When giving birth, why do the elderly recommend leaving the first child?

With the development of the times, Chinese people are not as conservative about sex life as they once were, so there are many young couples who can't control themselves and eat the forbidden fruit.

Due to the lack of sex education in China, many young people do not understand the benefits of contraception, and they regret it after being recruited.

The old man once said that it is best not to beat a woman's first child, many people do not care about it, thinking that this is the old man's old-fashioned thinking and can't keep up with the trend, but in fact, it is not, the operation of abortion is very harmful to women, especially the first child.

It will increase the chance of ** disease.

Abortion is a very harmful surgery for women's bodies, so it has a great impact on women, and the more times they are done, the greater the chance of getting sick.

Not being able to get pregnant for a while.

After the abortion operation, it also requires a period of recuperation, everyone calls this period of time "small confinement", women do small confinement and large confinement are the same, once there is a mistake during this period, the impact on the woman will be a lifetime.

And even if the confinement is done well, it will take a long time for the body to return to the previous situation, so it is difficult for women to get pregnant during this time.

It can cause recurrent miscarriages.

Some women are very unconcerned about miscarriage, but women who always go for surgery will let their bodies habitually miscarry, and even if they want to keep the child in the future, their body will still habitually miscarry.

Leave a psychological shadow.

This shadow is not the shadow of surgery, but the shadow left by the guilt of the child, and some women will regret it after losing the child, and when they dream, they will still dream about it.

This situation leaves a psychological shadow, which greatly affects women's psychology and future life.

Some girls are young, ignorant and don't know the dangers of abortion, and some girls think it's a shameful thing, afraid that their parents will know, and they don't have any money, so they will choose to go to a small hospital for surgery, but they don't know that this will be the thing she regrets the most.

If parents don't want their daughters to happen to them in the future, they should tell their children about this earlier.

1: Proper sex education.

Parents don't have to feel difficult to talk about "sex", so many underage girls in China are pregnant, because of the lack of sex education, and wrong cognition, so parents can let their children understand sex education correctly when they are sensible.

2: Inform about the dangers of abortion.

Parents must tell the girl about the danger of abortion, so that the child is not so dismissive of the abortion operation, so that the child can be afraid and will not easily let others hurt themselves.

3: Teach children self-esteem and self-love.

Compared with the first two points, the most important thing for parents is to make girls self-esteem and self-love, so that nothing happens.

In the mouth of the older generation, the first child conceived by pregnant women in this life is very important, they think that the child chooses the mother by himself, and there is a destiny, and leaving the first child is also good for the second child in the future.

Because the first child is also life, and it is also the crystallization of parental birth, there is no reason to strangle a life, it is a moral issue.

Because if the first child is aborted, it will cause great damage to the woman's body and may also cause infertility.