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For prenatal memory, I believe many people are very curious, in fact, curiosity about this magical phenomenon is not only us ordinary people, experts are no exception. For example, Ikekawa, an obstetrician and gynecologist in Japan, has done a related investigation. Ikekawa conducted a survey of 1,620 babies with an average age of 4 years old, and found that 534 babies had memories of the birth process and 335 babies had memories of the birth process.
If the baby's prenatal memory is very special, then it is unfathomable to understand the mother's confidant, such as the following mother's encounter, I don't know if you have experienced it.
At that time, when I was pregnant with the baby, because the due date was more than ten in the first month, I was afraid that he would not pass the New Year, so the birthday was too small, I spoke to the baby on the abdomen, hey, let's discuss, after the New Year, it is good to come out again, it is very likely that the baby heard, four days of the year just passed, the fifth day of the first five days of the morning was in a hurry, haha, the baby is so good.
My son's due date is three days later than my husband's birthday, and I told my husband when I was five months pregnant, it would be good if the baby went out early, and it was best to be able to celebrate your birthday with you, which is undoubtedly a better birthday gift for you! I have said it many times, and I concluded that the child was indeed born three days early, and on the birthday of the two of them, my husband was dizzy with joy, and I was very excited!
I told the baby that I was due to be out! Don't catch me off guard, don't let me wait anxiously, after the due date of delivery in the morning of the inspection has not been reflected, in the afternoon to see red, the next morning together in the hospital there were three significant uterine contractions, the rest of the pain is not painful, and the evening will be born!
This kind of baby is so sensible, I firmly believe that after growing up, it will be a caring little padded jacket or a little warm man, which is to make people envious and jealous!
I am three days away from the due date, the umbilical cord around the neck for two weeks, I can't choose to give birth naturally, the doctor is my aunt, I said that it is two or three days anyway, tomorrow is a good day, tomorrow will be a caesarean section! Then the amniotic fluid broke at around 3 o'clock in the morning, and the uterine contraction did not work at 8 o'clock, so it was dissected. My aunt said that the baby heard it, and then she tried to find a way to come out.
It was amazing to find that none of us had taught him to say that it was dark and that he wanted to sleep. But every time after dark, our baby said"It's dark, it's time to sleep"She happened to be 2 years old and less than a month, and some people say that it is actually a habit of the baby in the body, if it is really like that, it is amazing.
A week before giving birth, I dreamed that a little girl of a few years old shouted at me Mom, I wanted to agree, and then I thought that I was not so big when I was born, so I said to the little girl that I am not your mother, you are mistaken, I can't give birth to a child of a few years old, and then it became a boy crying and calling my mother, and then I really gave birth to a child.
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Babies have no prenatal memory. Because his memory does not have a logical function of memory. Only mothers have such memories that they can tell their children, and children can perceive them on their own.
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Yes, babies do have prenatal memories, but these memories are vague, so this part of the baby's memories can only be activated in a specific place and in a specific form.
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The authenticity of prenatal memories remains to be studied, but whether it is true or not, the most important thing is that the child chooses his parents, which is already the most magical and heartwarming thing.
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Every time it gets dark, my baby says"It's dark, it's time to sleep"She is just two years old and less than a month old, and some people say that it may still be the habit of the baby in the womb, if it is really like this, it is simply amazing.
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It was the child who decided to choose me to be her mother.
After becoming a mother, I got a disease called goldfish brain, and many things were forgotten in seven seconds. The black-faced envy of Cai's mother was never proud of her memory, and the two young ladies were even more miserable after they came out. When it comes to memory, the black-faced Cai's mother wants to take advantage of the seventh lunar month to talk about the memory in the womb, when the eldest lady was in my belly, I had a full of questions, so I bought a book about the baby's prenatal memory, after reading it, I was determined to wait for the eldest lady to speak, I must ask her well.
If you want to know more about children, try prenatal memory!
The book says that asking the child about the timing of prenatal memory is:
1. Children can have basic conversation skills, if children can only "uh-huh", "yes", "yes", "yes", the answers they hear are quite vague.
2. Choose to ask questions before going to bed after taking a bath, when the body, mind and spirit are the most relaxed, and there is a better chance of getting the answer, because some children have a very tight mouth.
3. Don't repeat the problem.
4. Don't immediately cut into the theme socks at first, such as what to do in the sky? Children will be wary and should cut to the topic slowly in a roundabout way.
5. Don't ask too many questions at a time, or ask your child questions about prenatal memory too often.
With these principles and directions, you can find an opportunity to ask your baby about the relationship between herself and yourself.
I remember the first time I asked the eldest lady about her prenatal memory, and she said that she remembered playing with a ball and swimming in my stomach, and it was secretly inside. So she remembers! But stick to the principle of not asking too many questions at once, and the first part of our mother-daughter prenatal memory is only asked.
