The confusion of life wants to hear the opinions of mature people perceptions

You are the bravest and wisest person I have ever seen in the accounts of people who have been troubled by so man. Since you accidentally flashed your waist, it is quite right to replan your life according to your health condition. You are not like many people, you choose to give up life, give up your efforts, you do not choose to be decadent and negative, you are really a very brave and wise person.

So, you don't have to be surprised by what people think of you, just stick to your own path. We are just a small person in the vast sea of people, and we cannot change the naïve ideas of so many people. As long as you are mature, as long as you have a goal in life, hard work is just a little spice in the road to success.

As for your so-called girlfriend, choosing to break up is the most correct way for you, even a friend should not be ridiculed, not to mention that she is the person you want to rely on the most. So, you don't have to dwell on what she said. In fact, she is the kind of person who is really despised.

I'm not a mature person, but I hope I can help you a little bit, even if it's just a little bit more comfortable. Also, you have to be more careful in your work in the future, don't hurt your waist again! Go for it! Brave the way forward! Roses on the stem thorns!

Ignore her, the woman is childish and selfish.

If you are really not satisfied, change your lifestyle, there are many roads, and there will be many friends.

Hurry up!

Sometimes I have the same confusion as you, but I'm mentally stronger and don't care as much as you do. So, send you.

In a sentence, when others laugh at you or something again, you also reply to them with a manly sentence, you praise me, I treat you as sincere from the bottom of your heart, you hurt me, I treat you as envy, jealousy and hatred, and you have to be very high-profile in that kind of joke tone! They will find you cute and maybe ease your relationship with your friends.

"There are a lot of truths that everyone understands, but they don't work so well in reality. What I want to hear is something practical, and I can accept any criticism. ”

Since you know that you can't just listen to it, what do you want to hear here? Why don't you ask if there's a practical way to change yourself? My students have to complete the spiritual tasks every day if they want to change themselves.

Others say, you listen, you can understand, but it's useless.

As human beings, we inevitably care about the eyes of the world.

How can you overcome it?

Start by setting yourself a goal.

Go forward when they are all dead creatures in the world.

And not the living.

Those who are strong at heart are invincible.

1.can be without.

Born in oneself, and died without oneself, so after death, one may be born in the absence of oneself, and the predecessors did not make the choice of a favorable group, and the descendants could not live happily.

2.You can't decide your fate, such as birth, gender, appearance, family, you can't know the future, like what you will encounter in the next moment, what will happen tomorrow. Can't decide what, so there is no eternal strength or weakness, equal kindness to everything, including oneself.

3.There are wishes and unwillingness in life, there are choices, there are right and wrong, things are feasible and not possible, there are methods and rules. The desire to develop and be feasible is the truth, so it is fair to deal with people wisely.

People have the consequences of right and wrong, things have the result of rules, rules serve people, and we must discover effective rules and learn to be flexible and white lies.

4.You can have meat to eat meat, but you will never hurt it, you will never kill for selfish desires, you will never hurt for personal hatred, your thoughts are free, and your heart must not put your desires and hatreds above fairness and suffering, otherwise immature thoughts will hurt the innocent if you have conditions, and do not do to all other living beings what you do not want to do to yourself.

5.It is not only based on pride, unless it is a desire for the development of life, the rules are in line with the group, do not harm others and benefit oneself, freedom has moral rights and wrongs, and it is not conducive to oneself and others, and it is necessary to assimilate or eliminate public nuisance.

6.The heart is unattainable in the past, the heart is unattainable now, the heart is unattainable in the future, and those who can't do it at the limit of their ability will endure and take it until they have no heart**, the wish born of the heart is only as the driving force for life, and when satisfied, it is just the feeling that there was no heart before, which is already very good, and forcing it is only to increase the troubles.

Because he wanted to get ahead too much to listen to any words of comfort and help. It seems that only pain can express the state at this time, because he doesn't know what he wants to do, but he is afraid that there will be nothing. Such a mentality is also related to his personality, not admitting defeat, not willing to fall behind, always eager to be better than others, always have high expectations for himself, this is actually a too good and strong character, maybe in a few years, he will have to face that kind of conceit, and he will become much calmer, and he will enjoy the dull life at this time.

