The choice between loving and being loved? 10. The choice between loving and being loved?

Don't ask for both, it's impossible for such a man to live a lifetime, A has no ability to live on his own, is not self-motivated, and relies on his family. But B is not suitable for you, he is a cautious person, and he cares about your past, although he now says that he forgives you, but in fact, he will never be able to untie such a knot in his heart, now you are not married, you will get married in the future, live together, especially when you quarrel (it is impossible for husband and wife not to quarrel), he will definitely say that you used to be very casual or something, and expose your scars. Think about it, don't be reluctant to choose a husband, even if there is something you are not satisfied with, don't settle for it, you will regret it.

If I were you, I would tell B about the matter between you and A. If he really likes you, no matter how small his heart is, he will tolerate you because he loves you. If B can't accept it, what does such a man want him to do?

How can a small-eyed boy rely on it in the future! It is true that the conditions are good if the long handsome man has a job, but the woman who marries him is the person, and it is inside.

As for B, if I were you, I would ask him, have you never had a girlfriend yourself, haven't you been in the past? If he doesn't have a past, then I'm asking in vain. But I don't believe it, there are few pure men!

By the way, there is also A, if he is not motivated now, it does not necessarily mean that he will not be able to do it in the future, and you can be friends with him. Women still have to find love and love themselves.

Can you and B live for the rest of your life? I think you will be jealous when you see A with other girls, which means that you still like A, and it is better to choose A than B.

College students are most likely to encounter such a problem when they just graduate, looking for a marriage partner, in addition to the feeling, the most important thing is actually the realistic conditions, in fact, after getting married, feelings will naturally arise, so you still choose your fellow countryman, and from a man's point of view, never tell him what you have done before, you must not admit that you have lived together, admit it, even if you are married, you will definitely make trouble for this matter, and you yourself will hurry up to earn money and improve your status, Then the weight of your words will be heavy. But in the end, I feel like you're a little frivolous.

You need a calm mind to do this, and any problem will be solved.

Summary. Hello, if both parties have enough money to do, you can choose love. Because such love is very sweet.

Between loving and being loved, how should you choose as a woman?

Hello, if both parties have enough money to do, you can choose love. Because such love is very sweet.

Which one does a woman choose?

Choose who you like or choose who you are liked.

In this way, if the other party has no money, they don't love.

Ay. As long as the other party has money, they can directly choose to be loved.

Because life is not ideal, the reality is cruel.

Love can only need bread, but life cannot.

In life, firewood, rice, sauce, vinegar and salt are all needed, and love alone cannot last long.

Neither the person who loves nor the loved person is rich, how to choose, whether to choose the person you like or the person who likes me?

If you are still young, you can choose one you like to try to fall in love, and if you want to develop in the long run, choose one that loves you.

Because love is not marriage, love is to make yourself happy, and marriage is to live, in order to cope with all kinds of things in the future.

Can't let go, can't be reluctant, can't forget what to do, pain, how to give up a person who is in the heart and bones.

There will always be things in love that you are reluctant to let go, but when you mature, you will find that you have no time to grieve for love, because our life is not only about love, but for survival.

Everyone has people who love to the bones, but after a long time, I still feel sad when I think about it, so time will also soothe these unwillingness, although I can't forget it, but it will be much better, and you will not only like someone in your life.

I will definitely choose to be loved, I think it will be happier to be loved by others than to love others, so that I will not be so tired and I will feel very happy.

In fact, I will choose love, because only those who find their love can make themselves happier.

I choose to love. Because being loved is a passive relationship, it can't be well controlled in your own hands, and it is very unreliable.

Between loving and being loved, I would choose to love. Because if I'm looking for a partner, then it will definitely be someone I like, and if I choose someone I don't like to be with, even if he loves me very much, then I will feel very uncomfortable and unhappy.

I will definitely choose to be loved, a person loves himself very much, he will feel very down-to-earth in his heart, and the other party will also treat him with sincerity.

When love is faced with a choice, which one will you choose between loving and being loved?

If it were me, I would choose love.

Only when you love someone will you be willing to give, will you feel that life is full of energy, and will you move forward wishfully.

Many times in my life I have discussed this topic with my friends, and everyone's point of view is that we must choose to be the one who is loved, so that we will be happier, because it is very painful to only give without return, but it is very happy to be loved and taken care of, we are all greedy, hoping to be taken care of and loved and cared for by others. Because all men are selfish.

But I don't agree with this view, I think it's better to choose love.

If I choose to be loved, but that person is completely disliked by me, I will be reluctant and unwilling to care for me. More importantly, I feel guilty because I can't respond to the other person's love in a timely manner, and I can't give feedback.

But love needs to be equal, and the other party can't blindly give without asking for anything in return.

Of course, there is no right or wrong choice between loving and being loved.

As long as it is chosen by oneself and willingly, it is enough.

I choose love because I am the one who is willing to give, but in fact, the other party does not give as much in response as I do. But I also don't want to be the sad one, not giving the other person a little feedback and response.

In addition, I have a friend who said that the reason for choosing love is very important and reasonable. He said that if I choose the one to be loved and I don't like the other person, then there is a good chance that I will split my legs. Instead of making both parties miserable like this, it is better for me to choose the one I love from the beginning, in that case, I will never split others and hurt my lover.

So if you are a person who values love as very important in life, you must choose love, and if you don't see love as important, then you choose to be loved. In this case, it is more balanced.

I will choose the person who loves me, because it is too tiring and painful to love someone, since you love him, you have to pay attention to everything about him, he has been gone for a day, he has gone to play with friends, and he has no one, you have to worry, is it drinking too much again, is it safe to drive, everything he likes to eat, must be carefully bought back, take care of it, even if you can't do it, you have to try your best to do it well, and you have to be worried about whether it is good or not, whether it is salty or light, and when it is time, you have to boil the bath water, and the bath towels must be prepared. After eating, you have to make tea.

Anyway, since you love, he is all you have, you have to care about all of him, this is called tired and happy, otherwise everything is different, find someone who loves you, you can do nothing without bothering, your world is yourself, you do whatever you want, do whatever you want, travel life without worry, anyway, the person who loves you, will take care of everything for you, so it's good, live a princess-like life all day long, and there is a person who loves you to accompany you, think about it is a beautiful thing, I must find a man who loves me for the rest of my life.

When love and being loved are placed in front of you, how do you choose? It depends on whether you are a boy or a girl, and my responsible advice is that boys choose what they love, and girls choose to be loved, so that the choice is both safe and happy.

In real life, there are very few mutual love between the two parties who fall in love at first sight, and most of them appear in Korean dramas. So many times we are faced with the confusion of choosing between loving or being loved.

There is a big difference between men and women in the process of love, men as visual animals, see beautiful, good figures, like girls will take the initiative, sweet words, sugar-coated cannonballs do their best to please each other, and women as auditory animals are very much eaten, although they are very reserved at the beginning, in fact, the heart has already surrendered, enjoy it, so there is that sentence A man's happiness cares about his worthy of my love, and a woman's happiness cares that he really loves me.

If you are a girl, I emphasize again, you must choose a boy who loves you, so that you will not be too tired, although the woman chases the male compartment yarn, it is easy to catch up, but in the heart of the boy, the girl who is too active is still somewhat troubled, he will be cranky, unable to pay attention to you, maybe he will leave as soon as the novelty passes, and he will not care how painful you are.

What girls want in love is a sense of security, although they don't like the boy very much at first, with the increase in time together, the girl will slowly become dependent on the boy, or habitually slowly put into it, so women are doing addition in love, and the boy's bits and pieces will make the girl, a sensual animal, inexplicably moved, and the favor will gradually increase, and this good feeling will soon turn into love.

A man is just the opposite in the relationship, he is doing subtraction, full of enthusiasm in the early stage of love, and with the deepening of contact, the other party's shortcomings will be completely exposed, the freshness will gradually disappear, and the concentration will also shift.

Therefore, girls choose to be loved, the probability of being injured will be lower, and the possibility of happiness is greater, boys choose what they love, and girls who work hard to catch up with them naturally know how to cherish it, and they get a win-win love, girls are spoiled, and boys are loved.

Women should choose to be loved, because loving someone will be very tired, painful, and humble, but the feeling of being loved, cared for, and cherished is very happy, so women should choose to be loved for their own happiness.

In fact, women should still choose someone who loves them, because in this way they can make themselves happy.

Personally, I think it's most important to choose someone who loves herself, because I think it's very important for a woman to find someone who loves herself and loves herself in this life, and most women are very emotional, as long as he loves you and loves you enough, you will be touched, so that you will be happy in the future.

In contrast, choosing to be loved is the wisest choice, because in this way, the woman will be very relaxed in the relationship, and she can also get the love and care of the other party.

As a woman, you must choose to be loved, only in this way will you have the initiative in the relationship, and it will not bring too much pressure to yourself.