What kind of person is a person who never counts when he speaks

A gentleman's words, the horse is difficult to chase", "if you don't believe in it, you can't stand, if you don't have a city", they all teach us to be honest and trustworthy. But some people, what they have said is like a fart, and it is just gone.

When they make promises to others, they don't think about whether they want to do it or not, whether they have the ability to do it, as long as it is someone else's request, they all nod and say yes. When we see them so talkative, we think they are good gentlemen, trustworthy people. But why has it been so long since the promised things have not been fulfilled?

I think it's a sign of their lack of perseverance and responsibility. Most of us, after giving a promise to others, will try to do it, even if it doesn't work out in the end, but we at least take action. But those who don't talk only promise but do not act, and all their promises are like castles in the air, which can only be seen and cannot be touched.

They think that I can't finish my own work, why should I do it for you, and as for what I promised, it's just for the sake of sounding good. They just give you hope, but also give you despair, they are a bit selfish, hypocritical, and they can't think much but themselves.

Speaking without words will damage our character, so we must be trustworthy. If you really can't accomplish something, you'd rather refuse than slap your swollen face and become fat.

Some things, not to say a knot, but to say a scar. You're overwhelmed I can't guess, I'm inconsequential you can't imagine. How strong you have to be to dare to forget; You are not brave, and no one is strong for you.

There's nothing you can't get by, it's just that you can't go back. The eyes that have shed tears are brighter, and the hearts that have been dripping blood are stronger. After the pain, you won't feel pain, and some will only have an indifferent heart.

One person, one city, a lifetime of distress.

First, the depth is different:

It is the former who thinks from the perspective of the listener and thinks about the listener; The latter starts from their own point of view and considers the feelings of others less. A person who can't speak, although he has a frank temperament, although he has a straight voice, a manifestation of his true temperament, but often has no skills, so it is easy to offend people, so it is easy to hurt people's self-esteem, it is easy to make the other party unable to go down the steps, it is a kind of person who can't speak, his life is destined not to go too far, mainly related to the performance of a person's IQ and EQ.

Second, emotional intelligence is different:

The former has high emotional intelligence, is popular everywhere, and has a good career development; The latter has low emotional intelligence, is easy to offend people, and has limited career development.

3. Different measurements:

The former is more broad-minded, optimistic and open-minded, and less affected by the mood of others; The latter likes to drill into trouble, has poor emotional control, cares about the immediate reaction of others, and is easily influenced by others. The one who can talk is sacrificing himself for the betterment of others; People who can't speak are in the process of not thinking about others for themselves. For the better development of individuals and society, we should all strive to be a person who can speak!

People who don't talk are a sign of their lack of perseverance and responsibility.

If a person's words often don't count, it means that he is a person who does not keep promises, and he is also a person without credibility, and such a person generally cannot entrust him with anything important. You should also think twice about his promises or words, and don't be stupid and easily believe.

I don't know what exactly happened to you, if he didn't ask you anything, then such a person just needs to get along with each other ordinarily, if he asks you, then you have to think about it carefully, as long as you don't blindly follow what others say to do Liang Stall, you won't be deceived, and you can keep an eye on everything.

The meaning of integrity to people:

Integrity is a kind of social moral principles and norms, which requires people to guide their actions with the principle of seeking truth and pragmatism, and treat all work with the attitude of unity of knowledge and action. Under the conditions of the market economy, only by establishing the moral character of sincerity and trustworthiness can people meet the requirements of social life and realize the value of their own lives.

The importance and significance of integrity to people is that only by cultivating the behavioral qualities of telling the truth, doing honest things, and being an honest person, and treating the people around them with integrity, can we better adapt to social life and realize the value of our own life. <>

Summary. Hello, dear, people who don't talk are generally thoughtful people, who don't speak easily to express their opinions, and who have their own opinions.

Hello, dear, people who don't talk are generally thoughtful people, who don't speak easily to express their opinions, and who have their own opinions.

I just don't know what to say, and sometimes I don't say it in my heart.

Well, introverted and timid people who don't talk are still good people, and others take me for fools at work.

