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In daily life, many people always like to repeat and repetitive, like to reminisce and stubborn when they are old. What are the psychological causes of this phenomenon? Below, let's focus on the knowledge of why the elderly are verbose.

As the saying goes: There are many old roots in trees, and there are many old words in people. The tree is old and intertwined; People are always rambling and chattering.

The old entanglement of the tree is to absorb the essence of the sun and the moon over the years, and experience the baptism of wind, frost, rain and dew, so that it has a deep-rooted posture. The old tree has many roots, although the appearance is vicissitudes, but it is old and steady, and it can withstand the rain and sun, and can withstand the destruction of the wind.

The old saying is the result of life experience, the crystallization of experience, although not every word, but it is a rare experience, but also full of wisdom.

The old man's words are often out of concern for the surroundings, care for interpersonal relationships, and peace of mind for the next generation. This kind of chatter is really the love of the world.

From babbling, to toddler, to tiptoeing, which parent doesn't keep chattering back and forth.

Every child will always be a child in the hearts of the elderly, even if the young are away from home and the eldest is back, and the sideburns have declined, the first words of the parents must be "Have you eaten enough?" "Children have to leave home, and parents always tell them to "wear more clothes!" Cover yourself with a quilt at night!

It's like caring for a toddler. No matter how children go, they will always let their parents worry about them.

If you are worried about how to adjust the mentality of the elderly? What kind of old people are more likely to be optimistic? Is it easy for the elderly to be mentally unhealthy due to bad mood? and other psychological aspects of the elderly.

Then be more patient and wait for the answer you want, the old people are generally like this, talking more verbosely, and repeating more content.

Talking to the old man is to make the old man happy, happy, you listen more and talk less, he is happy, and the goal is achieved.

The situation that the elderly suddenly scold and make trouble every day needs to be comprehensively judged in combination with whether there are other manifestations, because if the elderly suddenly have abnormal behavior, they need to consider three diseases. 1. If he is accompanied by memory decline at the same time, memory here refers to the decline in near memory and comprehension, such as not being able to find the way home after going out, etc., if there are these manifestations, it needs to be highly considered as Alzheimer's. 2. Organic mental disorders, such as post-tumor mental disorders, need to be comprehensively examined, especially intracranial and thoracic examinations, because intracranial and lung tumors can also cause mental disorders, so they need to be clarified.

3. If you suddenly scold people every day, accompanied by high emotions, feel better about yourself, and be nosy, you should consider mania. Therefore, if this situation occurs suddenly, it is necessary to go to the hospital for timely examination, and only after a clear diagnosis can it be targeted**.

I might worry you about it, but let's do it.

Here's the thing: the old man talks nonsense to indicate that the cerebral blood supply is insufficient, whether it is a heart problem. There are also elderly people who also talk nonsense before they die, which is also caused by insufficient blood circulation (uncertain).

If it's just recently, then go to the hospital to see the doctor, my grandmother was also talking nonsense in the hospital a few days ago, and after saying it, she said "I'm talking nonsense again", and suddenly suffocated at noon the next day, but she was rescued. Talking nonsense is also a manifestation of organ failure in the elderly. Timely rescue and reasonable medication, it is also possible to live for a few more years.

The old man loves to nag is a manifestation of concern for you, they keep asking questions, just want to know more about your situation, you can't blame them, you can only blame you for too little communication with them, they don't know some of your situation, can only seize the opportunity to ask more when you go home.

The elderly care about you, and sometimes they want you to care more about them, and they will ask you if they want to chat with you.

There are so many old people like this, you pretend not to hear them every time. One ear to hear, one ear to out. That's how I am. To understand them pro.

This depends on who the old man is you, if your own parents or an elderly person who has a better relationship with your family, then try to endure it as much as you can. If you can't bear it, change the subject and say something that interests you. If you can talk too much, for hours, you can find an excuse to go out, someone is looking for something, or there is something to do or something to do, just leave!

If it's the ones that don't matter, the ones who don't have any real relationships, or the ones you hate yourself. Just rush back, or stab back with words, for example, ask you how your grades were? Are you married?

Have you had a child, have you had a job, and how much is your salary? Something like that. You just ask him about his son, his grandson, these things.

If it's not convenient to go back directly, find an excuse to retreat.

Normal old people are willing to talk to you a little more, some don't, maybe no one usually talks to him too much, or maybe you haven't been back for a long time, and I miss you more, I just want to talk to you more. Or it's the kind of sincerity that wants to understand your current situation, and it's all well-intentioned. Well, it's better to follow some of them and they don't have too many problems.

If it is one, there is a malicious comparison in itself, or they want to find an excuse to slander you. Then there is no need to listen to their Rory's ramblings, those who can go back will be topped, and those who can't be like this will retreat. They don't matter anyway.

This is the generation gap, mutual understanding, patience with the elderly, and not explaining if it is a repetitive question

I can go home a few days a year, and it is normal for the elderly to think about their children. I want to say a few words to you, and you can listen to it patiently. If you're at home all year round, the old man won't tell you so much. I feel sorry for the old man.

