What is the relationship between our loved ones and ourselves in their past lives?

During the reign of Emperor Wu of Liang, Buddhism flourished in China. Whenever there is a wedding or funeral, the monk is invited to recite the scriptures. Today's times are different, and now only for funerals, do monks be invited to recite scriptures; When there are happy events, such as marriage and childbirth, no one asks a monk to recite the scriptures.

Actually, this is wrong. Regardless of whether it is red or white, the monks should be invited to recite the sutras and dedicate themselves to planting blessings, so that on the one hand, they can surpass the deceased, and on the other hand, they can increase the blessings of the survivors.

During the time of Emperor Wu of Liang, there was a monk Zhigong, who was a senior monk, he had five eyes and six links, and the causes and consequences were clear one by one. Once, a wealthy family had a marriage, so he asked the monk Zhigong to recite the scriptures. As soon as he stepped through the door, he sighed

Weird, weird, the grandson marries the grandmother, the pig and the sheep sit on the kang, the six relatives cook in the pot, the woman eats the mother's meat, the son plays the father's skin drum, everyone comes to congratulate, I think it's really bitter!

What does this mean? "A grandson marries a grandmother", do you think it's strange? It turned out that when this grandmother was dying, she dragged her grandson's hand and was very reluctant.

She said, "You are all married, but my little grandson has no one to take care of you." Alas!

What to do? With that, he died.

When she arrived at the underworld, the king of Yama sentenced her: "Since you have doted on your grandson in this way, you should go back and be his wife, so that you can take care of him." So my grandmother asked her to be the wife of her grandson. So the causes and consequences in the world are sometimes terrible.

Monk Zhigong looked at the kang and said, "The pig and sheep sit on the kang", and when he looked into the vegetable pot, he said, "Cook in the pot of six relatives". It turns out that the pigs and sheep that were slaughtered in the past have now come back to eat people to compensate for the retribution!

The six relatives who used to eat pigs and sheep are now back to be cooked and cut and pay off their debts in the pot.

The woman eats the flesh of her mother". Outside, a girl is eating pig's trotters, which turned out to be her mother in her previous life.

The son beats the father's skin drum". Monk Zhigong took a look at those who played **, playing gongs and drums, blowing trumpets, and flutes, so lively! There was a man who was beating the drum vigorously, and the drum was made of donkey skin, and this donkey turned out to be his father in his previous life!

After listening to this public case, everyone should know the horror of killing and eating meat. He also studied the word "meat": "There are two people in the word meat, and there are people outside in it, and all living beings still eat the flesh of all living beings, and carefully think about people eating people." ”

So, being able to be vegan is the best. After some people arrived in the City of Ten Thousand Buddhas, they vowed to go back and eat vegetarian food. This is very good, cut off contact with the six realms of reincarnation, you don't eat him, he doesn't eat you; If you don't kill him, he won't kill you, and then the cycle of karma will be purified.

Karma is not at all unpleasant, hence the clouds:

For thousands of years, the bowl of soup has been as deep as the sea and hateful.

If you want to know the sword robbery in the world, listen carefully to the sound of slaughtering the door in the middle of the night.

The resentment contained in a bowl of broth is as deep as the sea, and it is indescribable. You have to know why there are wars and killings in the world, for example, when two countries fight each other and are killed and wounded, this is the gathering of the bad karma of all sentient beings and receiving retribution at the same time. If you could listen to the screams of the slaughterhouse in the middle of the night, you should understand the horror of killing.

There is providence in the dark.

But what kind of relationship is inseparable from these four relationships, repaying gratitude, repaying grievances, debts, and repaying debts. These are the four relationships. State fingers.

Everyone says that they were indebted in their previous life, so they were reincarnated in that person's family, and their parents were kind to their children for the rest of their lives to compensate them (

1 From the perspective of primary Buddhism, there are four relationships: 1 retribution, 2 revenge, 3 debt collection, 4 debt repayment

2 From the perspective of intermediate Buddhism: everything is an illusion of the mind, the nuclear hole is not a real existence, it is the attachment of ordinary people, and they mistakenly believe that existence is in fact that there is no reincarnation at all, and the so-called reincarnation is just an illusion in the mind of ordinary people

3 From the point of view of the higher levels of Buddhism: Nyorai Tibetan nature has all the merits, including all samsara and all suffering and happiness, all of which are the merits of Nyolaizang

Honoring one's parents is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, lambs kneel and breastfeed, animals still know how to repay their parents' nurturing grace, how can you say that your parents are your debt? Were your parents heinous?

