What does it mean for the boyfriend to say something like that

Another victim of a long-distance relationship.

Let's think about the benefits first: 1. First of all, your boyfriend must still care about you, but he doesn't know whether he is a lover-like love for you now, or a dependence after getting used to it. 2. Your boyfriend is very insecure about his current situation and is full of avoidance of unknown and uncontrollable things.

3. When it comes to talking about marriage, men generally think more, more macroscopic, rational and long-term. But it may seem a little cold to the girls.

Let's think about the worst: 1. Your boyfriend doesn't have a new girlfriend now, but he is very avoidant of you and a little bored with you. 2. Your boyfriend has a girlfriend and doesn't want you to go over, he wants to leave a good impression on you, or find an opportunity to explain to you as he thinks is appropriate.

Whatever the case may be, communication is king (preferably in person). Find out all the worries and worries of him, and then give your answers.

Finally, I wish that a lover will eventually become a family member, and the long-distance relationship will come to fruition I am dying.

Do you still need to redeem Your boyfriend made it very clear that he just wanted to break up with you, do you want him to say it more clearly?

First of all, you need to have a good talk with him, I personally feel that if he says that, there are basically three reasons, one is that he has found another person he likes; The second is that although he has no object, he feels that he has no feelings for you; The third is that his work and life are not smooth, and I am afraid that he will not be able to give you happiness. Like you said, if he wanted to marry you so much before, and you gave up some to go to him, he rejected you, which is a bit abnormal. If the conversation has made you fully feel that he has given up on you, you should also be mentally prepared to think about both outcomes before you talk, so that you can accept it more easily.

A few years of love has a certain emotional foundation, but that doesn't mean it won't change, if he really doesn't want to, then it will be the same result in the end. I also know that this is easier said than done, and emotional problems can really only be figured out by yourself, and what others give can only be referenced.

Or, you ask him directly, does he no longer love you, doesn't want to live with you in the future, ask directly, are adults, don't procrastinate, don't guess, be sure to ask the answers you want, those like you just said above, he is too irresponsible, and he puts the responsibility on you, is he still a man? "I don't know if our relationship can go back to its original sweetness" Can't it go back to its original sweetness? Will every day be as good as first love?

There is no eternal love in the world, and love must be sublimated to family affection to be permanent. "If you don't have to be me, I'd rather you find another one" That is, if you change, it's you who changes, not him, right? What a shame!!

He also said that he didn't want to get married before his job was stable, and that he might change jobs, saying that he was afraid of delaying me, and he was afraid that he wouldn't be able to bear the loneliness" asked him what he really wanted?? Don't pretend to be a good guy, okay? Adults can do whatever they want, if he really doesn't want to get married now, and you are not too young, you must get married within these two years, he doesn't agree, it can only prove that you are not important to him, the following, I won't say more...

- He is very clear and doesn't want you to be around him or supervise him or anything but doesn't want to break up with you.

What did he say? Whatever he does, he can't bear the loneliness, then you also tell him that you can't bear the loneliness, okay--

The tighter you stick, the more he panics and pushes you away.

You don't need to pay too much attention to him, who cares more about who suffers, you know, he told you not to go, you just said, oh, that's right, I have my friends and family here, and I just don't want to leave them so soon.

Beauty, love, don't hold on too tightly, don't care too much about these, or he's in a low mood. In short, you don't need to bother too much, really

I think his feelings for you have faded.

He wants true love and doesn't want you to leave him.