About five or six questions, because she started to sing and sing or something, so she just stopped.
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It must be true, because the fetus has memories as soon as it begins to develop. The most obvious manifestation is to be able to recognize the sound of the mother's heartbeat, to distinguish the sound of the mother's speech, and to identify the mother according to the taste.
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There is this possibility, there will be a certain amount of intranatal memory between the two years of age, and after the age of four or five, this memory will slowly disappear, which is a normal thing.
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Yes, after investigation, many babies are anxious to be in one"The Dark Room"Inside, it is very narrow and stuffy, which is enough to show that the baby has intrauterine memories.
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According to the law of fetal development, the mother's voice can be heard at 18 weeks of pregnancy, and the brain nerves related to memory storage at 25 weeks of pregnancy are gradually formed, and the outside world can be heard at 28 weeks.
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This kind of memory exists, I see that when other people's families give birth to a second child, they have some prenatal education, listen to the child** and so on.
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Babies have intranatal memory, and the best time for intranatal memory is around three years old. Parents can wait for their children to take a bath or relax, or they can ask them about what they could hear or see before they were born while playing.
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Probably there is. When the baby is in the womb, he is already conscious and can feel everything in the outside world. Around the age of 3, the memory in the fetus is more obvious, and you can ask your child in a relaxed environment.
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I think babies have intranatal memories.
Because I asked the baby, what did you do when you were in your mother's belly, and the baby said I was swimming in the water, and then I was waiting to come out to see my mother.
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Yes, because many children can remember their memories of their mother's body.
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I think that intrauterine memory may exist, after all, the child has the ability to perceive in the mother's womb, and he can remember some feelings in the mother's womb. But this kind of intrauterine memory is not something that every child has, it depends on the development of each child in the mother's belly, and well-developed babies have this kind of memory.
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It doesn't exist, it's not. Because in the womb, the child's brain has not yet developed well, so it does not exist.
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Intrauterine memories do exist, but not every child will have them, and this memory is generally retained for a short period of time.
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The latest scientific research has found that the fetus also has memories. Therefore, experts remind expectant fathers that they may wish to communicate more with their children when they are still in the mother's body, which can not only cultivate feelings, but also exercise children's memory.
A child's psyche develops through the accumulation of experience in interaction with the surrounding environment, and memory is an essential prerequisite for this. Memory is almost the same as the ability to appear in the child at the earliest, the latest scientific research has found that the fetus also has memory, the baby born one or two months ago is actually very excited when he sees his mother, because the baby remembers that this is the mother.
Therefore, experts remind expectant fathers that when the baby is still in the mother's womb, in addition to communicating more with the wife, you may wish to communicate more with the baby, which is beneficial to promote the relationship with the baby in the future and strengthen emotional communication.
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Recently, when chatting in the WeChat classmate group, a classmate said that his baby can remember that it was when the mother was the fetus. At that time, I thought it was just subjective for my classmates, so I didn't care too much about it, and smiled.
One night when I was playing with the baby at home, I suddenly remembered this and casually asked the baby a few questions, but the result was much beyond my expectations!! First of all, my baby is 5 years old, usually I take him at home, I have brought him up by myself since I was a child, and I have not let go to my parents-in-law's house, and my grandparents are not in the same place. I haven't been away from my side for a day, so I handled all the education and didn't go to kindergarten.
I also accompanied my parents-in-law's house, all in all, he never left my sight, and I was basically present when others taught him what he said. And my parents didn't have that kind of awareness, and they didn't teach him about human biology and anything like that. In short, he did not have any experience and possibility of gaining relevant knowledge.
Get to the point. When I was playing with the baby on the sofa, I remembered this and casually wanted to try him, so I casually asked, baby, do you remember being in the mother's belly? He said:
Remember, I'm playing with blood in your belly. The only thing I ever told him was that he came out of my mother's belly, and after I told him, he asked me in a matter-of-fact manner, "Mom, did I play with blood in your stomach before?" "I thought he knew that there was blood underneath the **, so Yuan Youming thought he would ask this, so he didn't take it to heart, just thought it was a child's imagination was particularly rich.
However, I was already surprised, because he said that he was playing with blood, and I asked him, aren't you afraid? He said, don't be afraid, have fun! I'm dizzy...
I then asked, aren't you afraid of blood, afraid! Why are you still playing with blood? I'm not afraid, it's fun...
Dizzy, usually the baby is afraid when he sees blood, he is worried and scared when he hurts his hand with a little blood, and he is afraid of the blood he sees in the raw flesh, why does he say that he plays with blood? Unafraid??
This way of companionship is really the right one. And when mom and dad accompany their children, they must communicate more with their children and do some parent-child games.
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