Introverted and slow mature, I haven t gotten familiar with my colleagues for almost three weeks at

If you're trying to get acquainted too much, but you're a slow learner, this will cause you to make other people think you're familiar and not very familiar, so why bother you. If you want to chat, you can start with the work side, for example, if you see who among them is the best talker, you can ask some work questions first, so that you can gradually find the opportunity to talk to them about other hobbies or daily life. Another is to find someone who has the same hobbies as you, so it's faster to be familiar with it There are other questions you can ask me.

Don't think about the question of whether to do it or not, you first have to figure out why others don't talk to you, you can have no reason for a colleague to talk to you, but all colleagues don't talk to you, then there is a problem, people in a strange environment, very afraid that it is a natural thing, you also said that there is basically no time to chat every day except for work, then you can communicate with them at work, if the company does make you feel difficult, then resign, so that you feel comfortable. A little humble opinion, just for reference.

In fact, it's very simple, when you have nothing to do, buy a bag of melon seeds or snacks or something, and ask a colleague who is not familiar with it to come to order it.

You don't have to spend a lot of money, so you can eliminate the embarrassment at once.

I can't figure it out, and I said that I didn't know my colleagues for half a month.

Stick to it, learn to greet others every day, ask early or something, and slowly it will be fine.

Do more small things and be part of the group.

You still have to overcome your habits, and the escape will only get worse and worse.

Talk less and do more, and after a long time, you will naturally become familiar.

Don't keep a sense of distance from everyone, anyway, they are all working to make money, there is nothing familiar with it, compare your heart to your heart, and you don't have to deliberately please them, try to get closer to them, ask them if you don't understand, chat when you have time, ask if it is **, find a topic by yourself! Hehe, that's how everybody came over.

Alone! It's you who are too worried, they are all old acquaintances, you are a newcomer, when chatting, listen to the topic, do you have a common topic, if not, learn more about their topic.

Pour tea, sweep the floor, deliver newspapers. In addition, please eat can also build a relationship relatively quickly. Look at people accurately,

I'm a rookie too. Can't help you.

The easiest way to do this is to go out for a drink together and you'll be ready to cook quickly.

Introverts don't need you to take the initiative to answer! Introverts are best suited for being serious at work! Express yourself at work!

Introverts are suited to action, and in the details! Hope you can draw inferences! That's all I can do for you!

Don't ask me any other questions! I like this saying: It's better to rely on others than on yourself!

But don't be too showy, either! It's better to add your boss to the limelight! This way you will slowly gain trust!

The personnel will slowly come up! Properly put the achievements on the boss's head, there are only benefits and no harm! Just one annoying question today!

It is recommended that you have nothing to talk about QQ, find a few more people to chat with, and add a chat group.

I'm a very extroverted person, so I can't feel your pain, but I think you should train yourself to be cheerful!

First of all, we must realize that there are two sides to the introverted personality: the bad side is not good at communicating with others, and the good side is that it will be very popular if you say less and do more, so that everyone feels sincere and down-to-earth. In light of this, the first thing you should pay attention to is to play to your strengths and avoid your weaknesses.

is originally an introvert, but he prefers to make extroverted behaviors, such as drinking and frolicking with colleagues, which is very contrived and the effect is not good. Showing generosity, sincerity and down-to-earth to your colleagues is what you need to do the most. First impressions are important, and those impressions are quick to gain affection and familiarity with colleagues.

I'm in the same situation as you Today is also the first day of work It's also a day of silent work The person who took me said that there was nothing to do today if I wanted to leave But I didn't dare to move since I sat down I haven't even touched my saliva in the morning I don't even know what to do I study on my own I am very enthusiastic with people I know but I will be afraid of strangers Yes Fear is not shy.

Remember to say hello and smile, slowly get acquainted, no one says you have to play with them very well. Do your duty well and have no regrets.

Just get used to it. I do administrative. I was scared at first. I wouldn't even dare to speak if it wasn't for the boss calling me.

It's all the same, I've only been in this company for less than 3 months, and when I first came, I was doing it silently, and I didn't know what to do there (I did it for almost 1 month), in fact, it was also a process, and I slowly said a few words to my colleagues, and I became familiar with them, and now I have a good relationship with them.

Listen to what they're talking about, and then go home and get a little bit of a little bit of a surface, and then go to them the next day and listen, and then interject a couple of sentences, and then someone else speaks, and you say it when you're done, and then or something like that.

Your personality is so cute, just like me, it's easy to let go and face a new environment.

Then you try to chat with your colleagues, eat together, hang out and so on.

Buy some snacks to share with them, and treat them to dinner after work.

Take a look at what your colleagues are doing and find something to talk about, such as what men like to play games and what clothes women like to buy. Then I can bring some souvenirs or something to my colleagues. This will help you build relationships well.

Eat together.

Commute to and from work.

Work to be your own, no matter what others do.

Take the initiative, get more water, mop the floor,

Wait, this is the stage of mutual temptation, and whoever goes to a strange place on the first day is like this. If you want to be fast, you are optimistic, greet you happily every day, be enthusiastic, and work positively. Everyone will let go of that strangeness and laugh and laugh.

Don't have bad thoughts, it's not a bad thing. Personality dictates. Remember to cheer yourself up every day.

First of all, as long as the kung fu is deep, the iron pestle is sharpened into a needle. Since you have been able to work in the same place for more than a year, it can be seen that you have abandoned all prejudices and persevered, which many people do not have, and you should feel satisfied and confident about it. Secondly, there is also a reason why you subconsciously avoid the opposite sex who you have a good impression of, because you feel that you are not capable of giving her a good life and needs, you are a responsible boy, but this level is not a stumbling block for you.

Maybe you should work steadily step by step, complete employment, and then pursue your favorite and excellent people, or maybe young people are strong and strong, on a whim, and feel that I just want to break my inferiority complex, and in order to change myself to pursue others, if so, I fully wish you success in holding hands. I can't help you much, try to improve yourself and be an excellent person.

Observe if he unconsciously imitates your movements, even if it's just a little bit like it. If he unconsciously touches your things, it means that he still has some crush on you.

You'd better die. Personality is predestined. Change is hard. Doomed to fail.

Go boldly and wish you a long way.