A serious illness finally made me understand that no mountain alliance and sea oath can defeat the r

Many people say that women can only endure loneliness in order to keep prosperity! But I have endured ten years of loneliness, and I still haven't kept the prosperity. A serious illness made me see thoroughly that no matter how much I swore by the mountains and seas, I couldn't resist the ruthlessness of reality.

I got married when I was 30 years old, and my husband was talented, but my family was poor. When my parents learned about it, they strongly objected, and they didn't understand why I would marry a "poor bastard" on my terms.

In fact, the reason is very simple, I think that only by working together with men to create a life can I have more confidence to enjoy it in the future.

After I got married, in order to support him in starting a business, I sold the wedding house they bought for me behind my parents' back. On the day he got the money, he was moved to tears, hugged me and said that he would definitely live up to me in this life and repay my kindness with the rest of his life.

Since I chose to be with him, I didn't think about repaying it. I quit my job and devoted myself to being the woman behind him, doing my best to serve my elderly and sick in-laws and take care of his life. Because of overwork, our first child did not see the first ray of sunshine in the world, and left forever.

Those days were difficult, but I got through them step by step. Just when I was dreaming of enjoying life, a sudden serious illness shattered all illusions.

It was a Sunday, and my husband rarely had time to sleep, so I went to the kitchen early to make breakfast for him as usual. The moment I got up, I suddenly felt a wave of vertigo and fell to the ground.

When I woke up, I was in the hospital.

I learned from my parents that I had a brain tumor, which affected the blood supply to my brain, but it was not very serious at the moment. The doctor recommended surgery as soon as possible, and my parents agreed, but when the family was consulted, my husband disagreed.

The reason is simple, the condition is not very serious, and there is no money in hand.

Seeing this, my parents were very emotional, and said that there was no money. No, they sold the house to me for surgery! I know they're forcing my husband to take a stand.

But what chilled me was that my husband didn't say a word during the whole process.

I know the family's economic situation better than my parents, and I originally tended to be conservative**, but my husband's attitude suddenly made me feel cold and a little uneasy in my heart. Afraid that my parents would be worried, I told them to go home first, and I discussed the operation with my husband.

After my parents left, we were relatively silent.

After a long silence, my husband said: "We have worked hard for so long to buy a house, and now that I have sold it, my parents will have no place to live immediately, and the company is now climbing, I am worried that after sliding down, there will be no chance to turn over." ”

After listening to him, tears fell from my eyes. For so many years, I sacrificed myself and accompanied him silently in loneliness, just to keep my own prosperity. But when I was dying or dying, it wasn't me who was most worried.

What do you say you will do in this life? What about repaying my kindness with the rest of your life?

I could endure loneliness, but I couldn't keep the prosperity.

An illness made me recognize a person clearly, and made me understand that no mountain alliance and sea oath can be worth a woman's "self-improvement and self-reliance".

I recognize that many couples feel tired and burdened because one of them is sick, and the relationship is not guilty.

It is very recognized, only when you are seriously ill, you can know who is the most true to yourself, and it can also make you deeply aware of how cruel the reality is.

I agree with this sentence, because any vow is very pale and powerless, reality is always very skinny, it can destroy all your dreams with a very strong deterrent, we should still recognize the reality.