From high school to college, why the more you grow up, the more you can t persevere

Because when you are older, you have more choices, when you are still in high school, most people choose to go to college, and only some people work.

But when you go to college, most people choose to work, and a few choose to go to graduate school. After all, there are only a few people who are guaranteed to graduate school, and it is so hard to take the postgraduate entrance examination.

When you choose more, you give up more. High school students are indoctrinated with the idea that going to college is the way out. Therefore, the college entrance examination has become a single-plank bridge, when you graduate from college, all walks of life need different people, the most important thing is that you don't know enough about yourself, you need to change your job, change your mood, change your place, always feel that you can get better, always want to get the best.

Therefore, when you see the people around you who have found yourself, you will inevitably be moved and change your door.

It's not that the bigger we get, the more we can't persevere, but we clearly know that our choice was so immature at the beginning, and we gradually found ourselves and chased new dreams. I hope that in the year of establishment, when you are not confused, you are not like this.

ps, you don't need to look at the following, when you graduate from graduate school, most people choose to work, because there are only a few people who can endure experiments and write articles and graduate. At the same time, PhDs are often postponed and take 3-5 years to get a degree. The best years are dedicated to the lab, and not everyone will do that.

The above is the voice of the heart, the next fact: high school students in 2016 high school graduates 10,000, 2016 college graduates 7.65 million, 2016 graduate students (including master's and doctorate) million

Only in 2016, the total enrollment of master's students in China was 517,200, and the total enrollment of doctoral students was 67,216.

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From high school to college, I actually changed a lot, my height changed, my hairstyle changed, and my thoughts changed. But I think the biggest change is that I have become bolder, especially my skin has become much thicker.

When I was in high school, I was very timid, and I was easily shy and didn't know how to get along with people naturally. When I talk to girls, I often don't dare to look directly into the eyes of girls, I can only talk to them with my head down, and I stammer when I speak, and I will inexplicably produce a nervous emotion in my heart, not only girls, but also in the face of some teachers or strangers, so I was defined as a stuffy gourd when I was in high school, with few words, few friends, and not good at communicating with others, which made me very annoyed for a while.

But the turning point happened when I was in college, when I first entered the school, I was still the same as in high school, and I couldn't get out of my inner barrier, but something happened that made me change myself. That is, I met someone I liked in college, but I really didn't have the courage to get along with her, and it was even difficult to talk to her, whenever I watched other boys talk and laugh with her, I secretly hated myself for being incompetent, maybe unwilling, an invisible force that made me decide to change myself. Since then, I have been going to events and speaking on stage, and at first I couldn't get used to it, but then I gradually overcame my inner barriers, and I became more and more bold enough to joke with girls often.

In the end, I went to confess to that girl and said that I liked her in front of everyone, I had done this kind of behavior, and my face was so thick. I won't say what the end result is, but I've changed myself compared to high school, and that's the best thing for me.

Appearance and personality, I feel that I have become beautiful, it may be my illusion, but college is really a plastic surgery hospital, many ugly girls in high school have become old and beautiful, of course, there is also the credit of beauty software, college girls are really beautiful when they make up, and they will wear clothes, know that those clothes are suitable for themselves, and they will also be appropriate**, make their appearance more eye-catching, and put a lot of effort into their appearance, of course, there are also plastic surgery, double eyelids and the like, When I was taking the driver's license test at school, I met a girl who had her eyelids cut off, because she was an aviation major, and her appearance was very important, but after the cut, her eyes looked really good. Girls in college will be more beautiful than before, especially after the sophomore year, the freshman year is learning how to put on makeup, how to dress, and then she will be beautiful.

There must have been a change in personality, I was too busy in my junior year of high school, and then I suddenly stopped busy in my freshman year, and then I started to be lazy, and I didn't study very hard, I just thought about not failing the course, and then I spent the rest of my time playing, or sleeping. Of course, there are many girls whose personalities will become cheerful, participate in many clubs, spend more time talking in front of everyone, and will not be shy, dare to express their thoughts in front of many people, think about high school, on the podium may have to be weak for a long time, nervous for a whole class, but now it is slowly letting go, and it will not be so restrained. That's a good change, isn't it?

It's definitely good to have a change, I'm most afraid it's the same, I have a senior sister, she showed me the ** in high school, I don't know it at all, and I can't believe that person is her, she was completely a little black in high school, and then she was very timid, but now she is radiant and generous. College can really change a lot in ways you can't think of on your own.

