My husband has a good temper, but he talks too long winded, how can he get along with him if he says

There is no perfect person in the world, everyone will have some problems, talking too verbose is not a big problem, if you really don't want to listen to your husband's long-winded voice, you can choose to listen to ** and so on, or you can suggest that your husband should consider changing this habit, I think in the days of living together, you will definitely find a way for you to get along.

No one is perfect, think more about his good temper!

Talking, talking over and over again, never concise, and very talkative, always like a mosquito in your ear buzzing, really upsetting, a girlfriend next to me is like this, decades, has not changed at all, it is estimated that your husband will also be easy to change his nature, only you slowly adapt to him.

Anyway, he has a good temper, you can interrupt him or change the subject and force him to stop, or sometimes you can leave silently and leave him there to talk and chatter and chatter.

My husband has a good temper, but how do you get along with each other when he talks and says a sentence several times? Your husband, it means that you are married, and you have accepted it. There is also the fact that you are too domineering after you get married, so that your husband is not assertive when he speaks.

There are two reasons, the first is that you are looking for this everywhere. The second is that you are forced by your strength after marriage. So you take it!

Talking is just a habit, sometimes you can not care too much and not be upset, since it is not a big problem to become a husband and wife to tolerate each other, if you are silent all day long, aren't you just as annoying.

My wife is in the same situation, I used to use it to talk about him at first, which often showed my impatience, but in fact he didn't mean it, it was just a habit. It's really hard for this group of stars to change. The method I used was that every time she nagged a second time, I would ask my daughter to say she was a cheerleader, and after a few months it didn't happen anymore.

My husband has a good temper! But the talk is too wordy. Say it several times.

He loves to talk very much, and he is so tired of listening to it every day. After all, you knew about this thing before you got married. There is no such thing as a 100% perfect person.

Couples should be more tolerant of each other, everyone has shortcomings, after running-in, tolerance, many are not a big problem.

It's a matter of habit, as long as you get used to it. Besides, since he is very good, this kind of problem is not a problem in the first place, and a good man also needs to cherish it.

You don't need to adjust any mentality, just develop a conditioned reflex, and after listening to it once, the other several times of selective amnesia will become. Make it a habit, OK!

I think this is a person's habit, you feel unbearable now, so why didn't the two of them feel unbearable when they fell in love, but your feelings for him are weak now, so you lack tolerance and patience.

Don't always talk about his shortcomings, in that case, why would you marry him? Now is it not particularly regretful, if you can't go on with it, divorce. A woman who is married for the second time is very miserable, because no one will cherish you, you have to see the good side of others, if you lose him, will you be happy?

Dispel your thoughts.

A good-tempered person just speaks a little verbose, which is a common trait of most people. This kind of person is easy to get along with.

I can only listen to it, because my husband chooses it by himself, and if I talk about him, I will definitely quarrel.

Summary. Hello, dear <>

Good afternoon. When your husband speaks too badly, you can first communicate with your husband about it, talk to him well, and tell him that it is not good to talk like this, and you don't like him to talk like this. Over time, it will also affect each other's feelings.

What should I do if my husband's speech is too ugly?

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Good afternoon. When your husband's speech is too ugly, you can first communicate with your husband about this family cover, talk to him well, and tell him that it is not good to talk like this, and you don't like him to talk like this. Over time, it will also affect each other's feelings.

And you can tell your husband that some of his words are difficult to hear, which is not only impolite, but also not lacking in civility. Others don't feel comfortable when they hear it. It will also bring negative congratulatory teaching materials to children.

I hope he can realize the shortcomings of his inattentive speech and unpleasant hearing, and can correct it.

Your husband speaks too badly. First, it is possible that he himself has always had such a habit of talking. He didn't think it was right either, and thought it was normal.

Duan Cha didn't realize that this was not good and fought fiercely. Second. Your husband may have been in a bad mood lately and has been experiencing a lot of troubles.

So when he speaks, it's hard to listen to Mingranmo, and he is venting his bad emotions.

What about you, first analyze what is the reason why it is too difficult for your husband to speak and shoot Qingshan during the attack. Then communicate with your husband. If he cares about you and your relationship is very good, when you bring it up to him, I believe he is willing to correct it. <>

Summary. The purpose of long-winded people is to say that they will come out, it doesn't matter if you don't listen to them, continue to be selectively blind.

It's not a big problem, it's better to change others than to change yourself. Some women expect men to talk a lot.

My husband has a good temper, but he speaks too long-winded, says a sentence several times, often talks non-stop, and is so tired of listening to it every day, how to adjust his mentality?

Long-winded people are the ones who will see what they say, and it doesn't matter if they don't listen to them, continue to be selectively blind. It's not a big problem, it's better to change others than to change yourself. Some women expect men to talk a lot.

I feel that I can bear it after listening to it for a while, and I hear the same meaning over and over again every day, sometimes things are urgent, and I don't have time to listen to it, so I have to interrupt him, but every time I see the frustration on his face, I blame myself, sometimes I really don't want to work with Kai Ku him, but I don't allow it to be wiped out by Sun Chongji, and it's always like this, I always feel that sooner or later there will be problems with the relationship.

I don't like this feeling of letting others see it all, we are now in the early days of our business, and I am a little anxious every time I see him say too much.

When I went out to talk about customers, he was saying, I originally wanted to make things clear about Huai Xiaorang, and gave him all the time, we didn't know anything about the other party's details, but let him talk about our situation over and over again. It is prudent to start a business together, communication is very important, everyone has the same purpose, and we must communicate more.