Four kinds: repaying gratitude, complaining, collecting debts, and repaying debts; The relationship between people is not beyond these four; Mother tongue relationships may be a combination of one or more of them. There is also a description:

Husband and wife are fate, good fate and evil fate, no fate does not gather; Children are debts, collect debts and pay debts, and do not come without debts. This is described in two ways. Hope it helps.

Parents are the best teachers for their children, and what the teacher teaches is naturally what the child is like, so it is different whether it is debt or love.

The daughter is the lover of the father's last life.

Not necessarily. The birth of a person is only a thought at that time.

One thought is enlightened, and the Buddha is born.

A thought is lost, and the animals are fallen.

The relationship with parents is to repay gratitude, to repay grievances, to repay debts, and to collect debts.

No matter what kind of situation you belong to, in this life, you must be grateful to your parents, gain this human body, practice diligently, enlighten the wisdom of the Buddha, and save others.

For example, Fan's match fruit is a girl and a mother: in terms of emotions or gossip topics, it is the relationship between best friends, in terms of learning, it is a teacher-student relationship, in terms of doing housework, it is a relationship between friends.

If it is a boy and a father: it is a brotherly relationship in terms of emotion, a buddy relationship in terms of studying, a teacher's relationship in terms of being a person and doing things, and a relationship of friends when going out to play.

All sentient beings have been my parents, relatives, friends, and dependents since the beginningless eon. Fathers and daughters in this world are certainly no exception.

The daughter was husband and wife with her father in her previous life.

The relationship between the daughter and the mother in her previous life was that of mother and daughter.

Summary. c. In the past life as in this life, they are still your parents. They have made a lot of comebacks for you, and you know how to reciprocate, and the family is very happy.

Therefore, in this life, they are still willing to do anything for you, and they will not feel tired, but they will never get tired of it. D: In your previous life, your parents were your children, and you loved them very much in life, and the above is mine.

I'm sorry I don't understand, but can you elaborate on that?

c. In the past life as in this life, they are still your parents. They have made a lot of comebacks for you, and you know how to reciprocate, and your family is very happy. Therefore, in this life, they are still willing to do anything for you, and they will not feel tired, but they will never get tired of it.

D: In the previous life, your parents were your children, and you loved them very much in life.

Personally, I think maybe I was my parents' brothers and sisters in my previous life, because I think I talked to my parents very well, there is no generation gap at all, when I go back, I feel that when they are friends with me, they want to talk about what they want to talk about, they respect me, I respect them, he never wakes me up in the morning when I can't get up, or forces me to do something I don't want to do, in short, I feel that they are friends with me, but in this life we are mother, daughter, father and daughter, But in the interpretation of the fact that we must be friends, otherwise our relationship will not be so good, that is, we meet our parents, but we must be friends in the last life. Actually, I like this feeling, because I feel that being with my parents is like a friend, chatting every day, and without fear, I will understand each other, understand each other, and understand each other, which is actually very good. <>

Actually, I don't believe in the past life and the present life, after all, this is not very scientific, but if you have to define a relationship between yourself and your parents' past life, I think it should still be the relationship between parents and children, but maybe we have changed roles in our previous lives, maybe I am an elder, and they are children.

I think life is really a wonderful thing, when I was young, we had to rely on our parents for everything, and when we grew up, we became the only support of our parents, as I grew older, I can feel more and more dependent on my parents, just as I relied on them when I was a child. <>

Today, my mother called me **, let me buy her clothes online, originally said that I wanted a down jacket, and later** when I was about to hang up, she suddenly whispered that she wanted a turtleneck, but I was afraid that I would be annoyed, so I didn't buy it, at that moment I was suddenly stunned, as if I saw me when I was a child praying to my parents for a new toy and was afraid that my parents would not agree, but at the same time I felt a sour nose.

I said, "If you want, you can buy it, and it doesn't take much effort", and she smiled like a child on the other side of the **, just like me who got toys when I was a child and was satisfied.

The relationship between parents and children is very ingenious, regardless of whether there is a past life or a present life, we should cherish the hard-won present and cherish every day when our parents are still there.