The first change: the improvement of communication skills. In the university, we can get in touch with a lot of students with different majors and different personalities, and we will also meet different friends in the student union or club activities, and in the conversation with many strange friends, we gradually improve to how we should face strangers, how to quickly meet a stranger and understand her character, in the invisible our communication skills will be well improved, and we will be able to better chat with strangers after entering the society.

The second change: the improvement of the ability to resolve conflicts. In the dormitory of high school, we want to rest as soon as possible and the communication with roommates is basically very little, but when we get to the university, it is different, our life in college takes place in the dormitory at most, and there will be a little contradiction between ourselves and our roommates' habits or personalities, these contradictions need to be solved as soon as possible, and the small friction between ourselves and our roommates must find a way to solve it, so our ability to solve the contradictions will be improved. Let's find a good way to solve the conflict between people.

The third change: the ability to live independently. In college life, most of us have to rely on ourselves to complete, unlike high school where parents help us deal with it, so when we get to college, we should solve these things in life independently, and we can immediately adapt to the independent life mode when we go out of society.

There are a lot of changes from high school to college, and we can obviously feel that our personality and habits will change to varying degrees, and these are our own changes.

There will definitely be many changes from high school to college, but the most poignant experience for you must be the trait of independence, which will definitely become more and more experienced as you grow older, from your high school to college in the 7-year time span.

Independence is the process of a person from ignorance and naivety to the necessary contact with sensible, this process will make a high school student from every study needs to be completed under the supervision of the teacher's family, and become such a mature person who will independently think about the benefits of learning to himself and constantly motivate himself to increase his knowledge. Independence will also allow you to think about your own shortcomings from the naïve thinking of doing things in the past, and extract the good qualities you need from the transformation process of the environment you are exposed to.

High school is the life of home and school, you are exposed to limited things but you need to study carefully to accumulate things, and college not only needs you to learn knowledge, nor is it the life of school home, it is a transition from the home school environment to a small social environment, you have to leave your parents, go alone to learn to take care of your own life, in this small social environment, you need to use independence to think for yourself instead of blindly asking parents for advice, You need a direction of your own to grasp your own plans and goals in the future, in this new environment, you need to grow up yourself, to complete your transformation from an ignorant teenager to a young man who can think independently, all these changes are in the process of you gradually learning to be independent. Therefore, to appreciate the benefits of independence to yourself, do not reject it, and accept the process that you must go through to grow up.

From believing in love to not believing in love. From lively and cute to taciturn. It's a long story.

I am a person who has been full of longing for love since I was a child. This may have something to do with the fact that I used to watch cartoons and bubble dramas when I was a child. The love I want is the kind of love from school uniforms to wedding dresses, youth to gray hair.

I longed to go from the age of youth and ignorance to my own twilight with the people I love. I want to go through the pain of youth with the people I love, and heal together when we are in the twilight of each other. Growing up, I longed for my knight to appear sooner, and if I was hurt by the whole world, he could turn his back on the whole world for my sake.

I'm serious about every one of my relationships. Yes, I've had a lot of relationships, and I've been looking for my knight all the time. However, just when I think I've found it, reality always slaps me in the face.

When I experienced setbacks, when I failed again and again, I consoled myself that everyone who came into my life had their meaning, and that I shouldn't blame anyone else, maybe I just hadn't met it yet. Until I met him. Call him the L!

I like him a lot, we've been together for three years, and I've spent my whole high school with him. I used to think that we would be together for the rest of our lives, after all, we care so much about each other. But reality slapped me hard again.

There was no reason, no reason, he just disappeared. He was with me for three years, together for three years, and one day, he suddenly disappeared. I couldn't find him anyway.

I've been looking forward to love for 18 years, and it's been less than a year since I actually had it, and how many trials and tribulations I have experienced before I have it! But God wants to do this to me. While I was happy to have entered college and entered the auditorium of adults, I lost him forever.

also lost the lively and lovely self that used to be.

When you go to college, you don't have to work as hard as you did in high school. The university is very loose, the cultural classes are taken seriously, the extracurricular interaction and participation, and the credits are improved.

No. Because the study life in college is completely different from high school, there is no need to spend too much time studying in college.

I will work as hard as I did in high school. Because only with that kind of hard work can you graduate better.

I feel that after I went to college, I didn't work as hard as I did in high school, I let myself go every day, and I didn't have too high requirements for myself, as long as I didn't fail the course.