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Not necessarily, the heart is clear, and the words are not speculative for more than half a sentence, which has nothing to do with the straightforward and fast talk.
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It is also normal for outspoken people to speak open-mouthedly and are easily misunderstood. To avoid such a situation, first of all, we should pay attention to the occasion when speaking, and secondly, we should pay attention to the proportionality of our speech, and never say something excessive.
Relationships between people are based on mutual trust, and as long as you speak in a way that most people can accept, that's the best.
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Hello netizens, the so-called too much will be lost, especially if you don't think about it in the brain, it is easier to be misunderstood and offend people, so think twice.
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But at the same time, I think that everything has to be grasped to a certain degree, and when you exceed a certain degree, then your behavior is a bad behavior. That's like those people who are straightforward, if you don't grasp a degree, if you are too straightforward, in the eyes of others, it will make people think that you are difficult to speak, you speak too straight, then such words will cause some harm to others, but some people will attribute this to saying, because I am straightforward and fast-talking.
I think that the words of such a person have misinterpreted the meaning of straightforwardness. Being outspoken is not a reason for you to hurt others. Straightforward and fast-talking can only be said to be a way for you to speak more directly.
So, if we meet such a person and you tell him, he still doesn't change or thinks he is doing the right thing.
Then you can tell him, then I will do this to you. Although this method may not be desirable, it seems to be a relatively low-level way of-for-tat used by elementary school students. But for these people who have no cognitive ability and have no reflection on their own behavior, you are the way you tell him, he will realize that his behavior is wrong, you can use the same way in the dialogue with him later, you can speak straightforwardly, without any worries, all the shortcomings in his body, let him feel the resentment in your heart at that time.
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I think this kind of person is really annoying, so if I meet this kind of person in my life, I will stay away from them, and I will not be friends with this kind of person, because this kind of person really can't distinguish the occasion.
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I will indirectly expose his true colors, and then let him teach him a lesson in front of the public, so that he will be a little more restrained in the future, which is generally more disgusting.
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In the future, you must learn the habit of listening more and talking less, that is, you can listen more to what others are saying, and try to speak as little as possible, so that you can make a lot of friends and avoid hurting othersTry to talk as little as possible, in fact, it's okay to be straightforward and fast.
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If I have a friend who is outspoken, I will definitely not talk too much with him in public, there is no problem in private, but I still have to pay attention to the crowded occasions to avoid causing some unpleasantness.
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I think that being straightforward is just a simple, clear and direct way to express yourself, and being straightforward does not mean hurting others, I think being straightforward and fast is a way to express yourself.
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He smiled and walked away from the other party. In the future, such people will keep their distance and not even make friends. It's as simple as that, because being friends with this kind of person who has no emotional intelligence can only pit yourself.
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I'll talk to her the way she speaks, and see how she feels. If she doesn't feel well herself, she realizes her problem.
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This kind of person is really annoying, how do you hurt my heart, how do you hurt me with words, I hurt you like this, first of all, if I find out that this person is like this, I will start to slowly distance myself.
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