Parents are deceased, alone outside, with no sense of belonging, 10

The parents are gone, the people who care and care for them are gone, and they can only be strong and rely on themselves. It may be difficult and helpless at first, but only face reality, although it is cruel. We must not lose confidence in life, let alone give up on ourselves, but we must see the bright future.

Self-abandonment can only be self-destruction.

There is a boy in our unit who is about 30 years old, his parents have died, he has not talked to anyone, he is left alone, it turns out that his parents are not drinking when they are here, as soon as his parents died, he did not care, left him a house, some savings, he began to have no constraints, often drunk and drunk, colleagues also kindly said that he, he is also very happy on the surface, but he just can't change, it may be that a person's heart is too desolate and depressed, can only quit drinking to eliminate sorrow. But he didn't want to think about whether his parents would be very sad if they saw him like this in the sky!

So this friend, you must grit your teeth and be strong, you must not lose confidence in life, whether you are a boy or a girl, you will find your other half in the future, form your own small family, have your own lovely children, keep the miss of your parents in your heart, you live well, and your parents will rest in heaven!

You can understand your feelings, no matter what, you should love yourself well, after all, life has to go on, as long as you work hard and have a positive attitude towards life, everything will be fine.

There are too many troubles and ups and downs in life, when facing difficulties, only with a strong heart, tell yourself that everything will be fine, only in this way can we go smoothly on the road of life, so don't be discouraged and be a strong and brave person.

Even if it's just one person, we have to spend it happily every day, because life is short, happiness is a day, and unhappiness is also a day, why don't we spend it happily, so let's work hard.

Only by constantly working hard and living silently, even if you are alone outside, you can handle life and work well.

You know, no one can be relied on, even if people with sound parents may not be able to rely on their parents, people need to grow, they need their own wings to fly, and no one can count on them.

Therefore, the most important thing is to be strong and brave to face the future.

It's normal to have no sense of belonging to the outside life, after all, there are more and more people working outside the home, and they can't do anything for their lives, so don't blindly dwell on this issue, work hard is the first priority, work hard and live hard!

From the perspective of common sense of life, I am very sympathetic to your situation, but this is the law of nature, and living people must live well, study and work hard, and live up to the expectations of their parents before their deaths.

The sense of belonging is given to oneself, since the parents are not there, then live their own life and let themselves have a small family of their own, so that there will be a sense of belonging.

Then find a partner, if the two parties get along and really love each other, then get married and start a family, then someone will care about you and take care of you, you will not feel lonely and lonely, if you have children, the family is full of joy and happiness, then you will feel a sense of belonging.

Find a partner, or go to a crowded place, or go to an Internet café, but don't be left alone.

If you don't have a sense of belonging outside, you have to find someone close to you, and the two of you will live together and deal with the tribulations of life together.

If you want to find a sense of belonging, then you should find a partner, only when two people are together, you will feel safer, and you will have a sense of belonging. Otherwise, if you are floating outside, you will definitely not find your direction and have no sense of belonging.

First of all, please allow me to express my deep sympathy and condolences on behalf of most people in the world for your misfortune, I think, we have also suffered changes in life, but our changes are not as tragic as yours, I will give you a way, you can take your household registration book and your parents' death certificate to **ask for help, the role of ** is becoming more and more important now, once your misfortune is ****, I think most of the well-wishers in the society will help you, maybe they will let you go to school is not necessarily! There is another way, you go to a vocational and technical college, just explain your situation, maybe they will take you in. But you must not learn badly!

You can't just be depressed, you have to cheer up, take care of your own life, and you will be able to run from time to time! Good luck!

Parents are the backers of their children, and they are also the pillars of their psychology, they understand your feelings very well, and they will have a sense of security when they have a soul to rely on, in fact, do you know? Even if your parents are no longer in the world, but the invisible soul is still there, they will always protect you, and love will always be there. You feel it.

Think about how it was like to love you when your parents were alive.

It's only a matter of time before everyone leaves their parents! Some people are early, some people are late.

The best consolation for your parents is that you live a good life, love yourself in the way your parents love yourself, your parents have given us the most precious life, so we should cherish it, only live with your heart, work hard, and your parents' souls in heaven will also feel gratified.

Tianxingjian, a gentleman strives for self-improvement. Self-improvement is a kind of perseverance spirit, is a spirit of not abandoning, not giving up, everyone in life is not easy, everyone is the protagonist of life, come on, after suffering and suffering, return is the king!

It's a matter of time, so if you want to open up, live a better life for yourself, participate in more fitness exercises that suit you, chat with friends, travel or something, and you will quickly get out of loneliness.

In this case, I suggest you make more friends, make some friends, and sometimes come to relieve the loneliness.

Sooner or later, people will encounter such a situation, sooner or later, they are destined to face all difficulties alone, make more friends and think less.

You have to grasp your own life, and when your parents are gone, you can give yourself a home, and you can start a family and start a business through hard work.

Think about it first, is there anything you want to do? Do what you haven't done before. Do something meaningful to increase your sense of belonging, and think carefully about if your parents are still there, is your sense of belonging brought by your parents? If you'd like, I can chat and relieve yourself.

Yes, a home with parents is a warm home, and parents will not have a home if they don't have a home, and they will indeed feel lonely and have no sense of belonging.