In fact, I already know by now that it's his habit, it's almost hard to change, I can't always blame him, it will dampen his enthusiasm, I want to change what I want, I can't help my own opinion, but it's also so difficult. He never said that I was not good, but I couldn't help but interrupt him at the end of three days, always criticize him, and see that Yun Qi shouted that he was sad, and I was so sad, every time I couldn't help my mouth, I immediately said to him, I don't know how to change my impulse to express immediately

Get along well again, after all, it's not easy for two people to come together. If you really can't break up, because life is not easy. Why should you have wronged yourself?

Communicate appropriately, husband and wife tolerate each other, both parties have to work hard, marriage needs to be managed with heart, I wish you happiness!

See if he has any other merits? The more he praises his merits, the more he will easily stop swearing. For example, if you say to your husband, "It's good that you praised your neighbor's child for being smart today, and I think the same way."

If you are not sincere, do not disturb There is a good saying above: It is a mistake for two people to be together, and it is wrong to be wrong when you get married. It's sad to say, but it's a concept of marriage that tells you that two people should be forgiving and tolerant of each other when they are together.

It depends on what you think, if you want to continue to live together, you need to love him more, tolerate him, as long as he doesn't do too much to you, you will be "heartless" a little, with your smile, your love to touch him.

Consult a psychiatrist, as there are times when you need to take a scientific approach to change him slowly.

Now that you've chosen, keep going, and if you feel there's still a chance to do it all over again, then hurry up and divide it.

Pay more attention to his interests and hobbies, and be considerate of each other!

Be tolerant of each other and try to communicate often.

Why were you together then???

Maybe it's too much pressure at work, so two people go on a trip!

Two people are together and need to run in with each other.

If you still love him, endure a little, and leave if you don't love him.

The absence of a common language is a tragedy.

I thought: since you're married...There must be a man who has his merits....Attracts you.

Of course, there is no common topic, the card is not good, this is all a man's failure.

There are several options:

One: Communicate well, if he really loves you, he will slowly improve.

Two: Don't magnify his shortcomings, but magnify his advantages. Could it be that you didn't take the initiative to talk to him, or did you do something to make him angry?

Say not to listen to the version: Three: He is fierce You have to be more fierce than him....The more he swallows his anger, the more he will gain an inch.

Breakup version: Four: Just do something that he can't stand and hate, and let him divorce you. (For example, you also use foul language, throw things, cry, and quarrel about divorce).

Boys won't be able to stand it....

Get used to it, see if you love him or not.

If you love him, nothing is a problem.

With love solves everything.

You can try to restrain what you say, some things you can't say when you're angry, which will hurt the other person's feelings, such as divorce, such as you are always ......sentence structure, for example, you don't ...... at allsentence structure.

When you are angry, let the other party know that your feelings are wise, two people live together, there are always times when you are angry, if you are angry, you don't control your mouth, and say something that cannot be undone, it will make things worse, and even break each other's feelings, so you must restrain yourself from picking ugly things to say.

Take a deep breath first, and then meditate for five seconds whether the other party loves you, and then think about the beautiful things you have done, some romantic memories, and some things he has done for you, which will calm you down slowly......Let the other party know what you think in your heart, and the other party knows your thoughts, so you can understand why you are angry. In this way, the contradictions are resolved, so that there are fewer and fewer contradictions between each other.

Many couples will feel that the relationship between each other is getting worse and worse, and they all feel that marriage is the grave of love, I think marriage is the beginning of love, marriage needs two people to operate, love one person needs to pay, and also need to adapt to each other.

For example, your habit at home is to help your mother brush the dishes together after eating, and his experience since he was a child is to watch TV after eating, and his mother brushes it, after getting married, the two of you will definitely quarrel and get angry because of such a thing, then you need to communicate to see if the other party can brush the dishes with you because they love you, which avoids anger and puts an end to it at the source.

If you really can't find the direction to change, it is recommended to take some marriage counseling courses, and the two of you go together to learn some ways to get along in marriage, which will be of great help to you.

When I was in school before, there was a group of classmates who claimed to be social people, who didn't understand when they were young, and they regarded ignorance as elegance and vulgarity as power, and they learned the way those social people spoke, and you should be able to guess the general way of speaking, so I won't say much. Later, when I came home from school, I had this tone when I talked to my family, but when my mother told me, I restrained myself and changed back.

I don't say this to say that I can change it, you can't change it, I changed it quickly because I was still in school at the time, the cultural atmosphere of the school is still very good, there are people around who swear but it is not very difficult to hear, and it is generally civilized and harmonious. I think it's hard for you to quarrel with your husband, and if you want to change it, you still have to change it from your surroundings, after all, if you have a relatively less such environment, I don't think you will come up with anything even if you want to say something ugly.

It's too difficult to change the environment, and that's the root cause, I know that, so we have to find another way. I found out that you are talking ugly when you quarrel with your husband, it seems that we have to start with the quarrel, as little as possible, sometimes the reason for the quarrel between husband and wife is very speechless, so if you are angry, then you think about whether this fight should be quarreled or not, what can be changed after the quarrel, or what can be achieved and what can be lost. Or if you can't stop your anger, then you can do something else, such as taking a walk and running three laps, which will help you calm down quickly.

In general, these two methods, changing speaking habits and avoiding quarrels, hope to help.

When people are angry, it is inevitable that they will not be able to hold back their mouths, but the brain will say a lot of hurtful words, and as soon as the words come out, they will not be able to take it back, and the damage caused will not be undone, I think the next time you quarrel again, you can leave it appropriately, let yourself calm down, or when you can't help but speak ill of each other, try to think about whether this sentence will hurt your husband.