What are the characteristics of poor children that kindergarten teachers can see at a glance?

There is a gap between the concept of consumption and ordinary children, and when children face the same items, some children see the value between needs and needs, and some children see the value between cost-effective and cost-effective. The reluctance to try new things, avoid failure, and retain the existing have a deep influence on them. It is difficult to put oneself on an equal footing when getting along with others, poor children will always consciously or unconsciously appear "pleasing type" personality when getting along with others, on the one hand, they lack confidence in themselves, on the other hand, they hope to get the "like" of the other party through the way of "pleasing them".

Children who are too "sensible" between words do not fight or grab in kindergarten, nor are they naughty, they always stare at the teacher in everything they do, hoping to be recognized and praised by the teacher, and they learn to look at the eyes of adults at a young age.

First, it can be seen from the clothes that children from poor families generally do not pay attention to dressing up, as long as they are warm and clean. The second type can be seen from the personality. Generally, the children of poor families are very honest and obedient, and the children of poor families are in charge of the house early!

The third type has not seen many rare things, or has not traveled

Inferiority complex. Due to the limitations of family conditions,"Poor people"Children are unable to obtain better material conditions, and when they get along with other children, they will unconsciously compare themselves. When you see that you are not as good as others, you will have an inferiority complex.

This kind of psychology is reflected in various aspects, such as children's own clothes are not as beautiful as others, their own stationery is not as advanced as others, and others go to various interest classes, but they have never even heard of it. This kind of small things in daily life, the accumulation of one by one, will cause a lot of psychological pressure on children. In turn, it will cause a kind of inferiority, feeling that they are inferior to others and inferior to others.

Rich and poor have always been opposites, and the gap between the two is sometimes not material needs, but more spiritual differences, so it is often said that the children of rich families and the children of poor families are easy to distinguish, and the following characteristics cannot be hidden.

The rich and the poor are different in identity and wealth, but in fact, the gap between temperament, character, and pattern is even greater.

The same is true for children, many families will dress up and disguise their children in order to make their children live decently, but this is just a lie to themselves, and experienced teachers can see it at a glance, because some characteristics can not be disguised by appearance.

Why are children from "poor families" recognizable at a glance? I can't hide these 3 points on my body.

1. Inferiority complex in the heart.

Children from poor families are not enough in terms of economy, parents will plan their daily expenses, so they can not meet the needs of their children well in terms of material, although the children are relatively young, but they are very psychologically clear, when they see other children have toys, but they do not have it, they will feel inferior in their hearts!

Over time, children will think that they are inferior to others, dare not play with their classmates, and become extremely introverted in their personalities, which will often be ignored by teachers.

2. Excessive thrift and narrow-mindedness.

Although people's living standards continue to improve, but also the parents of the thinking is relatively backward, Ming Buzhi is always worried that the money is not enough to spend, it is difficult to survive in the future, in fact, this saving itself is good, but if excessive saving, or for the child is very stingy, it will affect the development of the child's view of money.

In the long run, children will become selfish and unwilling to share with others, the desire in their hearts will become very strong, and they will try their best to get what they have lost, and they will do whatever they can to gain what they can't get. You must know that people who are careful in the future will not be welcomed by others in their work or interpersonal communication, but will limit their own development.

3. The poverty of thought has limitations in the pattern.

Usually families with tight economic conditions, group activities or trips organized by the school, children will choose to refuse, and lose the opportunity to expand their horizons and patterns, so that your children will always be "frogs at the bottom of the well", and will not understand what is "there is a sky outside the sky, and there are people outside the people", and when the children grow up, they will miss a lot of opportunities because of the lack of vision.

When the child's mind becomes poor, the vision and pattern in the heart will also be small, and even if you dress the child up brilliantly, you will show your true face in the process of communication.

The children's shed is loved by the whole family at home, but in the kindergarten, it may not be loved by teachers and classmates, and there will be a psychological gap.

The society is very realistic, when the child leaves home and enters the kindergarten, more or less will face some unfair treatment, parents should pay more attention to the child's situation!

Recently, my third sister has been busy buying clothes for the baby, all of them are big brands, I wondered, how can I dress better than adults at a young age?

The third sister said: Don't you know, my daughter is also three years old and will go to kindergarten in September. The current teachers are all powerful. People will look at your baby's dress and treat it differently. For those whose family conditions are not good, they are naturally not at ease.

I was skeptical about this, and I was specifically asked to be a kindergarten teacher to understand the situation.

She said: Children from poor families can indeed see at a glance, but it has little to do with what they wear.

1. Manners and conversations

As the saying goes, "the children of the poor are in charge of Zen oaks early", and children from poor families are generally sensible and obedient early.

Their parents will also teach their children not to be arrogant outside based on their own experience and conditions.

Therefore, he is relatively independent in the class, and he will not cause trouble, and he will not cry when he encounters trouble.

2. Whether you are confident

Children with good conditions, nourished by this atmosphere, are relatively confident, and will be more proactive in participating in activities in kindergarten!

From material to spiritual wealth, children under such conditions will also be more prone to inferiority, and the activities and communication in the kindergarten will naturally be half a beat slower.

3. Lack of security

There is a saying in the countryside that rich people have hard waists.

This phrase is not only reflected in adults, but also in young children.

I have a distant relative who is not in a very good condition and never buys toys for his children, they think that money should be spent on the edge.

When this child came to my house when he was more than four years old, he kept playing with my daughter's toys, and no one would give them to him, and he would only give them fun and delicious food to his parents, and no one else would believe them.

1. Respect children

No matter what the child's personality is, how he eats and wears, as a teacher, he should not apply the adult division to the child!

This is the minimum morality of a teacher.

2. Pay attention to children's etiquette education

For children with poor family conditions, many of the contacts that parents come into contact with are at the bottom, and they do not pay so much attention to their children's upbringing.

Since children have the opportunity to go to kindergarten to learn, as a kindergarten teacher, we should pay attention to the etiquette of educating children.

For example, sitting and eating, washing hands before eating, politely greeting others, and so on.

3. Treat everyone equally

But as a teacher, you also have to be self-respecting. Refuse to accept gifts, and when educating children, they are treated equally.

Children are the flowers of the motherland. Maybe the varieties of these flowers are divided into three, six, nine and so on in the eyes of some people, but as a gardener of the motherland, lead by example and nourish children with strong spiritual power.

More importantly, guide children to accept the environment in which they were born, and live confidently and bravely.

This kindergarten teacher is not of high quality and is more snobbish. When you encounter such a teacher, you can complain and try to avoid it.

That's true. Poor children have received limited education since childhood, and the children's horizons are not broad, and the children have low self-esteem and cannot integrate well into the class.

Parents are the best teachers for their children, and their children's education will be shown in the child's temperament, so kindergarten teachers can see poor children at a glance.