What should I do to make my favorite person more likeable? 10

Self-confidence is a necessary condition for success and a source of success.

Self-confidence is a kind of conviction of one's own strength, and the belief that self-reliance will definitely accomplish something and achieve the goal pursued.

Not facing others usually means: I feel inferior next to you; I feel inferior to you; I'm afraid of you. Avoiding other people's eyes means:

I feel guilty; I did or thought of something I didn't want you to know; I'm afraid that as soon as I touch your eyes, you will see through me. It's all bad information.

Facing people up to you is telling you that I am honest and above board. I believe that what I am telling you is true, and I have no false heart.

Vipassana is one of the main methods of studying psychology, and this is the idea put forward by William Walter, the father of experimental psychology. This method is to observe one's inner situation very calmly, and then shake out the results without concealment. If we can imitate this method and express in words the psychological secrets that are changing all the time, then there will be no energy to cause trouble.

For example, when you first arrive in a strange place, you will inevitably be full of doubts and fears, and at this time, you may wish to express this uneasy emotion clearly in words: "I was almost stunned, my heart was beating so nervously that even my eyes were black, the tip of my tongue was solidified, and my throat was so thirsty that I couldn't speak. In this way, not only can the tension in the heart be dispelled, but also the mood can be unexpectedly calmed.

Let's take another very practical example. There was a salesman ranked fifth in the United States, and when he was not familiar with this work, he once met the American car king alone. As a result, he was really timid.

He couldn't help it, so he had to say it honestly: "I'm ashamed, when I first saw you, I was so scared that I couldn't even speak. As a result, this drives away the sense of fear, thanks to the effect of confession.

Forehead... You're shy???

Then you should be friends with him first! Slowly cultivate your feelings!

You don't know if he has a girlfriend, huh?

Then you say it! Just say it! Because love is to speak out loud!

It won't be good to say it! You'll know if you say it!

Love is to be spoken! But sometimes you have to keep it in your heart!

Just like me, my love is in my heart! Because I love him, I bless him! Hope he is happy!

It's like a one-dimensional equation that needs to be expressed in a variety of ways What you don't say! The only way to do this is to cultivate your feelings slowly!

If you are together, you will have feelings!

So many people like him, you have to cherish it! Say it! It doesn't matter, but don't say it! Let's be friends with him first! Slowly cultivate feelings!

Hey, there's really nothing you can do!

Okay, the left rear still has to support you!

Go for it!

When chatting, it's not enough to be tempting. Just ask him if he has a girlfriend? If not, ask the person you don't like. If it still doesn't, then ask him tentatively: Hehe, then do you think I can do it?

While he doesn't have a girlfriend yet.

Hurry up.

I don't know.

I've been struggling lately.

I obviously like him.

But he always made him angry and ignored me.

If you want others to like you, you have to work hard for yourself. Performance of effort. Only by showing your strengths in front of others, and at the same time enriching your own shortcomings with hard work, can you be qualified to make others like you.

There are not so many good things in the world that you like and like yourself, and if you want to get your own happiness, you must have the spirit of daring to work hard, dare to perform, and dare to fight. Only if you have worked hard and fought for it, no matter what the result is. I don't have any regrets, because I fail because I regret that I still have shortcomings, and I can enrich myself with hard work.

But if Bishiyuan doesn't have the spirit of fighting for a long time, then what qualifications do you have to get it.

Failure is not terrible, what is terrible is not the spirit to work hard. /

You need to make people feel like you're fun, professional, and valuable to them when you meet them for the first time. To get used to smiling, smiling can show a person's temperament, and the girl who loves to laugh will not have bad luck.

If you are in a bad mood, it is a kind of boredom, boredom is a kind of psychological loneliness, that is, unhappiness, if you want to make yourself happy, you just don't want to be bored, and you are in a bad mood. How can I make my mood crack better, listen to songs, and feel annoyed, that is, your boredom has not been solved and improved, then let your emotions vent out, inexplicably uncomfortable, nothing more than an empty heart, an empty heart before the source stage, there is no mood! As for why, it depends on your own life situation and the factors around you.

Depression and depression have different concepts, depression has a kind of depressed sadness, and depression is just a mood of idleness.

Actually, this envy is a simple suspicion, and many people think about such things, and I am really interesting in life, and my brother is also very successful, and I am very smart, and so on.

Tarot Card Divination: How do you attract people you like?

In life, we will meet the person we like one day, and we should all pursue it bravely, but different people have different ways of pursuing, some will attack simply and clearly, while others will tactfully and slowly. And what will you be like when you are pursuing the person you like, and how can you attract the person you like?

Divination rules: Keep your heart calm and choose a card that impresses you the most.

The answer turns the page. Friends who choose A, you already have good conditions and mature minds, but you may be too passive to accept the people and things that come to your life, and will not create opportunities, maybe you have liked people in the past or now, but not positive enough, silently appreciate each other This card reminds you, don't forget that you are a great person, to actively pursue, and create the life you want, you are the director of your life!

Friends who choose C pursue the object of their liking, you are always positive, and the other party is very obvious to feel your existence, but think about it, is it too positive, remind yourself to give each other space appropriately! The other party will also feel your respect because of this, and the impression will be more divided.