In other words, there is no home, what is home? It's not the house, it's the people in it. Therefore, when both parents are gone, it is a very drifting and unfeeling of belonging to yourself.

When a person has no relatives, especially not in his own home, he will indeed have this feeling of wandering, so you can find a partner to fall in love with your partner, and you can feel more warmth and satisfaction.

Then start a family by yourself, find someone to live a good life, and you can live a better life.

Well, in fact, a person can also use my sense of belonging outside, if you are in a company, and the people in the company are very good to you, then you will have a special sense of belonging in this company.

You can go back to your hometown to see relatives and friends, or go to your brothers and sisters to celebrate the New Year together. Otherwise, it's okay to go to a friend's house to pay New Year's greetings.

Of course, home is the only sense of belonging, so you need to find your partner as soon as possible to form a new family.

It is indeed like this, when there is no sense of belonging, no relatives by your side, and you will be lonely and helpless.

But detachment and defection can also be done anytime and anywhere, with a single thought. Try to settle everything that has something to do with me, don't drag too much, don't owe too much, and start again. There is no sense of belonging in life.

If his parents are deceased, and then he doesn't have a house now, and he spends it alone outside every New Year's holiday, he really doesn't have a sense of belonging. The best thing to do now is to take out a loan to buy a house and then find your other half.

A person should have his own house and a house to have a home.

Alone outside, drifting alone and working hard.

It's like a fallen leaf that flutters in the wind and has nowhere to stay.

Of course, it can be said that without a sense of belonging, you can't experience the warmth of home.

Indeed, when the parents are there, the home is there, and when the parents are there, they feel that they belong, and during the New Year's holiday, no matter where they go or how far they go, they want to go home and be with their families, and have a happy reunion. However, parents will eventually leave, although there are too many reluctances, they must be strong, they must face it, work hard, live well, and have a happy family of their own.

Hello, I think according to your description, your parents are deceased, you don't have your own house, and you spend the holidays every year outside, so you really don't have a sense of belonging, and it will be good to wait until you meet your other half and start a family.

Hello, the sense of belonging is given by oneself, as long as.

Find the person you love, and the person who loves you.

With a sense of belonging comes a home!

So the sense of belonging can be created by yourself!

Specifically, I hope it can help you. Hope. Thank you!

If you wander alone outside, you will not have a sense of belonging; If you start a family outside the home, your home is where you belong.

There must be no sense of belonging, and everyone is like this outside.

When you get used to staying outside, your sense of belonging will gradually weaken, but you won't have a sense of belonging.

Parents have a way to go back Parents are not there and there is no house, so there is no sense of home, you should mature faster, let yourself have a home, make your life happier, more satisfied, more home.

When your parents are there, your home is there, and when your parents go, you're alone, so you have to find someone you love to be with, so that you have a home and a new sense of belonging.

In this case, there is really no sense of belonging, and you can choose to start a family.

It's a feeling of not belonging.

My parents passed away, and the family's house went to **? Your parents should have had a house when they were alive, right? Don't you have any siblings?

If you don't have the ability to buy a house yet, your siblings can help you out, and you can come back and discuss with them during the Chinese New Year. It is recommended that you rent a house first and wait for the economy to improve before buying a house.

It depends on whether you often go back to your hometown, if so, it really doesn't, and it depends on whether you are married, and even less if you are married.

I think that's sad. In this situation, I am like a duckweed, without parents and without a house. I'm going to share my work. Start a family and start a business, so that you have your own roots.

If you reach marriageable age, find a suitable marriage, and only when you have a family will you have a sense of belonging.

How old are you? If you reach the age of starting a family, you should think about what your career is like now, your small family. Thinking will never have an answer, doing will have an answer. Only by thinking less and doing more can you find what you like more, and it is very fulfilling when you have a goal and a direction.

If you are outside for a long time, you should not feel anything.

Not married yet?

Boys or girls?

How old are you, your parents don't have anything.

The third level in Maslow's hierarchy of needs is love and belonging, so usually the lack of belonging is usually the absence of love.

You and your family are in the same family, belong to a whole, you are a part of your family, your parents love you the most, whether it is the bits and pieces that you did for you in life, or now deceased, their consciousness is very, very love you, when you know this from the heart, the love in your heart will be satisfied, the concept that you belong to the family is also spontaneous, you belong to your family.

If you want to solve the problem of your desire to belong by finding a partner, it is not recommended, because your characteristics will attract people like you, and you may not have a sense of belonging, you will be crazy to draw love from each other to satisfy your sense of belonging, but because your own sense of belonging is not enough, you may not be able to meet the other person's desire for as much love, and you will fall into a vicious circle.

So, if you want to have a sense of belonging, cultivate your heart and fill your heart with love.

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Yes. Generally speaking, the place where your parents are is will feel like your own home. Or where your house is located, you will also feel that it is home. When there is nothing, I feel like I am floating and have no sense of belonging.

As long as you are with the people you love, you will feel a sense of belonging.

If you don't have a house in your hometown and your parents aren't there, you really don't have a sense of belonging.

I think belonging is a sense of security, a sense of relaxation and peace of mind, and if you find someone who makes you feel that way, then you will have a sense of belonging again, good luck.

As the saying goes, parents are at home, and when parents are gone, they are home.