My best friend of the opposite sex ignored me

Personal opinion: What do you mean by what you said later, I'm a little ignorant!

Fortunately, I understand the meaning!

What you mean is that you have a good relationship with a friend of the opposite sex.

But she always compares you to another friend, or you blame her, and here she gets angry and doesn't talk to you

And tell you not to tell anyone about the text messages you sent to her

I guess that's it!!

And here I want to say that your friend really didn't put himself in your shoes and think about the problems and consequences of saying those things

It's his fault, but at the same time, you should forgive her here.

Because people are like this, they always like to compare the two, no matter what it is, such as: (than the taller) that's normal, think about you when you're like this, that's where you're wrong, and you shouldn't blame her.

Hehe, I think you two are very easy to deal with such a problem, since both of you think of each other as confidants, then you two should make an appointment to come out and have a good chat.

Measure what you want to say about your unpleasantness

Such a problem will not be solved

It's just a little contradiction, and I'm sure there's no way she's going to sit down and talk to you for a few minutes without giving it to you. Huh

I will gradually forget this friendship and silently wish him happiness in my heart. In real life, friends of the opposite sex often have to bear a lot of pressure from all aspects of life. I used to be a firm believer in the pure friendship between men and women, but as time went on, it became more and more difficult for me to believe in myself.

If my best friend of the opposite sex suddenly stops contacting me, I'm going to be silent about it. For a relationship of the opposite sex, there are two possible reasons for the sudden severance of contact between the two, one is that one of them has found a love partner and entered a relationship, and the other is that one of them has some accidents. In real life, it is most likely because of the previous reason, that is, friends of the opposite sex are in love.

In this case, I think I will be silent about it, because I know that my presence in the other person's life will seriously affect the course of the other person's emotional life, and the reason why he chooses not to contact me is actually for the sake of the good choice of both parties.

I don't want the sudden appearance to stress him, and I don't want my presence to be a burden on his relationship. Remaining silent like this is probably my greatest kindness.

I will wish him happiness in my heart and bury this friendship in my heart. I used to be a firm believer in the pure friendship between men and women, but as the time between the two of us grew, I began to feel confused. I don't know if it's a pure friendship or if it's already in an ambiguous phase, and I often avoid thinking about it.

Maybe he suddenly didn't contact me and I was the best ending of this friendship between the two people, I silently wished him happiness in my heart, hoping that he could really find someone who was good to him, and this former friendship let it be buried in the bottom of my heart, from now on, I may reminisce, but I will never disturb each other's life again.

Everyone has a different perspective on friendship, and friendships between people of the opposite sex often require more stress. Maybe one day the other party chooses not to contact you suddenly, so keep the most beautiful appearance of friendship in memory, and it can be regarded as an explanation of this friendship.

I wouldn't contact him. Because such feelings do not need to be maintained, such people are not worthy of my cherishment.

I will bless him, indicating that this friend of the opposite sex already has an object of his own, then I will not disturb his life.

There could be several reasons for this; Maybe my girlfriend found out and was jealous; Either they had thoughts about you at the beginning, and now they feel hopeless, so they won't play with you; It is also possible that you inadvertently hurt him with a sentence that makes him feel that you can't understand him, and thus alienates you. You can just ask, since it's a good friend, it's nothing. The more you guess other people's things, the more chaotic they become, just ask a simple question, and everything is solved.

You don't have to put too much effort into guessing a man's mind.

Otherwise, it's yourself who is uncomfortable.

Men are not the same as women.

Their thoughts are not something we can understand.

The best way to do that is to do what you want.

Don't set your mind on them.

Just do your own thing.

Otherwise, I accidentally fell in love with him.

You just wait to be aggrieved.

If you judge that he ignores you just because QQ ignores you, it may be that you are thinking too much. If it's when I'm playing an online game, I won't care if someone calls me, and even if I'm annoyed, I'll just turn off QQ, no matter who he is. For example, who has time to reply to you under the name of CS, everything will die when you go out....

There may be other reasons besides playing online games. He can't spend his time on you every day, and he also has a lot of things he wants to do. Maybe he will finish the work in 2 or 3 days before he asks you out.

Even if it's a girlfriend, it's impossible to guarantee contact every day, let alone just an ordinary friend of the opposite sex...

You don't have to think too much. If you have something, you can call his mobile phone directly to contact him, and QQ alone really doesn't mean anything.

What I want to tell you is that there will be no pure friends between men and women, and after a long time together, it is inevitable that feelings will arise, maybe that guy has always liked you, hinted at you, and you have been talking to him every day as a good friend, and after a long time, he will be tired.

Maybe he wants to know that he's gone, and you don't care, and he wants to know what his place is in your mind.

The most important thing between friends is to be honest with each other, if they are really friends, you should talk to them directly, and it is not too late to discuss what to do with everyone after finding the problem.

You can tentatively chat with him as usual, if he is not abnormal, it means that you are too worried, if he ignores you, then you can ask what is going on.

Another reason is that you have unintentionally offended this girl because of a certain sentence or behavior. This requires the boy to reflect on when was the last time he interacted with a girl? What topics did the two of them talk about?

It's best to find out the symptoms, if you just don't know what you're doing wrong, you can take the initiative to chat with the girl privately or ask her out to chat with two people in person, express your doubts, and ask the other party if there's something wrong with you. It's best to solve the misunderstanding between friends, otherwise according to the girl's careful character, she will hate you for a long time in her heart.

