to take care of us.

However, with the development of the times, people's economic level has also been greatly improved, many people have a pension after retirement, or have accumulated enough wealth through hard work when they are young, to ensure their pension life, there is no need to rely on children to provide for the elderly.

Therefore, there are more and more Dink couples, who think: we don't rely on children to support the elderly, so what's the point of having children?

You must know that the cost of raising a child is too high now, and it is not easy to bring up a child, and parents have to help their children buy a car and a house, get married and have children, and even when they are old, it is difficult to have their own free time, and they have to help their children take care of their children.

The concept of raising children to prevent old age is getting weaker and weaker, and many young couples can't figure out why they want to have children.

When I was watching a variety show recently, the host of the show raised this question, I don't want to get married before I get married, and I don't want children after I get married, because I don't understand what the meaning of having children is. Spending money and having children is a very troublesome thing that will bring a lot of troubles to your life, which can be completely avoided, so you don't want to, because children disrupt your normal life.

The thoughts of this show host are naturally also the thoughts of many young couples, they don't know why they want to have children, is it just to pass on the lineage? If it is to have a child for the sake of having a child, what is the meaning of marriage?

Regarding the host's question, Xiang Huaqiang's wife Chen Lan gave this answer: When I am getting old day by day, but my youth continues in the child, he has grown up, so my time has not disappeared, and many people will ask where has the time gone? I saw it in children.

Xiang Tai, who is in his 60s, is the only one among the guests of the show who is ready to be a mother-in-law, and because he is relatively old and has experienced a lot of things, he sees things very clearly, and people live clearly.

It is everyone's freedom to have children or not, but if once you decide to have children, it is best for couples to make a careful decision after thinking clearly, once you become parents, the responsibility becomes more important, and two children are indeed something that requires more energy to complete in a day.

Some people say that children are the continuation of each of our lives, and when we leave this world, there is still our blood in the world, and there are still people who remember the days when we were alive, you grow up with him, and he grows old with you, which can also be said to be the happiest thing in the world.

A mother said this: I don't have a child for anything, he is just the crystallization of my relationship with my husband, and he is a testimony of our love. My husband was a soldier and he rarely came home, but he gave me a child.

With this child, I can be stronger to wait for my husband's return.

Children make parents better.

It is undeniable that before becoming parents, most couples were child-minded. And once they have children, parents will naturally have a sense of responsibility. A friend of mine, before he got married and had children, had no fighting spirit, and he only thought about how to spend the day every day, and he had no intention of working at all.

Later, he got married, and the woman gave birth to a lovely son for him, and he seemed to be a different person, more active in his work, and had hope for life.

And children are also the bond of the family. When parents feel tired after working outside all day, they come home and see the cute child serving tea and water, and feel that the troubles of the whole day have disappeared. And some couples may not have a very good plan for the future before giving birth, and they may not be gentle, but after giving birth, they will take on this responsibility when they have this responsibility on their shoulders.

Never underestimate your parents' outburst of regret.