How do you choose between loving and being loved, between loving and being loved?

Updated on vogue 2024-07-16
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't remember reading an article that mentions the feeling of loving and being loved: Being loved can hurt the other person wantonly, and the other person has no complaints, and the other person's tolerant attitude will make you hate. Love can be wantonly hurt by the other party, and you don't have any complaints, and your own tolerant attitude will make the other party care about you even more.

    Very impressed... I remember asking every friend silly before, "A person who loves you, a person you love, who will you choose?" Most, almost all of my friends will tell me, choose the person who loves me, because that will make my life easier and I won't be tired, but is that the case?

    If I don't love the person who loves me, will it be easy and happy to be together like that Don't do to others what you don't want to do to others! But if I choose the person I love, it means that there is a difficult and difficult road to go, and I must always be ready for this road There is a danger that it will not work, how many people are willing to try this kind of dedication? People are like this, they won't cherish what they get easily, and they will regret it when they lose it You can hurt him wantonly to the person who loves you, because you know that he is willing to bear your hurt You can bear any harm he brings to the person you love, just because you love him...

    I knew that it was a difficult road to take, but I wanted to try it, until I was physically and mentally exhausted, scarred, until I couldn't turn back, I knew that I had taken the wrong road, and I knew that I had missed a lot of beautiful scenery on the road I had worked so hard to catch, and the so-called regret was like this! I always feel so tired and tired, even... A little confused, between choosing and being chosen, the most hurt, maybe.

    It's yourself ...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Put love at ease, and let love live. If you choose to love, then you will most likely be very hurt, painful, and sour. It's good to be loved, and you can find out in your interactions that his good feelings are cultivated. Give yourself a chance and give the people who love you a chance.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly.

    When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person. Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then.

    When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others." "When I'm loved, I think:

    It's a blessing to be loved! But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by. Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart.

    Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears. Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime.

    Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look, listen, and feel, with love and being loved, there will be struggles in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world. The illusion of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the constraints of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being loved

    In the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

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