From the perspective of language use, what kind of thinking does Zou Ji and Zhuge Liang s advice pro

Hello! 1) Plan for the other party - do not expose the purpose of pleasure. When Zou Ji offered advice to King Qi Wei.

The politics of Qi are relatively corrupt, probably to the point where they have to be changed. If Zou Ji repeatedly admonished King Qi Wei, or even shed tears or scolded him with death, the effect may not be good. Zou Ji paid attention to the art of admonishment, and after entering the court, he did not go straight to the court, but talked about his experience with "boudoir trivials", making a big fuss.

The appearance of the statement made the king of Qi also prove that he was "very blinded", so he issued an order, accepted advice, and finally "defeated the imperial court".

2) Persuade each other with tactful words - advice is good for listening. Subordinate persuasion - superiors, because of the relationship of respect and inferiority, have to be humble, otherwise they will invite death. Zou Ji honestly said that he was "not as good as Xu Gongmei", and created a situation to please King Wei.

Zou Ji is familiar with the habit of "good medicine is good for disease, and advice is good for listening".

3) Skillful use of the heart attack technique - worry about the other party's worries Zou Ji knows very well that the king of Qi is in an environment where many people are biased, fearful, and eager to him, and he must be a blinded person who is deaf and blind, and he is worried about the clarity of the country; And because he knew that the king of Qi had the ambition of repairing the internal affairs to rejuvenate the state, he set up a metaphor for the king of Qi to gladly accept the advice, which enhanced the prestige of the state of Qi and won the respect of the princes.

Hope this helps!!

When admonishing, you must respect the feelings of the obedient person, pay attention to the way of showing up and saying, and the tone is tactful, don't belittle others to be useless and make others disgusted with you, and if you don't accept your opinion, it will even destroy you

(1) Zou Ji is good at admonishment, and the inspiration to me is: in life, in the interaction with people, when putting forward opinions, we must pay attention to the skills of speaking, look at the object, pay attention to the occasion, be decent, move with emotion and reason, so that the other party is happy and convinced. (I can also talk about courage and self-knowledge) (2) The inspiration that King Wei gave me:

Be humble and listen to the opinions of others; Be broad-minded; Being good at listening to other people's opinions is conducive to one's own growth. (It can be personal, governing the country or work, study, etc.).

Aspect 1: First of all, Zou Ji loves his country, and then he has the courage to admonish, and he is good at understanding the truth from the small things in life.

Leaders should listen to opinions and suggestions with an open mind, and subordinates should pay attention to skills.

Zhuge Liang is outspoken and persuasive, and Zou Ji is from a few to the other.

Through his own personal experience, Zou Ji first tells the story, and then lays out the reason, which is clear and organized. Like a good proposal**.

But Zhuge Liang used his feelings, hoping to impress the king.

Zhuge Liang used the method of direct admonition, and Zou Ji used the euphemistic sarcasm Zou Ji "sarcastically" admonished the king by "sarcastic" his appearance to the king, and persuaded the king by pushing the big with a small push. Zhuge Liang, on the other hand, tried to impress the monarch with deep affection.

"Zou Ji satirizes the king of Qi and admonishes" and "Zhuge Liang is out of the teacher's table".

Example 1: In the face of Zou Ji's question of "which is more beautiful than Duke Xu", the "three answers" of wife, concubine, and guest have the same meaning, different sentence structures and tones, and vividly write the different psychology of wife, concubine, and guest "private self", "fear of me", and "ask for me".

Example 2: The process of admonishment is divided into three stages: "the first order", "after a few months", and "after the period of years", and the different situations and effects of the king of Qi's admonition are written, showing the flow of the king of Qi's admonition.

Zhuge Liang made three suggestions to the later lord Liu Chan: 1Speak wide (premise) 2Pro-Xian Yuanyu (core) 3Strict rewards and punishments (key).

Zou Ji's suggestion to King Qi Wei was: Accept advice and eliminate disadvantages (it can also be said to consult the good way, open the holy hearing, and chana Yayan).

Zhuge Liang's way is to admonish the book, which is to know it with affection, move it with reason, and speak from the bottom of his heart.

Zou Ji's way is face-to-face, and the language is very skillful, first talk about his own experience in family affairs, and then euphemistically admonish in the way of analogy, know it with affection, move it with reason, and be loyal to the ear, so that the other party can accept it happily.

Zou Ji sarcastically accepted the advice of the King of Qi, and Zhuge Liang directly decided life and death in the later period.