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A person with a bad character is not worth making friends with. Whether a person's character is good or bad, or whether his character is good or bad, can be preliminarily determined and distinguished by what he says in his daily life. What kind of people will say what kind of things, if they can't cover everything, then most of them.
If you surround yourself with similar people, you need to pay more attention to their potential negative impact on yourself. For people with a bad character, it's not about not being provoked, it's about the meaning and value of not being provoked. Eventually, it will be self-defeating.
It is wise not to provoke nor approach people of bad character, and to avoid getting interested in people of bad character. Sowing discord, some people don't get along well with others and often try to build their own happiness and joy in the sadness and pain of others, some people have pain to build up, even if others don't have pain, create pain to establish. Only the suffering of others can trigger their own happiness.
In the course of the chat, these people either deliberately embellish, or deliberately fanned the flames, or even made out of thin air, typically fearing that others would not mess up. If you want to figure out that someone is particularly interested in someone else's secrets, similar to someone else's financial resources or a particular income**, and is often subject to detailed and thorough inquiries.
If the question is understandable so far, if someone asks the question in a stubborn way, it can be seen that these people have ulterior motives and are likely to commit theft. Even if they don't steal, they don't rule out the possibility of thinking. If someone else has something good, they won't like it, which can lead to jealousy or cause hatred.
If someone else has something bad, they will fall on the rocks and spread the bad thing thousands of miles away so that the people around them don't know about it. Which pot is not opened, which pot is mentioned.
However, some people often do the opposite in the opposite way. They expose the shortcomings of others by rubbing salt on their wounds. They especially like to talk about others behind their backs.
Even if they don't scold, they're better than scolding. Direct or indirect malicious slander, people with a bad character will treat other people's shortcomings or shortcomings as an after-dinner joke and laugh them off without thinking about the harm caused to others. So I think that because people with bad character are not worthy of making friends.
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Because those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. If you have been staying with someone with a bad character, you will be influenced by him, and your character will deteriorate over time. So stay away from those who are of bad character.
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Because people are a group creature, that is to say, other people's behavior and habits will be affected by the alienation of their own distance, and people with bad character are to prevent this situation.
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Because people with bad character are not sincere to you, if you get close to such a person, your character will also be affected. This is the so-called principle that those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, so you should stay away from people who are not in good health.
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The so-called close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black If you often play with people with bad character, you will definitely be influenced by the other party, so stay away from people with bad character.
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It is necessary to stay away from people with bad character for the following reasons:
First, people with poor character are self-centered, harmful and extremely thick-skinned. It's always yourself who suffers if you're too close to this. Money is damaged, reputation is damaged.
Second, people with poor character do wrong things and let others bear the blame and be scapegoats. For the sake of fame, bullying superiors and subordinates, with such a person will be condemned.
Third, people with poor character are extremely selfish and quite egoistic. reverses black and white, loves to sow discord, and talks about right and wrong behind his back. If you are close to this kind of person, even if you have no intention of going along with it, you will still be suspicious of others.
There is a good saying, physics gathers, people divide by groups.
There is a fragrance near the Zhilan jade tree, and the smell is difficult to hide when it is close to the rotten flesh and mud.
Most people will have doubts about your character because you are close to someone with poor character.
Sometimes, we inevitably deal with people with poor character, but we can stay away from them. Do not offend them, speak politely, and talk about things, and stay away from them. That's it.
It is better to offend a gentleman than a villain. That's it. There is an old saying in China, those who are close to pearls are red, those who are close to ink are black, people gather by like, things are grouped, people with poor character have dirty conduct, and if you get along with this kind of person for a long time3, you will be affected by quite a bad influence, and you will be unconsciously assimilated in getting along, and it will also affect your outlook on life, values, your attitude towards people, and will also have an impact on your career and family.
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As the saying goes, if you are often with people with poor character, then it is easy to be affected by the other party, and after a long time, your character may become worse, although many times the internal factors of the development of things are the key, but the external factors also have a great impact.
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Because people with bad character will affect others. It's possible that you'll learn to be bad.
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The so-called close to Zhu is red, and close to ink is black. If you don't want to be like him one day. Then you'd better stay away from him.
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There is no need to make yourself unhappy, it is important to stay away from people with different views, especially people with bad character, and resolutely do not make ......Go to sleep.
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People with bad character generally have a bad temper and personality, and are prone to quarrels with others.
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It is necessary to stay away from this part of the population to avoid being deceived.
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People with bad reputations and bad reputations have problems with their own values, or the level of education they have received is not enough, and their personal stupidity and respect will be affected by the people around them. And a friend with good character is like a mentor and helpful friend, helping you grow, and the benefits are self-evident.
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The environment can affect a person's life, personality, temper, and much more. If you get close to someone who has the quality of culture, you will learn a lot of knowledge and your taste will improve. Therefore, "Meng's mother's three moves" cultivated a great educator like Mencius, the key brother of the slow brother.
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Because those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black, even if you do not become black in the short term, others will think that you are the same kind of person as him, reducing your credibility.
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If you are often in contact with people with bad character, you will change yourself invisibly.
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Hello, I've got you covered! Why should we stay away from people with poor character and introduce the world. There are no surprises. Everyone has people with good character around them, and there are people with bad character, and everyone is willing to get along with people with good character. But for those with poor character, it is necessary to protect them.
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"Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. "Being close to people with bad character will be imperceptibly affected by them, which is not conducive to establishing a correct three views.
Others look at you, not only to see your performance, but also to see what kind of friends you make, the so-called "like like gathers", you are close to people with bad character, others will think you are a kind of person.
People with bad character are selfish and self-interested, they will not help you, but use you, whether it is profitable to associate with others, or it is better to have less contact with them, otherwise sooner or later you will be deceived.
So, since you can't change them, stay away from them.
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Sometimes I have been with people with bad character for a long time, it will really affect my physical health, affect my mood, such people, bad character, such people are too selfish to consider feelings, so such people have no positive energy together are some negative energy.
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Things gather like things, people and groups, water flows to low places, people go to high places, and it is necessary to stay away from people with bad character, and it is also a manifestation of demand.
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Because dishonest people are disguised people, they are not sincere to people and never keep their own promises.
In reality, this is the case, the worse the character, the better her popularity, because they will be close, will say those words that please people, will flatter others, will stammer others, put high hats on others, and get what they want from it.
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