People will be verbose when they are old, everyone has a day when they are old, do you think about it, won't you be old? The old man is verbose or you don't explain clearly that you and the old man take the initiative to talk every day, and the old man will rest assured that he will answer all questions, filial piety and filial piety is to follow the old man, and you have a sense of guilt that shows that you are still very filial to the old man, and treat the old man like a child with a little patience!

Helpless. If you really can't stand it, stay away, communication is really a problem. I live with the elderly now, and I feel really entangled. If you leave here next year, there will be a low point in people's lives, and you must have the courage to move forward.

: The elderly are old because they are old, their memory and mind are not very flexible, so they always repeat when expressing things, which is manifested in verbosity, so young people always annoy the old man when they go home, but empathy, the old man is also for your good, and is eager to communicate with you.

The elderly are actually very lonely and lonely, many times, they need us to accompany them, we are by their side, they will be very happy and content.

The best filial piety to the elderly is to listen to their nagging and chat with them. These are much stronger than how much money you give them.

The old people are alive, you can still listen to their nagging, how happy you should be. One day, when they are gone, you want to listen to their nagging, but you can't hear it.

Cherish it, everyone will grow old. Be kind to the elderly, but also be kind to yourself. The filial piety that should be done must be fulfilled. Don't bother them.

The old man nags that you hate iron but not steel. The old man hopes that the children will become talented as soon as possible, you have to understand them more, once you are annoyed, or go out for a walk, or open **, find a way to avoid your mood troubles, and it will be better slowly.

Today's young people can't stand the verbosity of the elderly. That's how life is. Just say yes to whatever he says, and he won't be verbose.

Let's just don't hear it, after all, we ourselves will be old, understand more, old man.

No way, it's like this for almost everyone when they go home. Personally, I basically implement the principle of "can't be provoked and can hide".

At the beginning, the old man had not been seen for a long time, and I must have asked about the situation during this time, and at this time I would still answer patiently with a smile on my face.

If a few hours have passed, it's still like this. Then you'll have to find an excuse to slip away. For example, "I'm a little tired, I'll go take a break." Then, he hid back in his room, what should he do?

[Generation gap].

Ga gang, stick a gang, the old lady is not with the old man!

Age differences, creating a generation gap. , for sure:

While rambling, ignore it!

It is a natural law that the old man is verbose, and the same is true when we are old. Don't be disgusted, listen carefully.

Elderly people are sometimes overconfident and always treat their adult children as children, or because they want to maintain their dignity and repeatedly emphasize their own opinions, or because of changes in their personalities, they can listen to the opinions of the elderly appropriately and cannot refuse on the surface.

Be patient and listen to the old man's nagging, that is to care about you, there are many old people with old roots, and everyone has the day when they are old.

Experts point out that the nagging of the elderly may be caused by some kind of psychological problems of the elderly, which needs to be paid attention to. There are many kinds of nagging in the elderly, and in general, most of them are not psychological problems, so there is no need to see a psychologist. And if the elderly love to nag all day long, meddling in things, making the family restless, affecting the whole family, it is a psychological problem, and it should be psychological.

Why can't you stand the old man's verbosity? The old man's verbosity may be lonely, I hope you care more about him, or it may care about you, you have time to listen more, it's not a problem, to be honest, when the old man is gone, you can't listen to his verbose if you want to, then you think why not accompany him more when the old man is there, listen to their verbose more!

The old man's verbosity contains love for his children, or dissatisfaction with his children, and through constant nagging, he reiterates his wishes so that his children can attract enough attention.

There is also a considerable proportion of the elderly verbose is a physiological pathology, people have a declining memory when they are old, and when they finish a thing, they forget it when they finish a sentence, and then repeat it again and again.

There are also many elderly people in the early stage of Alzheimer's disease, which is manifested by nonsensical nagging, anxiety, depression, insecurity, and sensitivity to physical discomfort repeatedly. When I went to the hospital, I couldn't find any organic lesions, but only sub-health symptoms. It will make the whole family unable to live happily.

Of course, the old man doesn't want to be long-winded himself, he can't help it, the children are still patient, everyone has an old time, today's old man is tomorrow's us.

Dementia, need to go to the hospital for examination**.

Do you know how many times your parents taught you the first word you say? Do you know the first person you knew, how many times your parents taught you? Do you know your first move, how many times your parents taught you?

Do you know all of this? It's a bit verbose when people get old. But as a child, you must learn to listen, even if you are annoyed.

I'm a parent, I'm a child, but I go to my parents every day and talk to them. Of course, occasionally I come back late from overtime, so I won't bother them.

Therefore, children should learn to listen to their parents' verbosity.

Alas! Parents in the world, is it so easy to live, don't argue with him and listen to him, praise him from time to time, praise him. Praise him embarrassed, he is happy and worry-free, and he has done his filial piety. Why not!

Is it so easy for your dad to raise you, white-eyed wolf.