What am I going to do! There are so many options!

First of all· You shouldn't just give yourself two paths so you won't be in such a hurry. If you don't like a man, don't go on a blind date. (I guess you don't think much of that man) Shenzhen is too far away, don't go.

It's not good for a girl to run too far away and have no relatives, and besides, your cousin is younger than you), you can find something to do in the small town next to your hometown, because you are still 19 years old· A lot of people don't understand human accidents very well· It's not good to go too far. Hometown, at least my own territory, is a little something, relatives can also have a care. Learn and understand this society at work, and then find something suitable for you to do in this life.

Choose your own life, and besides, isn't it a bit early to start thinking about marriage at the age of 19? I don't think you want to get married and have children early like your parents and then spend your whole life in the countryside, everything depends on how you "think", you can do what you want to do, and do more things that you want to do while you are still young

Finally, I would like to remind you, although I am also a post-90s generation and also look at constellations, but constellations are a form of entertainment and pastime after all, and society does not run according to constellations

Do what you want, maybe I'm talking about something you've heard and thought, if it's helpful for you, why not?

I really envy you for being so young! But now the general introduction is to introduce you, whether it is character or material aspects, it should be okay! Let's go see them all!

Give others a chance! Give yourself a chance too! I feel like I can talk about it first!

If you go out to work alone, the people around you will be worried!

You will be annoyed because you are not satisfied with the current situation and think that I can or can do better. At this point, you can move forward in the face of the difficulty, find out what the problem is, and solve it. I can also retreat bravely, which doesn't mean I can't, I have forgiven myself for this mistake, and I will definitely improve next time.

In short, the next one is the most important thing in my life, and I want to fight for it and persevere. Never let anything get in the way of me, so I want to get rid of my troubles. I'll definitely be able to.

Troubles ** are desires, and there are no worries if there is no desire. We are all ordinary people, and it is impossible to do without desires. Try to lower your expectations of people and things, and treat them with a normal heart.

It is normal to encounter unsatisfactory things in the process of life, no one will be happy all their lives, the important thing is not to make that unsatisfactory become the dominant in our life, but to let it become the driving force in our life, to increase our wisdom with ups and downs, we can get the source of true happiness in life.

A happy person is not because he has more, but because he cares less, knows how to find and find, happiness is a feeling, happiness is around us, right in front of our eyes, just in the minutes and seconds of time and space.

If we just want to be happy, it's easy to achieve. However, if we want to be happier than others, we will find it difficult to achieve it, because our imagination of other people's happiness is always more scattered than the actual situation. Many of life's troubles stem from the fact that we blindly compare ourselves to others and forget to enjoy our own lives.

Let's cherish the life we have now, cherish everything we have now, enjoy life, and don't compare with others!

This can be related to the path of life, dare not say anything, a few personal views for your reference: [If you have a personal lofty ideal for revenge, please take a detour].

1. The greatest happiness in a person's life is: work is just a hobby! This kind of cost-effectiveness is rare among the people I know, most of them, after a long time, they turn their interests into work.

Therefore, the first point is not recommended to be an important reference for choosing a career from the aspect of personal interests, at least in the second place.

2. You have just started employment, and the starting point is very important, which includes two meanings: a, the unit is promising [I compare it to soil]; b, the salary can not be low [the salary can also measure the power of a company, and the role is like moisture and sunshine].

3. Matter-of-fact: pressure problem, as long as you do things will encounter all kinds of pressure, you have less pressure at work, it is estimated that the pressure on life will increase, to make an inappropriate analogy: you are a teacher The pressure is small, but the salary is low, when you go to the street to buy vegetables and buy seafood, you will not be pressured to make up for you.

So put more pressure on yourself when you are young, will you be able to enjoy your old age when you are old?

4. To sum up: in your current situation: it is recommended to take economic construction as the basis, fully mobilize the principle of shopping around for vegetables, and give yourself the greatest choice and space.

Maximize the use of soil and sunlight. In a word: it doesn't have to be your girlfriend's unit, choosing a good platform, and the unit with the highest possible starting income salary are the first choice.

Because you have just graduated, you don't have to make big demands on your salary. Because you have just come out, the most important thing is to exercise, and then in the process of exercising, you will learn all aspects of work experience, as well as how to deal with people. Of the two options you mentioned, I think the second option is better.

Start from the grassroots level and make progress slowly. If you start with the luxury of expecting a job with a high salary and an easy job, you have to look at your own conditions. I have no superior background, what is the background.

Or maybe you have, but you don't want to rely on your home background or anything. There are always 20 days a month when I don't want to go to work. It's the same for all kinds of work, and when you get used to it, you find it boring and boring.

But if you really want to improve your abilities. You just take your time. Start from the grassroots.

And wow, isn't it nice to be with your girlfriend? Think about it yourself, that's all I have to say. Thank you for adopting.

If I were you, I would choose the latter, and not talk big, at least it would be a challenge and an experience for myself. Regardless of whether your girlfriend is in the same company or not, just do your job well, the salary is not a lot or a lot, and it depends on your usual performance to reflect the performance. The so-called pay is proportional to the return, I support you to go to the latter, it is a challenge for yourself!

I'm in sales, and now I'm in love with sales, really. Tens of thousands of wages per month are not to talk about it, or to accumulate experience and hard work in the workplace to get back, I hope you think about it carefully, sales is not ashamed, but a platform to reflect self-worth! I support you, friend.

I hope you can adopt thanks.

Friend, sales will make you pay a lot, if you are young you can try it, you can know the difficulties and quit, a job with a fixed income is much better than sales with a life. Remember that the profession of sales will cost you a lot of things, and the rate of return is low. It is difficult to feel safe about the people who like and like you in sales, whether it is in terms of income, the surrounding atmosphere and the grade of friends.

Of course, I'm not denigrating those salespeople, I just think you're not suitable, after all, your profession is not sales, and, in China, it's really impossible to rely on your own ability to get on top, not to mention who said that there is no room for growth as a teacher in a tutorial class? Hope it helps.