How do you behave in the world? Is there a system or a certain sentence?

Smile more, help people more, and be a good person who keeps a low profile.

Bullshit, a word of endure. No way, no money, no background.

If you treat someone wholeheartedly, the more you want to be nice to them, the less you will get the other person's attention. For the sake of their relationship with each other, they keep a low profile everywhere, but allow themselves to become more and more humble. In fact, no one takes you seriously, mainly for three reasons, and you can't be wrong.

1. It's the same good temper for everyone.

The reason is simple and easy to understand. You see everybody's smiles. No matter what the problem is, you'll solve it with a smile.

This will make others feel that no matter what you do wrong, you won't be worried. In any case, even if you make a mistake, you are still behind the solution. Well, you just calmly say that it's all over.

Conversely, if you're a moody leader, you'll be strict when you're supposed to be strict, and you'll be strict when you're supposed to be joking. On the contrary, these employees will understand the consequences of their actions, and they will respect you.

2. He is so kind to everyone that there is no bottom line.

It is right to be kind to others, but that doesn't mean there is no measure of kindness. The more this is the case, the more you will be bullied by others. In fact, just because you are kind, some people will appreciate you, but if you are too kind and have no bottom line and no yardsticks, no one will care about you and take it for granted.

Even, when your kindness is in the eyes of those who don't know how to be grateful, it will be the beginning of reinforcing the need.

3. It has no value and mediocre qualifications.

In fact, no one takes you seriously, but it has to do with your own abilities. If your abilities are mediocre, you don't have skills, you don't have any value that you can highlight to the outside world, even if you are arrogant and aggressive towards others, you can exchange some kindness on the surface, but in reality, they are secretly looking down on you at all. When you want something, make sure you deserve it.

Therefore, if you want to be respected by others, you have to make yourself valuable and capable. Only by truly respecting yourself can you earn the respect of the whole world.

It may be because your emotional intelligence is not particularly high, you offend many people when you speak, you are more emotional, more selfish, and your ability is not particularly strong.

It may be that you are particularly kind, and you have no bottom line, no principles, or you have no strength, and everyone has a good temper, average qualifications, and no skills.

If others don't take you seriously, then your influence is poor. If you don't have the ability, your sense of presence will be relatively low.

Your abilities are too weak, you are not a threat to others, your performance is not eye-catching, your personality is not compatible, you are not very considerate of other people's feelings.

Don't care about small things, don't be confused about big things, and the harder you work, the luckier you are.

Eat seven points full, and leave three points of land carefully before speaking.

Do your best, and the results will take their course.

Life is too short, and it is worth treating with heart.

Time is precious, and the wrong people should let go as soon as possible.

If you take profit too seriously, you will lose yourself.

Money is only a means of Brother Hui, and happiness is the goal.

Don't make a big fuss about small things.

Don't lower your principles for the sake of petty evils.

Don't live too transparently, sometimes it's better to be a little confused.

Don't always be too kind, be sensible in your kindness.

When you've experienced more, you'll see it.

When you can see it, you put it down.

By speaking, you can see how a person behaves in the world.

01 People who are low-voiced and cautious in dealing with the world, are very vigilant, and often consciously or unconsciously keep a certain distance from others. They are introverted, shy, indecisive, lack self-confidence, and never reveal their deep thoughts easily. They are tolerant of others, never embarrass others, and try to avoid trouble.

There is also a type of person who, in the process of talking to others, will become quieter and quieter. This kind of person likes to engage in small actions and is prone to internal strife, so we should be vigilant against this kind of person. 02 People who change their voices according to the objectThese people belong to the eight-sided people, and they usually say what they see and say.

In the face of those who are inferior to them, they immediately become arrogant and invincible; In the face of the boss, he whispered and seemed very obedient. This type of person is very patient, but likes to pass on the repression received by the boss to subordinates, in public places, or at home. They are accustomed to playing prestige with their subordinates, going to the store to buy things, and making unreasonable demands on the salesperson.

This type of person has a strong sense of inferiority and aggression in his personality.

What is the way to behave in the world, at work and in daily life, do you dare to lose your temper?

Answer: To be a man is to be realistic, to be a man to be natural, human development is slow, and real life is to keep pace with the speed of human development. Lao Tzu's Tao Te Ching: Man is the law of the earth, the earth is the law of the sky, the heaven is the law, and the Tao is the nature.

Go with the flow, naturally, work to nature, nature, nature, Chinese traditional culture attaches importance to nature.

People can be lazy, but they can't be unresponsible.