And now it is estimated that nothing will change his mind, because it is still at this stage. This state may be very helpless for you, what should you do to make him understand that everything is a process, no matter what kind of life you have to face positively, instead of hating iron and steel all day long, no matter how big things are, there is a good side, with a normal attitude to deal with these things in life, such as, parents are sick, job transfer, salary and so on. As a wife, let him be quiet first, don't talk to him too much, let him vent to his heart's content, and when he calms down, he will naturally listen.

How to say it, I'm not old, but I know contentment, because I think my life is relatively good, of course, I still need to struggle to be motivated Because I'm not married, and I can't understand many trivial things after marriage, I'm also an only child, and I have to consider the problem of pension in the future, but I have known an idea from the beginning, that is, contentment, contentment, and happiness within my ability, live freely, work must continue, and life cannot be stopped, like your husband, who has an annual salary of 500,000, I've only been less than 50,000 this year, maybe it's a problem of mentality, I'm sometimes confused and directionless, but I know I can't stop. Having said all this, I think your husband can compare with others, see how others live worse than you, and think more Think about your current life, you should be happy, you should be satisfied, and you should be happy.

Your husband has been living in remorse, and after making an unwise choice, he has fallen to such a point, and now he is done blaming himself and starting to blame his family again. The heart is arrogant. If you refuse to bow your head, you can't do great things.

If he had divorced, his life would have been even worse.

A person should have a correct understanding of himself, because people's personalities are very different, and they should understand their own strengths and weaknesses. Learning to build on your strengths and avoid your weaknesses will help you develop your own unique self-confidence. People are constantly changing and developing, and we need to constantly update and constantly improve our understanding of ourselves in order to make ourselves better and more perfect.

To understand ourselves correctly, we must look at ourselves from a comprehensive and developmental perspective. Therefore, people especially need to be full of self-confidence to complete their goals, their own careers, and you can become a strong person.

First of all, you have to have self-confidence, think that you can do anything, and only realize that through your own efforts, you will definitely be able to achieve your goals. Mentally confirm that you can do it, and cheer yourself up. As long as you are mentally prepared, you will not be held back by the slightest difficulty.

Believe in it, and you will be able to complete the task with confidence. The world is developing, the times are progressing, and people must also advance with the pace of the times. Human development goals are also changing from time to time.

As long as you overcome your inferiority complex, build self-confidence, and be the creator of your own happiness. As long as you have self-confidence, you can overcome any difficulties, and nothing will be difficult for you; You will succeed in your studies or career, and you will be the most promising young person.

Assertiveness is important for a person. Especially a man. He means that the man is not a leader.

Is not a real man. In fact, the opinion is very simple. As long as it's what you think is right.

You just do it. Someone else's opinion is always a reference because he's not you. He can't make any decisions for you.

You can't let others dictate you. In fact, there is no need to ask others how to be assertive. Actually, you know.

The answer is in your heart. If you really want to. You will do it.

Remember. The answer is in your heart.

It is a good thing to have your own ideas, your own ideals

Assertive people are psychologically mature. But age is not a complete indicator of a person's maturity.

Maturity is the accumulation of experience. If a person has a certain degree of experience accumulation, then he will look at problems from many aspects when dealing with others, which will naturally reflect his maturity.

Accumulating experience does not mean that a person's experience grows with age, it is necessary to rely on long-term contact with society, communication with people with different personalities, and a certain amount of brain, so that you can mature and become assertive!!

Girl, be yourself, do what you have to do, so that you are yourself, and changing yourself is not the original yourself.

Just go through your brain before you do everything and say every word.

Only in what you are good at can you show your own opinions.

If you like her, learn to cherish her and love her! Girls are used to hurt, not to get angry! Move her with action!

Maybe she thinks you're using her as a substitute for the girl you're chasing, and doesn't believe that you love her.

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