I had a very bad relationship with a classmate and I really wanted to hit him.

Brothers, you calm down first. Why are you asking this question now, have you ever had a good relationship with each other before? Try to think back to how you got along then, and now you are using it the same way you did it back then.

You also think about why you don't have a good relationship, why you don't like him, what happened to him or what he did.

If you still want to hit him, it means that he still has weight in your heart. If he's really as nasty as you say. , you shouldn't even want to ignore him, do you?

Think about whether he's worth it before hitting someone. Got it?

I want you to calm down first. Maybe there is a holiday between you, or even he maliciously hurts you, but if you don't regulate your emotions well, it will only make things worse. You should first ask yourself if you are wrong.

If you're really right, there's no need to be angry, it will only hurt yourself, and there's no need to punish yourself for other people's mistakes. Then you are entitled to despise him, because the truth is in your hands, and you do not need to know it like him. Such a person is not worth your trouble with him.

Have fun.

Treat him as if air doesn't exist.

Impulsiveness is the devil. You can go to him and explain it directly.

Impulsiveness is the devil, don't be the devil, please calm down.

You shouldn't be like this, you should have a face-to-face "peace talk" with him, and you shouldn't do it.

When we have conflicts with classmates, don't be busy blaming others, but self-reflection, think about whether the conflict occurs because of our own fault, think about whether we have also hurt others in words or behavior, self-reflection can avoid the deterioration of the conflict, many classmates are getting worse and worse because they only know how to blame others and can't recognize their mistakes.

Don't slander behind your back.

There are many such people who not only do not want to solve the problem after having a conflict with their classmates, but instead speak ill of others behind their backs and slander them, which can only intensify the conflict but cannot solve the problem. So we have to remember, but when we have a conflict with our classmates, no matter how wronged we are, we must not speak ill of others behind our backs.

Find out the source of the contradiction.

When we have a conflict with our classmates, don't just know about anger and grievances, but calm down and think about why the conflict occurs and find out the root cause of the conflict, so that we can prescribe the right medicine and find a solution to the problem.

Sincerely apologize to your classmates.

If we have a conflict with our classmates because of our own reasons, we should show a sincere attitude and sincerely apologize to our classmates, and if we really recognize our mistakes and show remorse, the classmates will understand and forgive us.

If you feel that you have done nothing wrong, then you can stick to your nature, time will prove that everything is the best answer, and a true friend will not bother with you because of this little thing.

I think your current situation is in a state of confusion, you should find him alone and ask him what is wrong with you. Doing something wrong led to this state. If he can't answer, maybe he will have to reflect on it.

Actually, you should have asked him a long time ago. You tell him, "If it's really me wrong, I'll change it."

I consider you a friend. Please don't treat me like this.

If you ask clearly and know what's going on, you'll be able to solve the problem. If you don't want you, and he still treats you like that, then you don't have to fight for this person. That's how friends are, you have to distinguish between you and me when you get along.

Never be good enough to wear a pair of pants. It's so energetic, it's about to be divided. The extremes of things must be reversed.

You didn't do anything wrong in the first place, picking up this stuffed animal for your classmate, saving him a chance to move, and you were helping in the first place.

Now don't pay attention to your classmate, he's just an unreasonable person.

You have a conflict with your classmates, although you feel that you have done nothing wrong, but you still have to communicate with the other party, so that the other party can understand you and understand you.

As a bystander, I sympathize with you, but I don't approve of the handling of this matter.

Talk to her frankly, if the conversation is not good, or she doesn't want to talk to you, then don't talk about it, you have so many friends, and there is no shortage of him.

For everyone, we have our classmates, especially those who go to school.

For students who go to school, they have to be with their classmates every day. And every student knows that they need to get along well with their classmates. After all, they spend time with their classmates, and over time, they will become better friends with their classmates.

Because we know that once we can become good friends with our classmates, then we can care for and help each other in the daily study and life process, which will eventually make us have a more harmonious relationship with our classmates. Although we see that most of the students are able to get along well with each other.

However, we also see that there are some times when there are still some small misunderstandings and conflicts between classmates. Even if these small misunderstandings and conflicts are not well resolved, they will make them move, so some people want to know why you fought with your classmates when you were in school and how you got along.

Maybe for some people, they get into fights with their classmates when they are in school, and the reason is very simple. It's because of some very small things and it is precisely because these small things that the two people don't handle them better, which eventually leads to their problems getting worse and worse, and finally they still start to do it.

It is true that we see some people who have some arguments between them and their classmates. But we will also find that even if there is a conflict between classmates, they can quickly resolve it. Because they don't hold a grudge against each other.

Even as soon as they finished fighting in front, they immediately bent behind and reconciled with each other. Because they know that there is no big contradiction between them and their classmates.

So we see that most of the students are able to answer each other very well together. Because the students all know that they should be with each other well, so that the relationship between the classmates can be better, but we also see that there are a small number of students, they still have some conflicts, which will eventually cause them to have some conflicts.

But despite this, we see that they are able to reconcile with each other very quickly. Because after all, classmates are actually very happy and happy together. And they can also care for and care for each other.

It is precisely in this way that even if there are some small misunderstandings between classmates, they can resolve them well together, so that students can get along more harmoniously together. In this way, students can become closer partners, and the friendship between students is long-lasting.

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At school, everyone else is kind to my friend, and it feels very targeted at me, so I don't want to play with my friend, so I can't see her well now, which is a bad feeling, and it makes you feel isolated and excluded. However, we still have to believe and insist on ourselves, and don't change our attitudes and behaviors towards our friends because of the prejudices or preferences of others.

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At school, everyone else is good to my friend, and it feels very targeted at me, so I don't want to play with my friend, so I can't see her now, which is a bad feeling, and it makes you feel isolated and ostracized. However, we also believe in and insist on ourselves, and do not change our attitudes and behaviors towards our friends because of the prejudices or preferences of others.

Maybe your friend doesn't realize that others are good to her or maybe others misunderstand you and your relationship, you can try to communicate with her, say how you feel and what you think, if she is really a good friend, she will understand and work with you to find a way to solve the problem. You can also make more new friends, expand your social circle, and find more people who share your hobbies and interests, so that you don't rely too much on and stick to a relationship, and you can also make yourself more confident and independent.

He lied to you about the affairs between children, and adults won't take care of it, otherwise it's so embarrassing, adults beat children, and you're so easy to be fooled?? No wonder they bullied you.

You just tell him, let's go to the office and fight.