Does a man with dreams feel that love is a burden?

In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is even more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, you don't have to have someone to love, but you must cherish someone if you have one. Since you don't love, then let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and having, let go of the burden of the mood is much easier, in the moment the tears fall turn around and leave, don't let yourself hurt, why hang on a tree without sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, then, how to tie up people, twisted melons are not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem and self-love, indulge in pain, let yourself walk physically and mentally exhausted, scarred, why bother?

It's not interesting, love is two-sided, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the destined fate of life, you can't force it, you will get it only if you lose, and those who refuse to lose your luggage will never swim to the other side. Make yourself strong, have confidence and courage, live your own life, look back at the end of the sea of suffering, and find someone who truly loves you and what you love, which will comfort the wounds of your soul, make up for the shortcomings of your soul, and let you have and cherish. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will be a better relationship waiting for you.

At the very least, you will not live in sorrow, and you will find your own paradise, your own sweet, happy and happy life.

It seems that it can't be said that people, no dream for life, there is no meaning, people in order to complete their dreams, to work hard, to struggle, to enjoy the ups and downs in the process of completing dreams, but everyone's views and attitudes towards problems are different, experience and feel different problems, so that the feelings are different.

No, the question you are talking about is an excuse given to you by that man, and he is not willing to take it.

Because she didn't share the pressure with you, didn't give you support and strength when you weren't going well. I'm not sure what you think of as love, it's love.

That's because he hasn't made any achievements in his career, plus he is not confident in himself, plus he has a strong sense of responsibility, and he is afraid of taking care of the people he loves. Afraid that she would suffer. So just give up.

Love needs money to operate.

As a woman next to a man, she needs to have enough ability to bear the corresponding financial pressure. In short, at all times, a woman must have an independent economy**.

It seems that it can't be said that people, no dream for life, there is no meaning, people in order to complete their dreams, to work hard, to struggle, to enjoy the ups and downs in the process of completing dreams, but everyone's views and attitudes towards problems are different, experience and feel different problems, so that the feelings are different.

I don't think so, but I'm happy.

Are you referring to the love aspect?

If you want love, then no, because seeing love should be a man's attitude towards another soul and not an organ's reaction to another.

If a man feels that his life is for finding a partner, it is indeed over.

I'm about the same as you, my boyfriend too, it's been three years since I graduated, my last job was resigned a year ago, I took the civil service exam at home, and I didn't look for a job after I was admitted, because we were separated from each other, I asked him to come to my development and he came, more than three months have passed and I haven't found a job, always I don't go out in the rented place, the weather was hot a while ago, and the salary I was looking for was too low, and it rained recently. I'm almost angry, every time I mention this to him, he doesn't want to, I said a few times, I was in a hurry to find a job, and after a few days I calmed down and he was lazy again, I said that he was inert for most of the year from the year to now. I talked to him that day, gave him half a month to find a job, and if he couldn't find it, he broke up, he really went to find it, but now it's been a week, and there is no suitable one, but at least he is fighting, I hope these two men can find a job smoothly, it's not easy to be a woman!

Suggestion: If the relationship is not deep, don't continue to waste time, unambitious men will be looked down upon by women, and men who can't find jobs will be looked down upon.

Nowadays, as long as people are not broken, they will definitely be able to find a job, since they have no intention of working, it is the same, maybe they go back to their hometown to eat and live at home, there is no economic pressure, and they are even more reluctant to work.

If you already have a deep relationship, I suggest that you don't want him to go back to his hometown, just force him to find a job in Shanghai, don't think that the money is too little or too tired, ride a donkey to find a horse, find something to do first, and then make plans.

If you really love him, give him this chance. But in the end it was to make him himself. Apart.. To each his own.

Love is not concerned about the past, love only cares about the future, if you care about a person's past, then it will never be possible to find a confidant, or even a friend. Thinking about the past will bring you scars, and it is the other party who hurts deeply. This will make the other person feel that he has done something wrong, that he will never be able to make amends, and that no one will ever forgive him.

Then you should probably rejoice.

Only a patriotic person can understand how to love a person.

If you can make it fall in love with you, I'm sure you'll be very happy.

Love is something that requires tolerance for those who have no past.

He wants to tell you that he believes in you, and he probably wants to let go.

Give me some time, don't dwell on your pain all the time.

Yes, because there are some people, some things that will never be forgotten, will always exist in his memory, and in the long run, it will only increase the pain for you...

So, give it up ...

I don't think I'll be able to take it.

In his heart, he will definitely remember her. Because she hurt him.

Do you also pay a little, always a person will have the heart to ask for a long time, and it will be unbalanced.

Can't say that! Most of them are still two people working together.