How did you choose your girlfriend and can you talk about it?

Innocent and a little childlike. If a man really likes a woman, he should take care of her innocence to the greatest extent. A woman who has not lost her childlike fun can make the long and boring eyes look at each other endlessly.

There is no excessive material desire.

This is very important! Since ancient times, it has been thrifty and extravagant. What's more, being content with the status quo and optimistic nature allowed her to continue her youth.

Excessive vanity often makes men who are not "wealthy" nervous, and even overwhelmed by it. My daughter-in-law should be able to ride a BMW car and a bicycle; Five-star hotels can live, camping tents are not disliked, and you have to suffer hardships to become a superior person.

Two conditions, kindness at heart and filial piety to parents.

As long as you really love me.

Strong work ability and a skill. Women at work obviously don't have much time to be suspicious. Having a skill will make her feel comfortable and control her emotions well.

Full trust, relative freedom. It is actually human instinct to like the new and hate the old, and no one can guarantee that they will only have a good impression of one person for a lifetime. I advise all women who are about to get married to study "Medical Psychology" with their hearts, fully understand their husbands' hobbies of gazing at beautiful women in pictorials and web pages, and do not find fault with these subconscious behaviors.

To do otherwise is to push the marriage to death. He wanted to be alone for a while, not to ask what was going on, just bring a cup of tea and close the door gently.

Thoughtful and tasteful. She has a mind that makes her disdain to meddle in the gossip of others, and she has always been an "insulator". Tasteful allows her to express her style with ingenuity.

I can't tolerate my wife not being able to walk when she sees anything, it's not that I'm poor, I can't get used to her problem!

The most important quality of a woman should be kindness, and filial piety comes first. I don't know how many hard-working men in the world are suffering from the splint between their daughter-in-law and their own mother? If I were a man, if the girl who was going to be my daughter-in-law dared to ask me, "If I fell into the river with your mother, who will you save first?"

I'm going to get her out, it's not human talk at all!

Be well-educated and sensible. A woman's temperament and upbringing are the expression of a rich heart, and it is also where she really distances herself from others.

Sensible. The most important thing for a man is dignity, she can lash out at me at home, but she can't sarcastically or ridicule me in public. A woman who doesn't know how to uphold her husband's dignity doesn't want it.

When it comes to the lull period, the style of painting changes. You will find that your girlfriend doesn't like to take the initiative to chat with you, because most boys are in a state of listening more when chatting, and once your girlfriend stops looking for topics, boys don't know how to find new points to continue chatting. So the topic ended.

You should now fall into the latter category. Your girlfriend doesn't want to always take the initiative to talk to you. Her interest in you has been halved, and slowly, you will have nothing to talk about.

She is also reluctant to develop new topics to talk to you about. You also have to learn to be a little coquettish, occasionally gentle, occasionally domineering, and tolerate her little willfulness and temper.

My girlfriend and I would chat happily, happily, sweetly, playfully, and seriously.

My girlfriend and I talk when we have something, and we don't talk when we don't have anything, we just say something.

We will talk about some things that interest each other and talk about things in daily life, so that two people can communicate better, communicate better, and avoid many conflicts.

Maintain a normal chat frequency and chatting style. Joke when you should be joking, and be strict when you should be rigorous. Use your own responsibility and responsibility to be a good girlfriend.

Generally, they talk about some trivial things in life, because two people have been together for a long time, and there are fewer topics.

Two people in love chatting is caring for each other, asking each other for warmth, and saying ambiguous words to each other.

I think you just need to communicate with your girlfriend normally, and at the same time, you need to fully respect your girlfriend.

1. Talk about topics that your girlfriend is interested in. Second, you have to be as careful and careful as possible. Overall, I don't think there's anything to avoid when chatting with your friends, just treat it normally.

I will take the initiative to stir up the topic, arouse the interest of the other party, try not to be cold, and say something about myself.

Chatting with your girlfriend starts with getting to know each other and ends with a return to your daily routine. My chat with my girlfriend is divided into three stages: the familiarization period, the love period, and the quiet period, because as the relationship progresses, the understanding of each other is more and more deep, and the content of the chat naturally changes.

1. Familiarization period.

The familiarity period is also the freshness period, during which the relationship with the girlfriend has just been confirmed, and they both want to know each other better. Therefore, most of the chat content is to play together, go on a date, create good memories that belong to each other, and continue to understand each other deeply until they have a certain understanding of each other's personalities, living habits, and tempers. Since it feels fresh to each other, this period is full of motivation.

Second, the love period.

Men and women who are in love are in a strong relationship, so no matter what they talk about, they find it very interesting. During this period, they got along very well, even if they quarreled, it was sweet, and the content of the chat was obviously very daily, but it just felt happier. In addition, the quarrel during the love period will expose each other's three views, but many people will ignore these problems because of the strong feelings, whether the two are looking for a new topic to talk about, or talking to please each other, they are in a state of hormonal explosion on both sides, get along happily, and deal with conflicts very quickly.

During this period, girls have to chat more like proof of love, and boys are the giver.

3. Flat period.

When the relationship reaches a certain level, it will return to daily life and become dull. In the same way, when the chat reaches a certain level, there will be no conversation. But at this time, they are familiar with each other to a certain extent, so even if they don't have anything to talk about, they can get along very well.

The daily chat content will be very bland, like: "Have you eaten", "What are you going to eat together", or even "Help me get a piece of paper". It is normal for the relationship to enter a flat period, and the content of the chat also begins to become flat.

My girlfriend and I tend to ask each other questions, because we're both slow people, so we have to use this chat.

My girlfriend and I both chat through rational communication, because I think this way of chatting is conducive to the relationship between two people.