I m very low key, very simple, very introverted, very withdrawn, how to get along with online lovers

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Everyone has a position for themselves, and if you position yourself as a "low-key, down-to-earth, introverted and withdrawn" person, you will subconsciously develop these personality traits, but you will not realize it.

    So from now on, you start to suggest to yourself that you are a "low-key, down-to-earth, cheerful, active、...... personIf you don't want to be in a crowded place, you can first observe the vitality and vitality of cats and dogs, flowers and grass in a quiet park, and slowly turn to a crowded place to find beauty! But if you don't achieve a good effect in your heart, don't pretend, pretending will bring the opposite effect!

    Positive thoughts will bring you a lot of goodness, beauty will bring you vitality in life, and vitality will make you bring active breath to your companions!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Do whatever you want, don't pretend to be too tired.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    People like you think it's actually the reason why you get along less with others, and talking more with friends will make a difference, like you may be the opposite of you in the real world if you want to meet your friends now, I think there is only one possibility, and that is very embarrassing, two people keep wandering in one place, and if she is cheerful, it will be different, and the situation will be much better, or you will take your friends with you, bring the right pair of lovers and friends, or she will be more attentive.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Go slowly. Give more time to everyone.

    The biggest drawback of the Internet is that everyone is relaxed when they don't meet, which is good. When it comes time to meet and be able to meet, two people (or one of them) are anxious.

    Anxious to take the relationship one step further. It ignores the fact that people also have to have a process of adapting and becoming familiar with each other's bodies and appearances.

    I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. It's better to take it easy before you fully understand it, and remember that feelings need to be cultivated slowly.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Be bold and careful, and be cheeky enough to stop.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Adapt to each other, change each other, and tolerate each other, including strengths and weaknesses.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think that people's lives should not only be interesting, but valuable! I think you should communicate more with your classmates or peers, find common topics (e.g. games), and tell jokes if you want to increase your sense of humor!

    Learn to believe in yourself and express yourself! You can do better!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm just like you, so keep climbing up and become a human being, and it's also a kind of fun to change slowly and listen to the advice of friends.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm just like you, so it's fun to keep climbing up and being a human being.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Enrich yourself more. I have the bottom of my heart. Naturally, you can talk to others. And then there's the need to be confident. ,

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you have any friends? If so, it means that your friends don't care about your own shortcomings, so why should you care? If you want to become perfect, you have to change a lot of things that you may not want to change, I don't think it's necessary, just be your current self.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since you know that you are not good, why not change, be bold, believe in yourself, you can.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Change slowly and listen to your friends' advice.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1: I used to be a taciturn person, I basically didn't have any friends who didn't like to talk, I was basically alone, or I disappeared one day and no one might find out.

    2: Later, I was slowly driven by the people around me, and I began to talk more, and I was humorous, and I had more friends, so I said that I should try to get along with others and take my own step to live a better life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello! You should be suffering from social phobia, you should slowly change your mentality, don't often have an inferiority complex, be confident, be positive, and communicate more with strangers. Also know your own shortcomings, and strengths, and learn from each other's strengths.

    Find the root of your inferiority, improve your shortcomings, and increase your strengths. Don't care too much about what others think of you, be confident and always say to yourself: you're good, you're good, you can do it.

    Believe in yourself and wish you can change for yourself and for the people around you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First of all, you want to make yourself better. You can make your life more fulfilling by allowing yourself to have a skill in the field you are interested in. Be yourself, and naturally there will be people who are attracted to you as you are and take the initiative to communicate with you.

    Then, you have to learn to get yourself out of your comfort zone, be brave, and go talk to people and have a chat. You can start with strangers and talk about anything.

    Talk more, and gradually you won't be afraid to talk to others

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