Dear, the main reason why you are usually thoughtful in your heart is that your surname is more introverted and doesn't like to express yourself very much, which doesn't matter.

If that's the case, then don't always be too obedient to other people at work, and you have to show your own surname.

Dear, how old are you, and your current job is in the office.

I came out to work at the age of 18 and worked in the factory, and many people bullied me for not knowing how to resist, and I didn't say anything.

Dear, are you a man or a girl? You are too sincere to people, but there is always some competition in the workplace, those workers at work may not be able to get along with each other as friends, you must know how to keep refusing to leave them and learn to refuse them, you should not follow them too much in the future, and show your surname.

Dear, you can read more books in Qingjingchun, or read some related people-to-person dialogues, and learn by yourself how others deal with interpersonal communication, and learn how others speak.

I'm a woman. It's 30 years old this year, and it's a little better now than before, but when I think of me before, I can't wait to die, I want to kill those who bullied me, I don't know how I got by, I suppress righteous thoughts every day, others bully me and scold me, I won't resist, only silently bow my head and work.

Dear, you are a very good and kind girl, you are for a better job, you don't want to argue, you are stupid to help not to bring people away, but those people don't respect you and are still hurting you, which is very unfair to you. You're aware now, that's good, and you're definitely not going to be like this anymore. Are you married now?

Married. Dear, you are also a very down-to-earth and very simple girl, they will come to you for help in the future, you don't pay attention to them anymore.

First of all, correct a concept, being able to speak does not mean being a sycophant!

Talking is a language art, not some sycophancy. When I was working in a company, I had an old lady who was very skilled in speaking. A tricky and difficult thing to do, when others report to the boss, they often encounter a gray judgment, and as soon as she comes out, she is invincible.

Chatting with her, even if it is a subordinate, there will be no pressure, and there is always a feeling of spring breeze. That's the beauty of language.

In the workplace, it is very important to be able to speak. Being able to speak can not only gain good interpersonal relationships, but also improve work ability. If you can't speak, your grandmother doesn't love your uncle, your colleagues don't cooperate, and your leaders don't want to see you, which can be described as miserable.

So, what's the difference between a person who can talk and someone who can't?

One, a talking person, tactful; People who can't speak, directly. People who can talk, the tone is more tactful, so that people are not stressed. People who can't speak are straightforward and unscrupulous, and people are emotionally difficult to accept.

Second, the person who can talk, soft; People who can't speak, blunt. Speakers tend to have a consultative tone, not a commanding tone, and everyone will like it. People who can't speak speak are blunt, and everyone will be disgusted.

Three, the talker, praise, the talker, mean. The one who can talk is good at complimenting, which makes people feel like a bosom friend. People who can't speak are vicious and disgusting.

Fourth, the person who can talk, the humble retreat, the person who can't speak, the competitive. Those who can talk know how to retreat from humility, and they will not fight to win. People who can't speak are competitive and like to distinguish between winners and losers.

Five, the person who can talk, warm, the person who can't speak, indifferent. People who can talk know how to imitate and respect others, which makes people feel like a spring breeze. People who can't speak are selfish and indifferent, which makes people shudder.

Sixth, those who can talk blame themselves, and those who can't speak blame others. When a person who can talk to a problem, the first thing he does is to reflect on himself. People who can't speak, when they make mistakes, are the first to shirk responsibility.

Seven, the one who can talk, listen, the one who can't speak, nag. People who can talk will never talk too much, they will talk nonsense, they are good at listening. Those who can't speak are chattering and chattering.

Eight, the talker, analysis, the talker, argue! When there is a contradiction, the person who can talk is not in a hurry or annoyed, and deeply analyzes and guides step by step. Those who can't speak are bare and arguing.

Nine, the person who can talk, think twice, the person who can't speak, impulsive. Those who can talk will never fire guns indiscriminately, but think twice. People who can't speak tend to blurt out without thinking.

Ten, those who can talk, understand, those who can't speak, justify. Talkers are empathetic and will put themselves in the other person's shoes. People who can't speak are self-centered, have no heart of understanding, and only have the meaning of justification.