Friends who choose D, the people you liked in the past may always like the same type, or the object that is not suitable for you reminds you, meet more friends in different fields, or cultivate new interests and new circles, and you will find someone more suitable for you.

1.When you meet someone, smile brightly. Make them feel that you are happy and happy to be with them.

2.Focus your whole body on the person you're talking to and ignore the rest. 3.

When someone is talking to you, whatever you're doing, let go of the work at hand. 4.When someone comes to visit, the warm reception is as if you are looking forward to them.

5.Don't keep others waiting. 6.

Make a list of contacts with acquaintances, and it's best to print them out and read them when you have time. It will let you know who you have recently contacted and who it is time to get in touch. 7.

Always remember to reply to emails, text messages. 8.Reply to other people's e-mails and text messages as soon as you have the opportunity to reply.

9.Shake hands and be warm. 10.

When others do a very good job, sincere praise. Make them feel your appreciation. 11.

Visit, remember to pay a return visit. 12.When someone has a birthday, send a text message to send a blessing.

Of course, it couldn't be better. 13.For messages that have not been answered for a long time, delete them and send an email or text message as soon as possible to keep in touch with them.

14.Remember other people's names and accomplishments. 15.

Write down what is important to others, especially what they care about most (maybe write it down) 16If someone asks you for help, you can refer him to a friend who can help him. 17.

Take the initiative to help (instead of waiting for someone to ask you for help). 18.Be the first to provide others with solutions to problems.

19.Giving thanks to others is a way of gratitude. 20.

Mention their names when you pray. 21.When you talk to someone, you can talk about his life.

22.Ask specifically about what others care about. They will feel your compassion...

23.Share with others what is precious to you. Time is the best candidate.

24.Eat together. Of course, the best thing is to cook your own food.

25.When getting along with others, don't always look at your watch. It can lead to the misunderstanding that you have something important to do.

26.Talk to people, don't look over the shoulders of others. That makes you look like you're in a hurry to end the conversation.

27. Introduce good referrals or articles to others. 28.Send a text message and write more encouraging words or quotes.

29.If you have one, lend someone your favorite book or movie. 30.

Talk to people and often say good things about friends. That way, behind his back, will also think that you will talk about him like this. 31.

Don't speak ill of your friends behind your back. In this way, behind his back, when it comes to him, he will think so. 32.

During the conversation, the other person's name is occasionally mentioned. 33.Always give others a little creative surprise.

Showing your good in daily life is not 、、、 you can show your good for certain things, and you have to keep it、、、 like someone, but you don't know if others like you, it's a more difficult problem? However, in the face of love, you must be brave and confident, take a bold step bravely, and say what you feel 、、、

Don't emulate anyone, be your most authentic self, you have your own cute and likable places.

If you become a million, many people will like it!

It's not so easy to like someone, and if the person you like doesn't like you, it's even harder to make him like you. What can I do to increase the odds that someone will like me? I give some advice of my own, which I hope will be helpful to those who desire happiness.

Change for him on the premise of being yourself. First of all, it must be the original self, and the pretended self will always be revealed. Don't forcibly change your personality according to the person you like, maybe others don't like it if you change it.

So change is relative, change for his sake, change like a good place and become a habit. Enrich your brain, make yourself a thinking person, and learn certain skills. I believe that the other party prefers to be a better self.

Be confident in yourself and learn to be a hard-working person, if such a person likes himself, will he be tempted? At least I don't hate myself, at least it's closer.

Try to communicate with the person you like. See what the other person likes in the communication and see the other person's personality. Know yourself and know that you will win all battles, understand each other first, and then how you want to get along.

Two people are most afraid of having no topic when they are together, and only when they understand each other can they know where the topic is. But it should also be noted that you can't just let yourself know each other, but also let the person you like understand yourself, let him know what he likes to do every day, and his highlights are in**. In this way, that person will be interested in chatting with you, want to know more about you, and maybe make him like him.

But in general, love is hard to find, and only when fate comes will two people be together. Hard work is effective, but it can't be 100% guaranteed, so if two people can only be friends, don't force it, believe that your love is beautiful, but it hasn't come yet, and no one has to be anyone. I hope that good people have their own happiness.

I don't know what the subject's current life status is, and how he is self-oriented. The reason I spoke about this drama was to emphasize her bravery. You may think that she is too good, and there are too many people helping her chase the male protagonist.

It doesn't matter if she has the aura of the protagonist, the male protagonist happens to like her. But that courage for love alone is enough for us to learn. There is a popular saying on the Internet:

You take the initiative, we may have stories, and we will have children. In addition to talking and laughing, savoring it, there is some truth in this sentence. When you meet someone you like, you have to be brave and confess it loudly, maybe the person you like also likes you?

Courage is the first step, and the method is the second. Can't you just stop moving after confessing! Let's take another film as an example, the classic Thai romantic drama "The Little Thing of First Love", the heroine Xiaoshui in order to pursue Senior A Liang, transform her image, study hard, and transform from an ordinary girl to a campus figure.

For the male protagonist, she **, wore braces, changed her hairstyle, stayed up late to read books, and finally became a first-class designer, and she was also with the male protagonist. For the sake of love, she improved herself and made herself as good as the male protagonist. This kind of pursuit is more valuable.