Can a family almost sway one person? What am I going to do? 20

My parents are the same as you, but I changed their minds, because parents generally think about their children, if your dad is always intervening in communication, then you can use work, love and the like to say to him, you say that I am a colleague or because of work, sometimes parents are still good for their children, you have to be patient to say, after all, the times are different concepts, if there is time, the family can go to play, if you don't go, you must go, you must pull, so that he is happy in his heart, and relax, Because our parents have done so much for us, don't worry too much, really...

Family has some inevitable influence on people, and some can even affect a lifetime...But it mainly depends on the character....As long as you think it is right in your heart, do it, and be worthy of your heart, don't be too tired.

You can't blame your parents, because no one can change their origins. So it can't be said that your family influences you, but it just depends on whether you like to socialize with others. However, when the family dies, it is normal for Zhendi to envy the excitement of other people's homes.

Mainly, I think I just need to be cheerful. This way you can also drive your drop family!

Escape is not the way, to face, slowly change, first of all, you have to make a few friends sincerely, in the continuous communication, you will slowly change their views, they may treat your friends as friends.

It's going to be better out of this home environment, it's really going to be better.

The son is not an ugly girl, and the dog is not a poor family.

I didn't like being at home when I was in high school, so I chose to go to college and stay in the field to work. But now I'm back. After leaving home, I am very free, but I miss the food cooked by my mother, and I miss the feeling of laughter and laughter in the family.

After all, you still have a father who loves you, and although your mother prefers her younger brother, how can there be a mother who doesn't love her own daughter at all, maybe they won't express it.

Don't stiffen your family relationship and leave yourself a way out.

If you go out to work, you won't be polite. A parent's love can never be wrong. You're a girl, you haven't experienced anything, and it's easy to be bullied when you go out.

You need a different environment now, but you don't have much say in this situation. Do you have a relative that your parents appreciate, preferably an older sister, and you can come to your relative's house for a while.

It is recommended that you leave home, but do not leave the city where your family is located, the current society is very complicated, and no matter how bad your parents are to their children, it will never harm you. Your problem is that you need to live independently, you can go outside to rent a house, earn your own money, but the outside world is not like home, people can cheat you with a smile.

Your situation is very similar to mine, I also have a younger brother, and my parents love my younger brother more, and they took my younger brother and left me at my grandmother's house, which developed my autistic character. My mom is also a strong person, she scolded me with harsh words, regardless of my self-esteem, I hated her very much when I was a teenager, and when she scolded me with all kinds of embarrassing words, I used to want to cut her with a knife. My dad was patriarchal with my grandmother, and I always felt that he didn't love me, and I barely communicated with him, and the most impressive time I walked face-to-face on the road and passed by, like a stranger, without even saying a word.

I was very depressed at home, so I secretly planned to run away from home, and I managed to run away for two years. Although it is not easy to live outside, I can still survive, and my salary is lower than that at home, but I am very free. I ran away for two years, my mother was going crazy, I went home and they improved slightly, and after getting married and having children, I gradually realized the difficulties of being a parent, I knew that they all loved me, but they were not good at expressing it, and now I get along with them very well, and sure enough, the distance produces beauty, and there are fewer contradictions if they are not together.

Let's talk about your situation on my situation, so depressed at home, I suggest you go out to see, a little away from home, go out to enjoy the freedom is still very good, take me, although the days outside sometimes suffer, but I don't regret it at all, the outside world is so vast, open your eyes, open your mind, it is best to have friends to take care of, after all, it is not safe for young girls to be alone, as much as possible to have contact with the family, they will be anxious. If you stay with them for a long time, your parents will subconsciously treat their children as if they were their private property, without pretense at all, and scold them whenever they want, but they don't take into account their children's feelings at all. So it's still good to be away for a while.

When I was a child, I made a mistake and ran away from home. When he got home, he thought he didn't know what kind of punishment there was, but his father not only did not punish him, but treated him better. That's the beauty of rebellion.

After you go out, you are worried that your education is too low and you can get a high test, or apply for a correspondence course or something, and the current education is not valuable, there is no need to feel inferior, everyone has a pair of hands, and you may not be able to do what others can do.

The most important point is that the outside world is too complicated, don't believe other people's words and be deceived, think more about things when you encounter them, and don't have a boyfriend casually.

Finally, good luck.

I think you might as well find relatives and friends around you, the kind that can communicate with your parents, or the kind that can suppress them. You talk to him about your situation, give your opinion, and let him communicate it to your parents. I see that your parents are mainly worried that you will be cheated out there or something.

In fact, a parent does not ignore the affairs of his own children. As long as someone communicates well with him, it's fine.

Now it's very confused, very helpless, and you lack self-confidence, you either stay at home, like the walking dead, or just ruthless, go out to work, sometimes people often say, only a section of their own retreat, people will move forward, you go out, don't think that you still expect your family to give you any help, you should take these emotions as a kind of motivation, you are still young, this is your wealth, people do not say that you can't do things without education, you have to believe in yourself.

You have to have your own opinions, it's best to learn a little more, now you want to learn from the family and don't give money to learn, it's tricky! You are still young, and you can only gain a foothold in society by studying more.