Of course, it is also possible that this girl suddenly finds out that she has a crush on you and likes you a little. After all, we are all very easy to develop a crush on friends of the opposite sex that we are in constant contact with. How do guys feel about your friend?

If there is no feeling of love, then keep it bland and don't touch, and you must not force it again. After the other party figures it out, they will take the initiative to warm up with you again.

This is very common. First of all, the identity of people and you is only a simple friend of the opposite sex, not a couple, although it is very good, but there is no need to chat every day. Therefore, it is his right to ignore others, and you cannot interfere.

Or, during the time he gets along with you, he just happens to like another girl, and he will pay more attention to the existence of another goddess, and gradually ignore you, and feel that chatting with you all the time will make the girl he likes misunderstand, and he may suddenly lose contact with you!

There is another way, maybe people are afraid of misunderstanding the relationship between you and him, maybe people just treat you as a pure friend of the opposite sex, afraid that if you continue to get along like this, others will mistakenly think that you and him are in a relationship, but this is not the case, so they will suddenly cut off contact with you, widen the distance between you, and can't do too intimate actions, but in the end they will hurt each other, and they don't even have friends.

In today's modern times, many boys will forcibly flirt with a few beautiful female friends when they see them, and invite girls to dinner and watch movies as soon as they chat. Once a simple girl feels that she has a good impression of each other, she will readily agree, and when she catches up, many boys will feel that this girl is not interesting, and suddenly there is no feeling, so they propose to break up with the girl and something like that. Therefore, as a girl, it is better to keep your scheming in your hands.

For example, when I was in high school, I had a friend of the opposite sex who had a very good time, and at that time we worked on problems together, shared food together, and in the eyes of others, they thought that we were both already together, but only the two of us knew that we were just very good friends. But then she didn't start talking to me much, I think it was when I got a girlfriend relationship, and she didn't think it was appropriate for her to do that. Later, when I came back from college vacation, I asked her why she ignored me before, and the reason she gave me was that I had a girlfriend, and they were all for my girlfriend, so she didn't want to talk to me.

Another point is that girls treat you as a good friend of the opposite sex, and they definitely don't want you to have a good relationship with other girls, maybe those girls think that you are a ** air conditioner, and then they just don't want to continue to be friends with you. Sometimes, it may be just a small reason for them to ignore you, for example, when there is a conflict between girls, you don't show that you stand up to support her, at this time, girls will think that you are her good friend, why can't you speak for her, to support her, so this will also cause them to ignore you.

So once a girl ignores you, the first thing you have to think about is whether you have done something wrong, whether you provoked them or said the wrong thing, because it is impossible for a girl to ignore you for no reason.

There should be many reasons why friends of the opposite sex who have been playing well suddenly ignore you.

1. He plays with you because he likes you, and after a period of time, he doesn't feel your love for him, or feels that you are incompatible in terms of personality and temper during this time, and he will leave you and ignore you anymore.

Second, maybe the play between you is just a contact between friends, and he found his girlfriend, who has few eyes and can't see this kind of play between you, and gives him an opinion. In order to protect love, he has no choice but to abandon you as a friend.

3. Maybe the play between you is a pure boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, and you are destined to not be together in this life. And the people around you will mistakenly think that you are making friends, talking about love, if so, someone will definitely talk about your relationship in front of him, and he deliberately ignores you in order to avoid suspicion, in order not to affect you to find a boyfriend.

So if it's a relationship between friends of the opposite sex who doesn't aim to get married, it won't last long, and it's terrifying.

It's very simple, he already has a female ticket, and his female ticket restricts his interaction with the opposite sex, and then he will not dare to contact other girls.

One of our former high school classmates had one of them, and he had been playing with a couple of us girls, and we said he was our women's director. He is also happy to be our women's director, who has a birthday, who has something, who is sad, he is always the first to appear to comfort or accompany, and everyone is used to his existence.

But since he announced to us that he had a girlfriend, he gradually faded out of our circle of friends and stopped talking to us. At first, we wondered why he was so forgetful and oblivious to friends. Finally found an opportunity to ask him out, and we asked him, why did a female ticket ignore us girlfriends?

He said in a sneering manner: His girlfriend said that he is not allowed to "break the thread" with so many girls again, he is not allowed to be the women's director of all women, and he is not allowed to contact us again with a group of people who may threaten his girlfriend's status, and if he still takes care of us and sends us warmth, comfort, and help at the first time, then they will break up.

Come to think of it, how could such a loving person as him suddenly abandon us good friends? We haven't had any quarrels, but the new girlfriend's approach should be done by many female friends, after all, the man who belongs to him is not a man who belongs to the world, and he can't share it.

Therefore, if the opposite sex who is playing well suddenly ignores you, it is not that you have done anything wrong, the biggest reason should be that he has a fixed girlfriend.

If he doesn't want to pay attention to you for no reason, then he's really bad. It is also possible that what happened to him, or what you did, and what the reason is, you have to find out. Calm down and think about it, or ask for clarification.

I can see that you like him very much, so you care about him. And you used to have a good relationship too.

Sometimes boys are also very scheming, will they think that you can't go on, will they like other girls, will they have any opinions about you? None of this is really clear here. Make a stupid guess if he just wants to see how you react.