I m about to get engaged, my girlfriend is fine, but the biggest drawback is her family.

If the woman's advice to you is lukewarm, you don't want to invest in her, and then find someone who likes you and doesn't put pressure on you, so that you can better release your energy, now there are a lot of money worshippers, who has money with whom, once you find out that you have no money, you will bye, as for the brother-in-law you said, don't pay attention to him, his typical "Adou" is not high, not low, he said to buy a house, let him buy, you want to see what he buys, then again, many people now love vanity, the more money is lost, the more they try to disguise themselves, Dude try it! May you find a better one.

After reading these things you wrote、

Honestly, you give me the feeling that you yourself want to find someone who can help you as a woman?

Do you have feelings for other girls?

I don't think you're a man......

It's not that I help women speak, you say so much.

Saying that someone else's home is useless?

And said that her brother is not educated?

If you look at what you write yourself, you can't tell the difference between "she" and "he".

Sad ......She didn't buy anything for my house at all. Alas".

I want to ask you, what did you buy for their house?

A man cares about all this? That's all you have to offer?

I feel so sorry for that girl......

I can't imagine living with such a calculating man.

What happened to her father as a migrant worker? What's wrong with her without a mother? And the reason why you look down on her?

Isn't your dad also an inconspicuous security guard? Just talking about things!

Don't you still take 2000 yourself?

Don't you have a house of your own?

Please don't ......Eyes on people?

You'd better not be with that girl, and don't hurt someone for the rest of your life.

People like you can't give happiness to others, and being with you is destined to be sad!

Do you know how precious a woman's youth is?

You are still suitable to find someone who can create the conditions for your happiness, even if it is age.

I think that only those people will not let you pay, but will give you what you want!

Finally、、、 I wish you happiness!

If you feel that your girlfriend and you are a good fit, you can get married.

After you get married, even if you help your brother-in-law, you must do what you can, if your financial situation is still very difficult, then you can not help at all, no one will blame you.

Once your girlfriend marries you, she will quickly devote herself to you, which is the nature of women.

It doesn't matter what you say, what else can you do

I've had a similar experience to you, something like this happening. I want to ask you, do you really love her? In fact, it may have been shaken in your heart a long time ago, and this question is just an excuse.

There is something in mind.

You're not. Objects that can be confided.

It is recommended to find his best friend.