What should I do if I feel unpleasant when I say something I regret on my behalf?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Self-reflection! I once had a conflict with a friend, and the day after the conflict, that is, after the anger was gone, I went to start self-reflection, whether I misunderstood my friend, because I also worked there, I know what kind of busyness it is, and the reason why my friend didn't reply to ** may be because she has been busy so that she forgets. I also began to recall the days when we struggled together, my friends bought me food, we went shopping together, and talked about our hearts together, what kind of feelings was that, I was so reckless to give a denial, was I too naïve and impulsive.

    In this way, I have been thinking about my approach from the perspective of a friend, and I feel more and more sorry for my friend, and I should have been considerate of her, but I have increased the burden on her, and I feel guilty instead. This is to have a tolerant feeling in terms of psychology and tactics, not only to think about other people's mistakes, but to think more about other people's good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Send an apology text message, if there are some things, it is not good for the third person to know, or the third person knows, and you need to solve the problem yourself, that is, in the usual sense, the bell must be tied to the bell. Then you might as well send a text message, apologize to your friends, and sometimes bow your head and admit your mistakes, not spineless, but a gesture, a kind of courage to save friendship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You might as well make an appointment, and when will you meet for dinner in the future. In the process of eating, these small frictions will unconsciously turn into laughter. The relationship between them has returned to what it used to be.

    You must know that women are good-looking, and only by thinking more about each other will they have a harmonious relationship, and they will be more and more smooth in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If it is a good friend, it is very normal to make trouble, because people's perceptions of things are very different, and there are inevitably some different views when communicating, and it is okay to argue with red faces, and the result is inevitably to seek common ground while reserving differences, mutual understanding and tolerance. If the argument turns into indifference, either party has the responsibility and obligation to be courteous and humble to the other party in a timely manner, and to eliminate the estrangement, so that in the long run, they can be called confidants and friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Friends should be honest with each other, tolerate and understand each other, and it's normal to make a little awkwardness, but you can't treat each other, no one pays attention to anyone, sometimes it's like this, no one is embarrassed to speak first, maybe you take the initiative, and the unhappiness between you will disappear.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If it is not a matter of bottom line and principle, compromise and proactive contact can be made for the sake of friendship. What's there? People are old good, and this sentence applies not only to love, but also to friendship.

    But if it really involves the bottom line and the principle of life, it is a different matter. My personal principle of making friends is: different ways, do not conspire with each other.

    Everything else can be ignored.

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