It is recommended to go on your own, but you have to finish the path you choose on your knees

Your family is full of contradictions now, or choose to leave first, only when you leave home, you can know how important home is to you in your heart, and your family can also know what you mean to home...

It's the fear of being alone and thinking about problems that you can't face. When it's quiet, it's easiest for people to think about things and things to think about. Let go Let go of the mountain in your heart.

I have time to go online to watch the TV series "Da Chang Jin". There are many people who are harder than your life, and they are still living stronger. If you love the pain, your problem will not be a problem.

Also, everyone is lonely. Facing your loneliness. Go enjoy it!

Accept your pain and destroy it!

Find a friend to play, or call ** to chat with a friend,

The only way to relieve stress is exercise.

If you have time to relax, it is recommended to go outdoors for physical exercise during this time, people in activity, sleep will make the nerves get a complete rest, but people can not always sleep, so exercise is essential, maybe you don't like to exercise, but if you want the nerves to get rest, you must exercise, such as going out, running, cycling, playing ball, or a slight physical exertion. When you don't want to rest so much, you can not be active, and then you will find that your thinking is clear, your mind is active, because you are active, normal people's perseverance can not be active every day, but only people with strong perseverance can persevere. We all know that life lies in movement, but who can do it all?

Exercise can replace some medications, but all medications can't replace exercise.

I'm in the same situation as you, and I'm looking for a peaceful way!!

I advise you to turn back as soon as possible, otherwise both of you will have a bad life because of this, and I think it is worth it to put aside your personal selfishness to maintain the peace of the family!!

Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sign that you are not fated.

Forget it, it's all about maintaining your existing family.

I wish you happiness and peace!

Maybe my answer doesn't quite match what you mean, maybe you just want some people to support you, but I think that since you have family rights, you should think clearly, you are destroying two families together, you should also have children, even if you are together, you still have to face a lot, the pressure of life, the outside world, etc., and then you go back to the boring marriage now, back to the beginning. Thinking about why you married your current partner in the first place, isn't it because of love? Before you have crossed the Thunder Pool, look back at the people who have walked with you for so long, and your children, believe me, turn back to the shore.

The most important thing now is you, you have to study hard. Repay your mother, she has really paid too much for you, you grow up, you should be able to protect your mother, if now, your father beats your mother because of the woman outside, you can also protect your mother. Although this family has brought you such heavy pressure and troubles, you have to give yourself self-confidence, for your mother to live a good life in the future, work hard, although your father is like that, but he must still be your biological father, the things of your parents' last life, since they are already like this, you don't need to hate your father, how to hate him Things have already happened, and you can't change the reality.

When people live, they have the meaning of life. Cherish your current parents, there are many children who are more pitiful than you, they have not even had the love of their parents since they were young, and they don't know what maternal love is. Cherish it.

Good luck with your studies to the next level.

Happy New Year's Day.

My family is also very discordant, and they divorced when I was five years old, and I have always had such a wound in my heart, I thought it was very hurt, but it was wrong, these injuries we suffered are not called injuries at all, and we don't understand the real injuries until we are heartbroken. In fact, the power of fate can only be experienced by the unfortunate people, and those of us who are unfortunate can only bear it silently, and those who are self-righteous and lucky will attribute everything to their own ability and wisdom. The misfortune of the family cannot be denied, but the society in the future will make your pain not only limited to the family, so you must learn to bear it, and at the same time of the wound, you must strengthen your heart more.

Now my dad has found several stepmothers, nominally for me, but I don't understand what it's for, I don't understand if it's for me or an excuse, so I don't dare to think about it, I'm afraid that one day I will really find out that everything is not as good as I thought, and I will be very sad, so I am willing to think of everything as good, willing to make myself naïve, even if I know a lot, but I pretend not to understand anything, I am a fool.

Although the current stepmother was not as kind to me as my mother, he entered the duties of a mother. In such a family, we can't ask for anything, we can only ask for the least food and shelter, and we can only create everything else.

I don't want to pity you, I don't want to persuade you anything, the future fate can only listen to God, not my superstition, fate is not determined by God, nor is it grasped by myself, it is just a random number, unpredictable, mottled and disjointed.

You can't forget, you can't remember, pick something valuable to keep it, in the sea of your memory, it will stain all the sea red, and then you will get what you want.

First of all, you must do a good job in the relationship between your father and daughter, talk to your father, and then find an opportunity to talk to your mother later, their relationship may be mixed with a variety of factors, and it is difficult for others to understand. You just have to be a good daughter.

You have to be strong and take care of your mom and yourself.

For your father, don't be soft, go for what you should get from him, he should give it.

If domestic violence really makes you unbearable, you can try to persuade your dad, if it doesn't work, you can go to court to sue your dad, don't hesitate.

If you love your mom, suggest they get a divorce...

When I was very young, my parents used to fight, quarrel, and ignorantly begged my dad not to divorce.

It wasn't until they divorced that I realized that this was the right thing to do... Good for both sides.

If you want your mother to divorce, it's good for you and for her, such a father is better than someone else without a father.

Take good care of your mother, she has lost so much for you.

Calm down and prepare for the exam. Get a good score. Don't make your mom sad.

Speechless, I think you should find something to do, marry a good husband again, and take your mother to your house.

Leave your dad.

Happy families are all alike, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes.