Why do I always like to stay at home and don t like to be in contact with outsiders?

I also like to stay at home and don't like to be in contact with people outside, for the simple reason that I don't feel like I have anything to say to those people outside. However, I like to ride an electric car to see the scenery alone, sometimes I meet strangers who think it's good, but I can talk a few words, but I don't know people around me very well, but they are not strangers, I have nothing to say, and I always have a feeling of wanting to avoid them. You don't have to worry too much, you don't like to contact with outsiders, it doesn't mean that you are depressed, it's best to keep a good mood, you don't like to contact outsiders, you can also play games, take a look, you must keep your inner world active!

Are you afraid to communicate with people, or do you not have any friends in the first place? Don't be because of your subconscious.

Affect you, you may subconsciously feel that you are not good at communicating with people, so you are afraid to communicate with people, maybe you should try to communicate with others, if you feel that it is too difficult to communicate with others in reality, then you should first get a few communication software to communicate with people (such as meeting, Momo, anyway, it is communication software), anyway, no one can see the reality of you, find your own advantages from these software, find confidence, in fact, everyone will have a side that is unwilling to communicate, because they think that is their shortcomings, You don't have anything, it's all common to people, so come on, you can, hope.

Maybe you have low self-esteem, going out to contact the outside world more will be good for you, if you just stay at home alone, then you will lose the opportunity to exercise yourself. After all, you can't be at home for the rest of your life.

Get out and talk to your friends more.

It's a common phenomenon, and you can ask a few friends who are on good relationships and extroverted to go out and get together.

I really don't want to go out Usually you can raise small animals at home, grow small potted plants, drink tea and read books at home.

If you have a relationship with your original family, it may be that your parents don't care enough about you, and you don't communicate much with your siblings, which leads to your estrangement from your family, and over time this reason has been formed.

I don't think this dislike is simply about personality and hygiene, and whether physical contact is a sensitive topic is also different from person to person. For example, Lao Mei likes hug (bear hug) and thinks it is a kind of cordial performance, but the Chinese people shake hands and don't touch other places, at first glance these are two cultural influences, in fact, it is the atmosphere influence. Think about it, the environment makes people, and the family environment affects us the most, and your friend may have a more traditional family, so he doesn't like physical contact.

In addition to the family environment, school, society, and even a critical thing can affect a person's sensitive points. He doesn't like it, because social things or some things in school give him the impression of disgust, and if this disgust deepens and then manifests itself as physical boredom, he doesn't like to have physical contact with others. Actually, it's nothing, as long as he knows that you are friendly, you are full of positive energy, you are a loving person, and he will express his gratitude and love for you in his way.

First of all, let's understand the relationship with your family emotionally, if you usually have a very good family relationship, you may feel a little embarrassed if you don't want to do this.

If it is because of the conflict, you feel that this will be a little uncomfortable, and you can solve the family relationship well.

If you don't like physical contact with family members, it means that you don't like to be too close to family members, and you expect to be able to do something alone, which means that you don't pay much attention to family affection.

I think it has something to do with my family of origin, my childhood, and my growth environment, I am such a person, I hugged my mother from behind when I was a child, my mother refused, and now I don't like my children to be intimate with me