Whether it's love or friendship:

I am most afraid of giving with sincerity, but I will be ruthlessly disappointed.

You are honest, and everyone wants to get you closer;

You are sincere, and everyone is willing to have a heart with you.

As a man, if you are affectionate and righteous, you can win the world and win people's hearts.

This article was first published in Gewu Reading (gewuliangzhi)!

If you are generous, don't make friends with people who like the AA system.

How to behave in the world? Stay away from situations that make you feel unhappy; Stay away from places where there is no value for growth.

What does it mean to behave in a way? It means that the people or things that people come into contact with in life, in the process of dealing with interpersonal relationships, some will come to things, and some will not come back, it depends on the way each person handles it.

Words are a general term for people and things, including aspects of being a person and doing things. Appreciating others is a realm; Being kind to others is a kind of mind; Caring for others is a quality; Paying attention to others is a kind of self-cultivation; Helping others is a pleasure; Learning from others is a form of wisdom; Visiting friends is a habit.

Do things to think comprehensively, and do whatever you can't think. I can deal with everything calmly, and I maintain a good relationship with everyone.

1. Talk less and do more.

Work results are made, not spoken. You have to prove your abilities with excellent work results whenever and wherever you are. You may be able to fool yourself for a while, but the end result is that you will be spurned by your boss or colleagues!

2. Patience and self-cultivation.

There are many examples of failures in life because we lack the patience we deserve. The success of some things in a person's life often depends on whether you can persevere a little longer--- effort

In addition, we must have a certain degree of self-cultivation in dealing with people, be tolerant, and must not be too sharp. When you should endure something, you must endure it, and you have to forgive and forgive others.

3. Generous and friendly salutation.

Get along with others, no matter who the other party is, you must call each other appropriately, even if you are joking about someone's name, you must also be measured, stop in moderation, and you must not only care about your own mouth and hurt the self-esteem of others!

Fourth, be cautious when interacting with someone for the first time and how to arouse the interest of the other person when talking.

No matter when and where we interact with people, especially with strangers, we must observe words and colors, figure out the intentions of the other party, and it is worth interacting with each other, gradually; If it is difficult to communicate or cannot be communicated, it is necessary to analyze the reasons, and once the answer is found, it is necessary to withdraw in time, and must not be rash and even fall into the quagmire of making friends!

If the other party is trustworthy, you can find out his interests and hobbies in time, provoke common topics, and make the other party feel that you are a person with similar interests. Instead, you should step back and stop the conversation in time. As the saying goes:

There are fewer than a thousand glasses of wine for a confidant, and there is no speculation in half a sentence! "That's the truth.

5. Pay attention to your own voice.

At any time, you should adjust the decibel of your voice according to the different occasions and the people you are talking to, especially in public places, you should try to control the volume, and you must not sound like a bell, as if no one is around! Of course, there are special situations and sometimes you have to speak loudly, that's a different story.

6. When talking to people, focus on the use of facial expressions and avoid dancing.

When we talk to people, we should not only pay attention to the art of language, but also use facial expressions naturally and appropriately. According to the person and the content of the conversation, the change of facial expressions can be properly controlled, which can create a conversation atmosphere and increase the charm of language! However, it is important not to ignore the other person's feelings, indulge in wantonness, dance with hands, and make the other person feel disgusted.

7. Speak concisely and appropriately with appropriate words.

When talking to people, try to be simple and clear, don't drag the mud and water, and talk for a long time to make people confused. In the process of conversation, it is necessary to use accurate words, and do not fail to convey the meaning and cause unnecessary trouble.

Many of the troubles in our lives are caused by the misuse of words.

8. Speak to your liking, but avoid hypocritical words.

When talking to people, try to give them what they like, otherwise it will be difficult to talk about. Sometimes we have to talk to people because of the needs of work or life.

This person must be in black and white, get along with gray scale, must grasp this measure, advance and retreat in a certain way, abide by the principle, neither make simple words, nor secretively, know the world but not the world, out of the rivers and lakes and far away from the rivers and lakes.

Reservations: Excessive arguments are not helpful and unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

If you are generous, don't make friends with people who like the AA system.

One of Du Yuesheng's sons also stayed in Shanghai as a liaison officer, often traveling back and forth between Shanghai and Hong Kong to deliver information. Regarding the invitation of the Communist Party, Du Yuesheng said that he could not return to the mainland for the time being due to poor health, but he should act in accordance with the spirit of Pan Hannian's instructions to "serve the people as much as possible."

It depends on the environment. How about the language of communication, (reject the little leopard later.) )